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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 29 Oct

You ever wonder why some people just won’t let go of a toxic relationship? Even when it’s full of manipulation, guilt trips, and gaslighting? It’s like they know it’s breaking them, yet they keep going back for more. Maybe it’s...

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CrimsonSpork Wow, that’s heartbreaking and such a tough situation for your friend. It’s so complicated when you love someone, but the person they become—especially under the influence of something like alcohol—totally changes the dynamics of everything. The fact that she...

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 29 Oct

You ever wonder why some people just won’t let go of a toxic relationship? Even when it’s full of manipulation, guilt trips, and gaslighting? It’s like they know it’s breaking them, yet they keep going back for more. Maybe it’s...

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CrimsonSpork That sounds like such a tough situation for your friend. It’s so easy to see how someone with a nurturing side—like her, with her rescue instinct—would try to fix someone who’s broken. But it’s like trying to save someone who doesn’t even want to be saved, and...

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 29 Oct

You ever wonder why some people just won’t let go of a toxic relationship? Even when it’s full of manipulation, guilt trips, and gaslighting? It’s like they know it’s breaking them, yet they keep going back for more. Maybe it’s...

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CrimsonSpork @Jim Bauer I think you’re right—it really does go deep. A lot of it ties into trauma bonding and the way our brains get conditioned to associate love with pain or inconsistency. When someone’s constantly torn down and then given small doses of affection, it...

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 23 Oct

What's next? This is my million-dollar question that has been lingering in my mind for a long time following my layoff from work. I'm in my early fifties, facing minor health issues, family commitments, societal pressure, and EMIs...

devastating life

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CrimsonSpork Thanks for saying that; it really means a lot. I’ve been doing everything I can—applying for jobs, trying to stay positive, keeping things together—but it’s been really tough. Sometimes, it feels like no matter how much effort I put in, things just aren’t...

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 23 Oct

What's next? This is my million-dollar question that has been lingering in my mind for a long time following my layoff from work. I'm in my early fifties, facing minor health issues, family commitments, societal pressure, and EMIs...

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CrimsonSpork Thanks for your concern. I’ve actually tried most of those things—staying active, applying for jobs, managing finances—but it’s been really tough. I’m just not seeing much progress despite all the effort.

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 26 Aug

Life has been throwing challenges one after another. With a lot of commitments on my plate and no support from the one person I thought I could count on, it hasn’t been easy. The weight gets heavy, but giving up isn’t an option....

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CrimsonSpork @JudyEv Yes, you are correct.. we can open our heart here without fear and hesistation..

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 26 Aug

Life has been throwing challenges one after another. With a lot of commitments on my plate and no support from the one person I thought I could count on, it hasn’t been easy. The weight gets heavy, but giving up isn’t an option....

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CrimsonSpork That sounds really heavy. ?? You’ve been carrying a lot on your own strength, and it takes an incredible amount of resilience to hold on when you don’t feel supported—even by family. The fact that you’re still standing means you’ve built inner strength that...

28 Aug

CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 26 Aug

Life has been throwing challenges one after another. With a lot of commitments on my plate and no support from the one person I thought I could count on, it hasn’t been easy. The weight gets heavy, but giving up isn’t an option....

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CrimsonSpork @DaddyEvil Thank you, truly. You're right — money doesn’t grow on trees, and being jobless at this point has made things extra hard.

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 26 Aug

Life has been throwing challenges one after another. With a lot of commitments on my plate and no support from the one person I thought I could count on, it hasn’t been easy. The weight gets heavy, but giving up isn’t an option....

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CrimsonSpork Thank you so much for your kind words, Judy. Just being seen and acknowledged means a lot right now. I’m hoping for better days too, and I appreciate your hope for me.

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 26 Aug

Life has been throwing challenges one after another. With a lot of commitments on my plate and no support from the one person I thought I could count on, it hasn’t been easy. The weight gets heavy, but giving up isn’t an option....

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CrimsonSpork Thank you for cheering me on. I’m fighting with all I’ve got, and words like yours give me that extra bit of push. Really appreciate your positivity.

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 26 Aug

Life has been throwing challenges one after another. With a lot of commitments on my plate and no support from the one person I thought I could count on, it hasn’t been easy. The weight gets heavy, but giving up isn’t an option....

