Babudom

@Babudom (47)

India • Age 79

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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suggestions on mothers...

itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 1 Mar 07

Okay. This is going to be a tough discussion to write, but I would love some outside help on this one. Growing up, basically you could say I came from a broken home. My parents officially divorced when I was five. Ok. My...

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Babudom As a mother, I would not reccomen that you write to her. You will achieve nothing. She is a not likely to change - if she has been like that for so many years how is your letter going to help in any way. You have to make peace with your own self. realise that...

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how do you break a bad news?

LeXDei @LeXDei (209) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

When a not so good thing happens and you need to tell others about it. How do you start? Deaths, ailments, and other tragedies happen day in and day out. And there is the necessity to inform others. How do you do it?

bad news

death

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Babudom Bad news have to be broken with empathy and emotional calm. there should be no panic or excitement while doing so. Your calmness will help the person to whom you are breaking the news.

15 Feb 07

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It's my perogative to read and answer those discussions I choose.

kbkbooks @kbkbooks (7022) • Canada 14 Feb 07

If I read a discussion on myLot, I understand I am free to post my opinion of that discussion. For example I recently looked into several discussions inviting me to make money online. I've been making money online for YEARS. I...

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Babudom I do no0t think that there is anyone who is telling you what to read and what not to read. The choice is yours as it is of everyone on this Lot. So go ahead and do what you want and let the pthers make there own judgement calls about it.

15 Feb 07

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Heart or Mind?

angeljanel24 @angeljanel24 (92) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

what will you follow.. is it your heart or your mind? and please tell me why... i've been so confuse on that two...

heart

mind

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Babudom I think it totally depeneds on the situation. If it is going to be an emotional decision follow your heart. If it involves money - follow your mind. Your mind analyses before it makes a decision - your heart follows its instincts. Judge the situation before...

14 Feb 07

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Do you make monthly resolutions?

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 14 Feb 07

with the edvent of new year everyone makes resolutions.even i do and fail in keeping up a couple of them..As fashion goes why does anyone require to make a resolution only on New Years Eve? and even forget them once the new year...

resolutions

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Babudom I amke rewolutions everyday - such as exercising more, losing my temper less - but never sticvk to them. My New Year resolutions are long term - never keep them either.

14 Feb 07

Have you ever been burgled?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 13 Feb 07

Leading on from a recent discussion here about WebMann's strange bike thief, it got me thinking about the time 15 years ago, when I had my house broken into. I wondered how many other people this had happened to, and how did it...

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Babudom I have been burgled before - lost most of my wedding trousseau. Anyway it was a long time ago. I felt very miserable cause i had spent a lot of effort buying those clothes. But I got over it very quickly.

14 Feb 07

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If you could instantly memrise one book what would it be and why?

sylvia_thebird @sylvia_thebird (8) • Australia 14 Feb 07

Hey everyone! I've just joined MYLOT. So here's my first ever question. If you could instantly memorise one book, cover to cover, what would it be and why? I'm a total book freak and I'm almost always reading something or other....

books

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Babudom I would memorise saturday by Ian McEwan - a beautiful book - evocative, touching and so well written

14 Feb 07

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Money can`t buy happyness !

ChrissyGirl @ChrissyGirl (135) • Romania 13 Feb 07

I always dreamed of a happy family . I can say that i had it untill my mom started to work more and more .. and to spend less time with us . Since i was 7 i must confess i forgot what family means .. and this because i get to see...

family

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Babudom For parents who are both working it is very difficult to maintain the balance between the home and work life. We work so hard so that you can get the best in life. Without money - it is not possible to buy you or give you everything we want to give you. Money...

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Cash for posts?

Kaldo11 @Kaldo11 (56) • United States 14 Feb 07

Do we get paypal cash for posting, if so, how many posts is $1?

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Babudom Yes, most paid posting sites pay be Paypal, and no there are no sites that offer $ 1.00 for posts. Most are within the range of $0.15

14 Feb 07

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Rating discussions.

ljcapps @ljcapps (1925) • United States 14 Feb 07

When rating a response to you discussions do you stop to think about whether the reply you were given contributes to mylot of just base it on the responder's personal opinion? I know as per the guidelines this is not supposed to...

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Babudom I would rather base it on the responders personal opinion. There are no guidelines - it is just that I like to make a judgement on the kind of response and the opinion offered.

14 Feb 07

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manners on mylot..

yanjiaren @yanjiaren (9031) 13 Feb 07

i have come across so many discussions lately of peole posting as their slogan.. THIS EARNS MORE THAN MYLOT check it out.. now not being funny here..but Mylot to me is like the host and is inviting us to eat at their house..for...

my lot

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Babudom Bad manners on the Net has become the norm rather than the exception. I do agree that we should not malign the Host - but maybe people realise that here is a popular site and the visitors here are a good target.

14 Feb 07

Do you stick to "sell by dates"

weemam @weemam (13372) 13 Feb 07

We were talking as a family the other night as you do and my hubby and myself were telling stories of the olden days " as our grandchildren say ", we are talking about all the additives that are put in our foodstuffs to keep them...

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Babudom It does make life more complicated - but it is important that this has become neccessary. It is good for us.

14 Feb 07

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Help...A Boy Committed SUICIDE in my College TODAY!!!!

ChristaKitta @ChristaKitta (177) • India 6 Feb 07

Im studying in South India. Our Engineering college is Fully Residential. A boy from the Final year committed Suicide by hanging himself on the fan in his room this morning. He was the BEST student in his Class so called the...

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Babudom It is not easy to judge a person who takes this extreme step. No one knows what was going on inside his mind. But try not to let this overtake your thought processes. It is important to retain your own equilibrium in this situation. Take care

7 Feb 07

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How much have you made?

tandmunlimited @tandmunlimited (1252) • United States 22 Sep 06

I have done this for 2 days and made $2.30 and have had LOTS of fun.. Thank you myLot

money made on mylot thank you

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Babudom I have made only a dollar, but I have no referrals also. I believe that is the best way to make money. Is it better to give a lot of short answers, or better to give a few will thought of answers ? Any suggestions ?

23 Sep 06

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what do you do when it's raining?

pandino75 @pandino75 (377) • Italy 15 Sep 06

I read books and surf to internet

free time

rain

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Babudom I sit in my TV room, watch a good film on the DVD, or read a good book. Make something nice and hot, like a great cup of tea and some pakoras, relax. I love the rain, I love the smell of the grass and the leaves.

23 Sep 06

After marriage girls should work or not?

komal_swetha @komal_swetha (821) • India 12 Sep 06

If you are boy will u allow ur wife to work? If you are girl would you like to work after marriage?

working women

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Babudom Why should the question be - would you allow your wife to work? It should be her choice whether she wants to work or not. Most of us working women work because we want to . not neccessarily because we need to. We have smart brains, good education, why should...

23 Sep 06