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myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people 2 years ago

When I respond to a newbie discussion on myLot, I always check the profile for gender, age,and country of origin. Perhaps I'm nitpicking, but this additional information helps considerably when making a response. Of late, however I'm finding the profiles lacking of this critical enlightenment. Often when there is no personal material offered, I feel handicapped, and just move on to another discussion.
Do you like to have personal facts at hand while responding to a new myLotter's Post?
Are you bothered by a blank profile?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. picjim (2223)   ranked 3,480 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

I never look at the profile unless the question is a bit tricky.I prefer to concentrate on my reply.Though as you say a glance at the profile will help us in tailoring our response to the person and his preferences.Initially in any website i'm a bit careful in revealing all personal details as i'm apprehensive of misuse.So i give this benefit of doubt to newbies but there is no reason to withhold information after we have gained confidence in the veracity of the site.


myLot reputation of 89/100. pmbhuntress09 (987)   ranked 6,190 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

I only have one problem with that, The site is honest, but how do you know all of the people that may visit your page are? I had to delete my old account because of a stalker, he even knew what town I lived in and where I was because he had an IP tracker on his profile page, he knew my exact address. So its visitor beware.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20638)   ranked 825 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

Barehugs are you aware that there are Lotters with profiles stating that they are females but their activity is that of a male and vice-versa? Anyone can enter anything in their profile data and until they are caught they get away with it.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. oldchem1 (3564)   ranked 1,516 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

To be honest this is something that I have never done.
But thinking about it it makes good sense to know just how to reply to a person in the best way by knowing age, nationality etc.

I haven't really checked any profiles yet so can't answer about the blank profile question, but I shall certainly check out profiles in future.

Thank you for the advise


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

Can you imagine wearing a blindfold while being introduced to someone. How would you begin a conversation? You don't know his/her age, or where he/she resides! Is he/she a male with a high pitched voice, or a female with a bad cold?


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20638)   ranked 825 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

The information in the profile states 'location' and not 'nationality. The two are different but many misinterpret that information.

My location is correct and is Italy. Does that automatically make me Italian?

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3. myLot reputation of 89/100. pmbhuntress09 (987)   ranked 6,190 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

I personally have never been into anyone's profile to look, to me its of no interest unless if they want to add me as a friend, then I may or may not go and look. But to me that info is the persons choice to add or not. I don't care to have everyone in the world have my information. Why would it bother me if some of theirs is missing. Its privaye info, that we may want to keep to ourselves.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

Of course its the choice of the mylotter. But without the personal facts this Poster will not get the same number of responses he/she would have received if he/she had provided the appropriate profile information.

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4. myLot reputation of 78/100. 3honor (9740)   ranked 1,338 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

Yes a lack of personal info like gender, age and country of origin bothers me too. But I find responses and discussions started more useful to see if they share my interests therefore I can respond as a friend.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

Yes, that's exactly my point also. I believe its only fair (and polite) to introduce yourself when you come into the company of others!


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20638)   ranked 825 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

Our profiles show the location of the user not the origin whistle


myLot reputation of 99/100. richnai (5180)  2 years ago

Very interesting discussion. I put everything down on my profile that is truthful. Why not? I am me. I like me and hopefully you will also. And as mentioned, if I am full of it, my responses will certainly bear out the truth!

Why I check out profiles for the main is so that I can give a response that will make sense to the author. (may be redundant , think I told this to someone already). If I am advising a young person it will not be with same terminology I use with a professional!


myLot reputation of 99/100. binggaling (3664)   ranked 88 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

I am me. I like me and hopefully you will also. - great line, richnai! thumbup it reminds of the title of a book, "i'm ok, you're ok." sometimes, in the online world, it becomes "i am me, i don't like me, so i will assume a different identity here so you will like me." whistle

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48762)   ranked 437 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

hi barehugs the only time I really check someones profile is when they have maybe 5 points and like 200 friends ,and fifty perhaps ptc sites and want me to accept them as a friend. well seeing how they had hardly any acitvity on mylot I feel I am being asked to be a referral to all those ptc sites, and am just used so now I check and deny friendship to those who do not really want to bother being very active on mylot at all. I dont as a rule check profiles for every time I respond to a newcomers discussion. To me thats being a little paranoid and I have trusted a lot of wonderful people here who have been real friends to me. very occasionally I will check a new user if his or her discussion is really breaking all the rules.thumbupcheeringhugs


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

My concern is not about rules. Its about being fair and friendly! How can anyone ask for a response to their Post if they are hiding their identity?


prince05 (57)   ranked 9,922 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

i agree to your response barehugs!!! i mean, why do these people be hiding their identity? well, people have the right to hide their identity but this is not fair to others....

