GaryJoule

@GaryJoule (211)

China • Age 43

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Where there is a will, there is a way

Responses (160)

GaryJoule's Responses

Don't tell personal things to your colleage!

dengzhifei213 @dengzhifei213 (37) • China 3 Dec 09

Because my work makes me unhappy and very depressed,so I decided to quit my job.I have submitted my letter of resignation and told my boss that I have to go back my hometown and my relatives introduced a new job to me.It is just...

boss

colleague

personal things

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GaryJoule Since you are about to leave, why didn't you tell you boss the truth. If I were you, I would speak frankly to your boss that I don't suit her temper. Ironic words? no, no, you should fight agaist her. you are a employee, not her daughter, you should not...

4 Dec 09

How to keep a good relationship with your best friend?

dengzhifei213 @dengzhifei213 (37) • China 3 Dec 09

Ling is my best friend during university.We graduated together this year.We are working in different city now.We haven't seen each other for 4 months.The worse is that I found we don't have common topic anymore.We were silence...

best friend friendship change maintain

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GaryJoule As long as no money involved between you and your friend, you could keep the good relationship with him. what's the best friend? Best friend is the one who you face without talking, both of you don't feel embarrassed or wrong.

3 Dec 09

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If you saw soemone drop money would you give it back?

Jennifer_lee_88 @Jennifer_lee_88 (589) • United States 2 Dec 09

If you someone walking ahead of you and you saw them drop and bunch (lets say $300) would you give it back? Would you call out to them and let them know? Would you pick it up and take if for your self? Would you feel guilty if you...

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GaryJoule of course we should give it back, it's undoubtful.

3 Dec 09

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How can we catch up with beauty?

xieshibao @xieshibao (4) • China 2 Dec 09

Who can tell me how to catch up with beauty?thanks.

love

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GaryJoule Love her, from the deep botton of your heart. only by so can you catch up with your princess.

3 Dec 09

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Silly mistakes, do you make them ?

elitess @elitess (5070) • Ipswich, England 2 Dec 09

I am talking about forgetting things that are obvious. The other day i went to the supermarket to buy some groceries and just when i was getting ready to enter it I realized i forgot my wallet at home. Another similar hilarious...

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GaryJoule Take it easy. Everybody has ever forgot something before. It's really no big deal, it's just carelessness, every one experienced it.

3 Dec 09

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I Fell in Love Today in a Thrift Shop

lmcueva @lmcueva (169) • Philippines 2 Dec 09

Have you ever gone into a store, not having a plan or something particular in mind? You just saw the "SALE" sign in bright red, and written in big, bold, white letters. So you went in, just to browse. You promised yourself never...

fashion

shopping

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GaryJoule It seems only women do it like that. we men going to store is only when we really need something to buy. And I think it's just that make men differing from women.

3 Dec 09

My daughter loves to hug me whenever she is sad or angry

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 2 Dec 09

My daughter (age 3) loves to hug me whenever she is sad, angry or tired. She asked me to hug her and to kiss her chins. Hehehe...she is my sweet angel...so funny and cute.

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GaryJoule yeah, it's really a angel. I'm going to have a angel as well... Apr 2010 is the time he/she comes to our world.

3 Dec 09

The fastest way to learn something.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 2 Dec 09

The fastest way to learn something is to teach it. Although this may sound strange at first, it is absolutely true. You do not have to wait until you know everything about a subject, until you have "mastered" whatever it is that...

sharing talents

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GaryJoule Good idea. But before teaching others, we should do some preview and get some basic conceptions so we can communicate well with the "students". you know, teaching should be interactive process, if the "teacher" knows few about the topic, he can not make...

3 Dec 09

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My friend honestly stinks...

milfea @milfea (519) • Philippines 24 Nov 09

I don't have the slightest idea how I'm gonna tell my friend that she smells without offending her. I need help my friends. I seriously need this one...

bad odor

friend

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GaryJoule Just invite your friend out for dinner or some drinks, pop to the topic occasionally and let him know what you think. Good luck, hope it works for your friend.

24 Nov 09

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If u love someone which is the best way to express ur feelings

umer5222 @umer5222 (724) • Cyprus 23 Nov 09

As we know that there are many shy or diffident persons like me, who falls in true love , but can'nt be able to express feelings. What is the best way to express our inner feelings about that particular person??

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GaryJoule If you are short of courage to tell her face to face, you could mail her or leave her message, whatever, you should let her know you love her. The girls care for what type you are, not the way you express love.

23 Nov 09

Do you turst internet can make rich you ?

jinbotol @jinbotol (102) • Indonesia 22 Nov 09

i trust although now i still try to look for the way , but i sure i can be rich with internet , Whether yo also ?

life

make extra money

money

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GaryJoule Internet is just a tool. To be rich or not depends on how you use this tool. If you get the right way and do you best, I think you could be rich.

22 Nov 09

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Every circumstances that happen in our life will somehow affect to other people?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 22 Nov 09

One of my friend often told me, that in everything that I should do, I should always think of others because it will affect to them in one way or another. That everything in this world is connected. As we can't say as long as I'm...

other people

think

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GaryJoule I DO think other people in every decision that I make. I think that's basic morality. We can't just do good for ourselves and don't care if it affects others.

22 Nov 09

Does it matter to you that in a relationship,man should be older than the woman?

bren_yrra @bren_yrra (354) • Philippines 21 Nov 09

As I become observant with those people around me, I have girl friends who are older than their boyfriends or who are older than their spouses.They say that the maturity of a woman is more advance than the man, so men should be...

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GaryJoule Indeed I don't mind if my wife is older than me or not. In my mind loving or not is the key to a relationship, age has nothing to do with it. But in Chinese traditional culture, woman should be young than man, and nowadays not much change takes place on...

22 Nov 09

Do you miss the dead?

sagnik42 @sagnik42 (3592) • India 21 Nov 09

I miss my grandfather. He died when I was only 8 years old. But I still remember him pretty well. He was my best friend and I loved spending time with him. I miss him very much. Do you miss your relatives or friends who have died?...

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GaryJoule yes, I miss her,always. And once I was missing her, I felt so sorry,so bad, I just can't accept the fact that so nice people died so young, it's unfair, I can't accept it, I don't even have chance to thank her, to bring her happiness. At last I can do...

22 Nov 09

For women, which do you prefer? short or long hair?

santos_mlirs @santos_mlirs (271) • Philippines 21 Nov 09

Frankly speaking, I prefer long hair for women. I find them more attractive and more sexier. Look at those beauty queens, models and famous actresses. Most of them have long hair. By the way, I am also a woman, and please don't...

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GaryJoule I prefer long hair for women. Long hair makes women she is, and gives women more femaninity. Women with short hair just give me the impression of "bad boy".

22 Nov 09

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website developing

aimeedia2x @aimeedia2x (374) • India 22 Nov 09

hi, i want to develop my own website, but i am new to websites. even i doesnt know abc of websites. i have many questions, some of them are- - how a websire earn money like forums site, chat/email sites, torrent sites, social...

income

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GaryJoule Hi friend- U a really new to website. I think you could start from a book, start from learning the basic knowledge of website. or google what you want to know. For the questions you posted above, it really can't be answered in short. we have to give...

22 Nov 09

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