Blackorea

@Blackorea (29)

United States • Age 46

Joined myLot 18 years ago

If you're scared, go to church!

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Surrogate mother!

vik87391 @vik87391 (169) • Spain 29 Dec 06

There are a lot of couples in this world who yearn for children and cannot have due to some medical problem.They have a choice to go for a surrogate mother.One of my friends is undergoing a similar situation in his life.He has...

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Blackorea I guess it is a hard concept to grasp for the women. And they probably also feel even more worse because they miss out on all the things that comes with pregnancy, like bonding with the baby etc. It's totally a subject that people I don't feel will ever be...

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Buying a home

SarahEC @SarahEC (545) • United States 28 Dec 06

Me and my boyfriend have just bought a new house. This will be the first time owning a home for both of us. We have already found the one that we want and signed all the papers for it, but now we are just waiting on all the home...

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Blackorea Congratulations on your new home and good luck. Always remember that everything will come in time with patience. I know when we moved into our new home, we wanted to do everything and anything, but didn't exactly have all that money to do it with. Just enjoy...

28 Dec 06

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What would you do if you've been Cheated on?

justreal @justreal (2364) • Canada 28 Dec 06

Honestly I was cheated on once in my life. That was with my ex ex girlfriend. We went out for three years and at the end I knew there something wasen't right. She started going out more than usual with her "friends", until then, I...

being cheated on

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Blackorea How do you for sure know that you have only been cheated on once in your life, unless that was your only girlfriend ever. You may have been cheated on, just never knew. When people cheat, it's not worth it to get hung up over it. Sure it hurts, but only...

28 Dec 06

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A joy of adoption

sunithayogish @sunithayogish (262) • India 6 Jul 07

Many prospective adoptive parents are apprehensive about whether their adopted child will be accepted by society in general and family members in particular. This inbuilt social fear many a times acts as a deterrent in the...

Blackorea Many prospective adoptive parents are apprehensive about whether their adopted child will be accepted by society in general and family members in particular. This inbuilt social fear many a times acts as a deterrent in the decision to adopt. This is...

6 Jul 07

I have a problem not being able to make my own money.

Blackorea @Blackorea (29) • United States 28 Dec 06

Does anyone else have this problem also? I am a stay at home mother of 2 beautiful children, and love it. But I also feel a void in my life where I am not contributing to our family financially. I hate not being able to have my...

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MyLot Money

Blackorea @Blackorea (29) • United States 28 Dec 06

If you start a discussion and people answer to your subject, does that earn you money? Also if you respond to responses within your started discussion, do you earn money for that? Thanks ahead of time for clarification that you...

money

mylot

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Parents Who Don't Know When to Quit Parenting

Pigglies @Pigglies (9329) • United States 28 Dec 06

My parents wanted to shelter me as much as possible as I grew up. Even now that I'm 21, they are always telling me things that would make more sense to tell a 16 year old. Or an irresponsible 21 year old. But I'm pretty...

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Blackorea You have to assume the role of a mature adult and start to question them, make them doubt themselves. Of course they are loving and caring parents, not meaning any harm by it, but sometimes enough is enough. And they need to recognize this before it gets to be...

28 Dec 06

How Do You Get Out of a Rental Contract?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 28 Dec 06

The rent is in two names, my housemate and mine, we had a written contract for the first year, then the landlord gave us a verbal one, that we had to give him one month's notice and he had to give us two. If I wanted to move out,...

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Blackorea Usually when you are in a verbal contract, it is as good as a written contract. You will definitely lose your deposit money if you try to get out on bad terms. Meaning, that you broke the contract and didn't fulfill your side of the deal. Sometimes in a court...

28 Dec 06

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It's expensive to raise healthy kids!

thinkingoutloud @thinkingoutloud (6127) • Canada 28 Dec 06

I have a real problem with the fact that, where I live, I can buy a 2-liter bottle of soda for maybe 87 cents on sale but it costs between $2.50 and $3.00 for a 2-liter of skim milk! We hear in the news, on a regular basis,...

