Mintlin

@Mintlin (322)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Do you have to learn a foreign language in the school?

youless @youless (113921) • Guangzhou, China 25 Apr 13

Here English has played a main role for us. We have to study it even in the kindergarten. We must learn it formally from the primary school and you still have to learn it until university. So is it a must for you to learn a...

language

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Mintlin As most people here,we have to study english when we go to middle school . I have learned english for more than 10yrs,but it's still not enough,what i learned is just from book,tv,radio. learning foreign language is wonderful and i really enjoy this...

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Your wedding ring

C @ShyBear88 (59342) • Sterling, Virginia 22 Apr 13

At night time before going to bed do you keep your wedding ring on or do you take it off? Do you keep your ring off all of the time? Why or why not? I personally keep mine on all of the time including my other rings that I...

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Mintlin well.i always keep my ring on since the day i married,no matter i'm doing anything.i donot ike to put it on then take it off then put it on again,it sounds so inconvenient.

22 Apr 13

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how jealous are you?

cherigucchi @cherigucchi (15838) • Philippines 17 Apr 13

are you a typical jealous person? Jealousy hits us every so often, and it usually does at odd times. Often, even the reasons are so simple that we feel a little funny when we get to look back at it. Do you remember how you felt...

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Mintlin hi ,long time no contact. I define myself a very jealous woman. whenever i see my husband surrounded by pretty girls ,i feel angry though they are just normal friend. however i'm not jealous when i see other people have something which i eyeing for a long...

18 Apr 13

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what inspires you most?

Lana @inopiratum_a_medio12 (877) 17 Apr 13

many of us gets inspired by our family but i wonder how does the others gets their inspiration aside from family. I met a good friend from college who has avery strong personality even she's experiencing severe bully such as being...

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Mintlin my husband always inspires me most.whenever i'm happy or sad ,he is always with me. the power of love is huge,i have so much energe to move on in life.

18 Apr 13

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does cooking really makes you feel full?

cylle_06 @cylle_06 (233) • Philippines 17 Apr 13

i've heard some people say that some of the reasons why most chefs or great cooks aren't fat is because they feel full after cooking. maybe it was just a wild theory based on observation. but thinking about it, it may be true....

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Mintlin I have same kind of feeling about this,every time after work,i always feel hungry,but if i prepare the dinner,i feel full instead of hungry.this sounds so weird. but if my husband cooks,long waiting make me feel more hungry. maybe because i'm busy cooking the...

17 Apr 13

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Trustworthy person

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4856) • Pune, India 8 Apr 13

Hi, When we have trust on someone when he is honest, caring and loving and always tell the truth. I think we should trust the one who can see thses threee things in us - sorrow behind our smile, love behind our anger and reason...

trust

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Mintlin I used to give full trust of my friends but they behaved as their are totally not trustworthy person. as many ones stated here,yes,family is the top trustworthy person in our life,but i find my family sometimes hurt me a lot. currently,my husband is like my...

13 Apr 13

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share colours!

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 8 Apr 13

I love all colours except black. I do not like black that much maybe cause I have worn that colour many times in my life, but now I do not like it... I heard about colours therapy too... by using colours some can come over of...

colours

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Mintlin I love many kinds of color,i think every color does have it's impact and beauty. yet my closet are full of black,white color clothes,before i think i'm only suitable for these two colors.but recently i observed actually i look good when wearing...

9 Apr 13

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Relatives from Abroad

ayeeesha @ayeeesha (1127) • Philippines 7 Apr 13

Last night, my uncle from the US came home in the Philippines after 9 years. We had a welcome party at home with other relatives where we cooked Filipino dishes that he surely missed - mostly grilled fish and pork. We're also...

balikbayan

relatives

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Mintlin I donot have a relative from abroad,i always hope i can have one. when i was a kid,one of my friend she has a uncle from south africa,when he came back,brought a lot of gifts to her, she visited south africa one a year,now she moved there,i really envy...

