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AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 1 Aug 07

If you have lost a child suddenly due to the negligence of someone else how do you recover Also I am wondering how do you know for sure whether or not a death could of been prevented? It would be nice if the hands of time...

going back in time

sudden death

vechical homicide

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AnnaB87 Thank you for your words. I know that my son was saved so he is in heaven that is helpful for me to know but it is still painful. I wish he had not died. We still have to buy a tombstone for him, but are waiting a little bit because it is so hard to do...

6 Aug 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 1 Aug 07

If you have lost a child suddenly due to the negligence of someone else how do you recover Also I am wondering how do you know for sure whether or not a death could of been prevented? It would be nice if the hands of time...

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AnnaB87 I am so sorry to hear about your babies death, that is very hard. I also lost a baby last year too, the doctors did not know why, my baby just died. I also lost another baby a few years ago I think it was possibly due to a fall I had. that one was a boy, the...

6 Aug 07

DanaMark @DanaMark (807) • United States 2 Aug 07

I reached that first milestone - a 500 rating beside my name. Yippie yippie yeah! I didn't think it would be a big deal, but I am sort of happy about it. I already noticed a difference. There is now a "Add an image" button when...

500 posts

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AnnaB87 Thanks, things are difficult right now to say the least. Then its in yesterdays paper that the person who did this may not even spend any time in jail at all. And this person who killed our son had a previous DUI dismissed despite the fact that he was...

6 Aug 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

If so what would provoke you enough to do so?

going to court with family

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AnnaB87 I think sometimes it may be needed especially when they continually harrass and cause stress when you are doing your best to avoid them. Maybe they need a no contact order.

1 Aug 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

By a hit and run driver? And what would you tell your other children?? Our son was recently killed by such a driver, and after two nearly three months, they finally decided to file charges then this driver was released on...

explaining to young children death

hit and run drivers

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AnnaB87 maybe but it would be really nice if there were sidewalks all over instead of only in select locations. There are next to no sidewalks in this area. Also our son was walking along the side of the road on his way home, because there was no other place for him...

1 Aug 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

By a hit and run driver? And what would you tell your other children?? Our son was recently killed by such a driver, and after two nearly three months, they finally decided to file charges then this driver was released on...

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AnnaB87 The driver that killed our son ran off the road in order to do so, our son was not crossing the street just walking home. It makes no sense at all/

23 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

By a hit and run driver? And what would you tell your other children?? Our son was recently killed by such a driver, and after two nearly three months, they finally decided to file charges then this driver was released on...

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AnnaB87 I am thankful for what I have now but it is still hard and I do not understand why this happened at all. It is so hard though knowing someone just killed our ds and then proceeded on down the road, never even slowing down at all.

23 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 23 Jul 07

We just tried to get a restraining order against a relative and guess what the judge decide that we did not have enough reason to get a warrant. Well our oldest is dead, and he was found in the way this person said he would be...

restraining orders

son found dead

what can be done

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AnnaB87 My children are all minors and I could not get a restraining order at all, this makes no sense, I wanted just something so that if anything happens at all that the police can go arrest the ones making threats. And it looks to me like I should of gotten...

23 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 23 Jul 07

We just tried to get a restraining order against a relative and guess what the judge decide that we did not have enough reason to get a warrant. Well our oldest is dead, and he was found in the way this person said he would be...

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AnnaB87 I do have a lawyer he did not think that I would be denied and this is something that you don't normally have to have a lawyer go to court with you on. I mean it is not like I am suing or anything, all I wanted was something saying that this person was to...

23 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 23 Jul 07

We just tried to get a restraining order against a relative and guess what the judge decide that we did not have enough reason to get a warrant. Well our oldest is dead, and he was found in the way this person said he would be...

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AnnaB87 I believe this relative has a mental problem of some kind. And I am wondering about the courts. I told the judge if another of my kids turn up dead then it is his fault for not allowing me to do anything at all.

23 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

By a hit and run driver? And what would you tell your other children?? Our son was recently killed by such a driver, and after two nearly three months, they finally decided to file charges then this driver was released on...

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AnnaB87 Thanks, it is very difficult and a lot of days are just plain hard.

23 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

By a hit and run driver? And what would you tell your other children?? Our son was recently killed by such a driver, and after two nearly three months, they finally decided to file charges then this driver was released on...

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AnnaB87 I wish I would just wake up and this nightmare be over, but I don't believe I will ever ever get over the loss of my son. He was the only one of our children that I could really connect with on certain subjects, but he is gone, And now everything is even...

22 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

if you were attending a church what would be a reason you would leave that church, other than moving? Would you leave because of other people even if the preacher was preaching the way you believed to be correct?

leaving a church and why

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AnnaB87 The pastor is preaching right but I feel like the kids there are having more influence on my kids than they should have in a negative way. And I believe that my kids need to find new friends. Also when I told my kids we were all going to start taking...

22 Jul 07

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AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

By a hit and run driver? And what would you tell your other children?? Our son was recently killed by such a driver, and after two nearly three months, they finally decided to file charges then this driver was released on...

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AnnaB87 i think you were smart to stop working in the front yard and go into the back. My son was killed by someone going to fast and then they left the scene. It is bothering me to no end. And I have a hard time believing that he died instantly, maybe he...

22 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

If so what would provoke you enough to do so?

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AnnaB87 I think sometimes things are just hard. And it is so hard when you have to take a famiy member to court. I hate it but I am having to do just that, but for a different reason than you. I think that sometimes people get it into their heads that they know...

22 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 22 Jul 07

In your opinion what are some things that would be try to achieve in ones lifetime?

life goals

what are some good things to achieve

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AnnaB87 I think those are some very good ideas. Especially the one about being debt free, life is so much easier when you are debt free. I hope you make it. Just remember to work towards our goals as often as possible.Okay.

22 Jul 07

AnnaB87 @AnnaB87 (761) • United States 26 Jun 07

is it better to just make your money work better for you. Or budget better, is what I mean. Maybe more money is not always better, but better money management maybe is?

making money

money managment

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AnnaB87 I think money mangament and budgetting along with managing belongings goes a long way to making your money go further in my opinion anyway

1 Jul 07

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