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Blackorea My feelings on eating healthy are that when I have tried to eat healthy, it can drive you broke. When you compare the costs of all that organic, wheat, whole grain foods, they are usually more expensive to buy and come in less quantities than regular food. If...

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Anyone have trouble deciding where to live and settle down?

Blackorea @Blackorea (29) • United States 27 Dec 06

I am a stay at home mother, and have had the hardest time trying to decide where in the world I would want to live for the rest of my life? For my husband it is easy, because it is wherever the work is, but he is in the mortgage...

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Blackorea That's wonderful and I wish I could do something like that also. The place where I was from was ridiculously expensive though, and our house was really huge, so we couldn't afford that as our start up home!

28 Dec 06

I have trouble deciding whether to stay home with kids or go back to work!

Blackorea @Blackorea (29) • United States 28 Dec 06

I am really undecided as to whether I should stay home with the kids or go back to work, even part time. I feel bad, like I am missing out on my kids if I go back to work, almost guilty that I'm not there for them. On the other...

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would you handpick your pet's ticks or lice and crush them with bare fingers?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9551) • Philippines 27 Oct 12

I do. And when I get started it is hard for me to stop because sometimes they are everywhere. My pets did not have these blood-suckers before so they must have come from the neighbors' pets which are just a fence away from my pet...

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Blackorea I do. And when I get started it is hard for me to stop because sometimes they are everywhere. My pets did not have these blood-suckers before so they must have come from the neighbors' pets which are just a fence away from my pet dogs. I would even crunch or...

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Life is a breath

surajp @surajp (29) • Indonesia 27 Oct 12

We never know till when we live in this motherly earth. The biggest man or the smallest man can't bring anything materialistic with them when they leave this body. They only bring with them their good or bad deeds. We see in one...

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Blackorea We never know till when we live in this motherly earth. The biggest man or the smallest man can't bring anything materialistic with them when they leave this body. They only bring with them their good or bad deeds. We see in one side a wedding celebration is...

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Do you trust the post office?

jtsellen @jtsellen (25) • United States 27 Dec 06

I just had an Ebay member contact me to let me know that the item I sold him has been recieved. But it is completely damaged. I have no choice to refund him because I cannot find the reciept from the initial shipment. I am pissed...

customer service

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Blackorea I sell a ton of stuff on ebay and use the post office all the time. I pay for the postage through paypal, so you can never lose your receipt because there is always a record of your shipment online through your paypal account. It is also good because when you...

27 Dec 06

What do you think about Angelina Jolie?

shali3000 @shali3000 (742) • Italy 20 Dec 06

I admire Angelina Jolie as actress. I think she is a beautiful woman and I appreciate very much her humanitary helps. I'd like to know what do you think about her as woman and as actress and which movie of her do you like...

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Blackorea I admire her and think the world of her, though I don't know her personally. It seems like she is a strong willed person and doesn't care what anybody thinks of her. It seems as if she does things because she has a good natured heart, and not to put on a show....

27 Dec 06

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Anyone have trouble deciding where to live and settle down?

Blackorea @Blackorea (29) • United States 27 Dec 06

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Which the best religion in your opnion ?

marcelo777 @marcelo777 (17) • Brazil 29 Jun 07

Which the best religion and why ?

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Blackorea Which the best religion and why ?

29 Jun 07

Making money on the internet without any startup costs.

Blackorea @Blackorea (29) • United States 24 Dec 06

Does anyone know of any good web sites that you can make money without having to put down any money first, or home mailing jobs, like stuffing envelopes. I am a stay at home mom of 2 young children and only really have the nights...

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Blackorea Thanks for the insight, sometimes it seems so frustrating because you spend all this time, and make no money, or such slow money. I don't think there really is an easy way on the internet to make any real money fast!

27 Dec 06

How to make Referrals for earnings?

Blackorea @Blackorea (29) • United States 24 Dec 06

Anyone got any tips on how to make money off of referrals? I don't know too many people who are trying to make money off the internet, so I don't really know how to get any referrals. Any suggestions?

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Making money on the internet without any startup costs.

Blackorea @Blackorea (29) • United States 24 Dec 06

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