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. binggaling (3664)   ranked 88 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

i take time to check the profile if it's related to the discussion.

about 2 months back, i remember a member asking about earning online and studying. i checked the profile and it's a teenager. so i tailored my response to include if it's affecting his studies, if he's spending time with his family, helping in house, etc.

i also responded around that time to someone who wanted to get married even if he's jobless. i checked the profile and the guy is in his 20s already so i asked him if both families will agree because 1, who will spend for the wedding? where will they live, their daily needs, when the wife gets pregnant, etc?

sometimes, having a picture helps even without the details in the profile. sometimes you also get an idea from the discussion itself. if a member prefers a blank profile, then it's up to him/her to clarify things in the course of the discussion if there is a need for it.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

When you are responding to a teenager your answer will be different than if you were responding to a senior. Same if its a male, of female poster. When these facts are hidden it just puts me off. I for one just won't bother! This will definitely cost the newbie money.


myLot reputation of 99/100. binggaling (3664)   ranked 88 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

i only do that if it has some bearing on the discussion. otherwise, i don't. like just today, i joined a discussion about summer. since it's already summer where i am, i had to clarify that first but still answer the question. so it's really a case to case basis. of course, it's still your choice who you respond to. i don't mind the extra effort. even with a blank profile, you can also get clues from the activity, discussion started, photos, etc. happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20638)   ranked 825 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

'This will definitely cost the newbie money.'
Why? They will not earn for your response. They only earn for what they type like everyone else.

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. mac_fish (382)   ranked 2,019 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

I'm not definitely.
I'd like to leave the personal infor aside and pay my attention to the topic he/she starts and what I'm gonna respond to the post started.
Why do u have to check the private profiles filled in the blanks of self infor before leave ur comments,I donnt think the lacking of such sort of things will influence u to fail ur comments,there are ever no relations between private infor and topic itself.......
Happy mylotting


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

Gender, age, and country of origin can hardly be classified information. There are at least 205 million people living in the US. Gender is split, and age can be anywhere between 16 and 106. Now come-on! How paranoid can you get?

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8. mlloyd23671 (27)   ranked 14,146 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

i dont really think that profile information is persay important in regards to answering a discussion. i mean will it determine whether or not you are willing to answer? Or will it change the content in which you are going to write? i feel like if the question is simple thenanswer it... but if not and you don't have the patience to figure it out... then move on


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

Yes, exactly. You have put it very nicely in a nut-shell! It's not going to hurt me when I move along to the next poster - but its going to cost the paranoid myLotter money!

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9. prince05 (57)   ranked 9,922 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

personally, i am bothered responding to a person's discussion with a blank profile. knowing the profile of that person, somehow would help me understand
why he reacted that way on certain topic or issues..personal background, culture, and experiences the like can affect a person's way of looking at things around him...this is also what i need to grasp and understand fully the message the person is trying to imply.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

We think the same way here! Age, gender, and country of origin and necessities when answering a Post. The responder needs an idea of the cultural background on which to base his response. A teenager girl from China will not grasp the significance of the response if its directed to a senior male from Greece.


myLot reputation of 95/100. mysdianait (20638)   ranked 825 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

So a user who states their location as China is what? Chinese? Why? They might have been there when they registered but could have been born anywhere at all.

There are many youngsters here who have placed their age as older and older people who pose as younger and that shows in their posts if we take the time to put the two things together.

Profile information is not always what it appears to be at first glance and location is not the same as origin.

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10. myLot reputation of 82/100. adeena2000 (675)   ranked 1,857 out of 26,919 in people   2 years ago

I am also doing the same thing like you, sometimes you find way how to position your answer to someone that you didn't even know the gender and age. Your response sounds like you are talking to an old man where in fact he was a teenager, Sometimes it's like you are talking to a mommy but the fact is she is single. There is anonymi of character. So what I did, I just answer it in general way.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 2,120 out of 26,919 in people  2 years ago

If there is no data on the profile, I'll read some of the persons posts, or responses. Usually they mention their spouse which will tell their gender. This is the hard way to do it, but it works.

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