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CrimsonSpork That quote really hit home. Thank you for the uplifting words. I’m trying to keep that perspective alive — focusing on small blessings, including life itself. I appreciate your encouragement so much.

28 Aug

CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 9 Aug

Some we turn without thinking. Some we hesitate at. And some… we stand on for a while, just to take it all in. Yesterday, I found myself at one such corner — not just a physical place, but a meeting point of music, memory, and...

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CrimsonSpork Absolutely, Luisa! Life really is about preparation, and we don’t always realize what we might miss when we rush forward. The pause, the reflection, and the awareness of where we are—those moments can be as important as the destination itself. Thank you for...

26 Aug

CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 9 Aug

Some we turn without thinking. Some we hesitate at. And some… we stand on for a while, just to take it all in. Yesterday, I found myself at one such corner — not just a physical place, but a meeting point of music, memory, and...

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CrimsonSpork Haha, I love that! Sometimes ignorance is bliss, right? But I think we all have those moments where we wish we could know what’s coming, or where we stand on the other side of a decision. I guess the journey wouldn't be as interesting without those corners to...

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 26 Aug

Life has been throwing challenges one after another. With a lot of commitments on my plate and no support from the one person I thought I could count on, it hasn’t been easy. The weight gets heavy, but giving up isn’t an option....

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CrimsonSpork "Thank you so much for the kind words! I’m staying hopeful and doing everything I can to get things back on track. Your support means a lot!" Only thing is my present financial status, which is tragedic

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 18 Feb

Sometimes life throws every challenge our way, leaving us at the edge of frustration. But even in the toughest times, I hold on to the belief that love and humanity are what keep us moving forward. It's easy to get lost in...

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CrimsonSpork Thank you, Judy. Your kind words mean a lot right now. I also believe that even the smallest acts of kindness can make a big difference. I’m holding on to hope that things will get better." This acknowledges their support while keeping it warm and positive....

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 18 Feb

Sometimes life throws every challenge our way, leaving us at the edge of frustration. But even in the toughest times, I hold on to the belief that love and humanity are what keep us moving forward. It's easy to get lost in...

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CrimsonSpork "Thank you so much for your kindness. It truly means a lot to know that there are people like you who take the time to remind others that they matter. Your friend is lucky to have you, and your words today have given me a little more strength to keep going....

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 18 Feb

Sometimes life throws every challenge our way, leaving us at the edge of frustration. But even in the toughest times, I hold on to the belief that love and humanity are what keep us moving forward. It's easy to get lost in...

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CrimsonSpork Thank you, Anish. Your words mean a lot in this difficult time. It’s true—pain can make it hard to see the kindness that still exists, but your message is a reminder that it’s there. I’ll hold on to that hope and keep moving forward, one step at a time. Truly...

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 13 Feb

Hey MyLotters, I’ve been eating a boiled egg every day, and I noticed often I get a runny nose or sneezing. Could eggs be the cause? I’ve heard that some people have mild egg allergies or histamine sensitivity, which might trigger...

boiled eggs sneezing

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CrimsonSpork That’s interesting! It does sound like you had some sensitivity to milk, even if it wasn’t a full-blown allergy. Back then, people didn’t really talk much about food intolerances, but now we know a lot more about how different foods can affect us. Did you ever...

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 13 Feb

Hey MyLotters, I’ve been eating a boiled egg every day, and I noticed often I get a runny nose or sneezing. Could eggs be the cause? I’ve heard that some people have mild egg allergies or histamine sensitivity, which might trigger...

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CrimsonSpork Thanks, Namaco21! That’s a good idea—I’ll try avoiding eggs for a few days and see if my symptoms improve. It’s definitely something worth testing. I appreciate your suggestion! ??

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CrimsonSpork @Manasha (2924) • Pondicherry, India 13 Feb

Hey MyLotters, I’ve been eating a boiled egg every day, and I noticed often I get a runny nose or sneezing. Could eggs be the cause? I’ve heard that some people have mild egg allergies or histamine sensitivity, which might trigger...

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CrimsonSpork That’s an interesting perspective! I haven’t thought about airborne spices being a factor, but I’ll definitely pay attention to that. As for eggs, I’ll try skipping them for a few days and see if there’s any change. If the symptoms continue, I might look into...

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