7 Apr 13

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avoiding religion on discussions

cherigucchi @cherigucchi (15838) • Philippines 6 Apr 13

I love discussions which deal with one's faith in God. But as much as possible I do not like to start discussion which solely talk about religion nor participate in the discussion which talk about it. It is not that I do not have...

belief in religions

faith

religious doctrines

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Mintlin In my country,we've been taught from primary school that donot talk about any religion topic with foreigners.It's so complicated and every place every culture is different,what we can do is just respect it and donot comment it. I never concern any religion...

6 Apr 13

Can Woman Gives Flowers to a Man Too? Anyway, What is The Meaning of Flowers?

Secret @IntrovertShy (2780) • Marikina, Philippines 14 Feb 13

I was curioused. I always seen men give flowers to women. Is there a meaning behind it? Does a flower has a symbol on it? Does it have a meaning? And do women can give flowers to men too? If it is forbidden, then what does...

anyway

flowers

meaning

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Mintlin I never give man flowers while i only receive flowers from my husband. I think it's ok to give man flowers,sounds creative.nowadays,man are tired of getting gifts like lighter,belt,wine,wallet. Flowers is a creative gift to give,it presents love and alive.

6 Apr 13

Are You Satisfied with Your job

anujkumarkumar1 @anujkumarkumar1 (721) 5 Apr 13

Hello friends! I am working with a multinational company in india, Everything is o.k. here.Environment is really Good, no work pressure i have and the compay has a good reputation in international market but still i am not...

are you satisfied

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Mintlin I can say i'm wasting my time here in my office. I donot like my job much,most of time,i donot know what to do in my office,we donot have much task here,so it's very idle,the pay is so so ,i already lost my spirit here. i think i need a challeng job,a...

6 Apr 13

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I wish I was a MAN..!

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 4 Apr 13

I really wish if i could be a man, it is my wish from childhood, to be a man is something so good, men are free, can give commands, i think life could be easier if i was a man... a man is not afraid of things that much, can take...

man

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Mintlin sometimes i do wish i was a man too,i must be honest,i'm not that happy with my gender.though man and woman are equal nowadays,but there are still many discrimination in our society .especially job discrimination and child gender discrimination in family. in...

4 Apr 13

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Loyalty in relationship

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 2 Apr 13

How mush loyalty is important in relationship or in marriage? are you loyal to your partner? what do you think about loyalty? and how do you try to be loyal or teach loyalty to your partner?

loyal

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Mintlin I'm hypersensitive when talking about loyalty.It's a very important factor i would consider in the relationship.But loyalty is not that easy to find out.It's possible that before marriage he is very loyal but suddenly become cheating on you after married. My...

2 Apr 13

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How I wish somebody will changed my life in a moment...

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 2 Apr 13

Good day Fellow Mylotters, Due to the unhappy situations that I am facing, my eyes cannot help but cry. As there are times, I just fell asleep crying. Hence, I am always praying that God will sent a person to cheer me up....

changed my life in a moment

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Mintlin I totally understand how you feel. I have such kind of feeling before,especially when i feel despaired.But i suggest you save by yourself,god is too busy to listen our pray,be positive and strong,only you can save yourself. i hope you will be ok !

2 Apr 13

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Do you believe love means sacrify?

sonusd @sonusd (1545) • India 31 Mar 13

Some people says love means sacrifice, but I do not believe in this phrase. If I sacrifice then what I got ? Although we should not expect but practically if we do not get love in return then why should we love some one? is it...

sacrify in love

true love

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Mintlin at some point,yes,i agree love means sacrifice,once you choose your love one,it means you have to give up other man/woman,you cannot accept others court,right? But it's worth to do so. then you have to spare your time from work to your love one,accompany...

31 Mar 13

Would you stay in a complicated relationship if you are seeing some hope.

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 31 Mar 13

I didn't know I would be in a complicated relationship. I didn't regret what I ha experience cause I had learned a lot. I just regret that i was not careful so i was hurt. I met this man at work, he was so nice, gentle, caring and...

complicated

life

relationship

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Mintlin what is the problem in your relationship ? Does he have a wife already ? there is not a yes or no answer for your question,i think we should figure out what is the problem first,then we can decide is it worthy or not to stay in that complicated relationship....

31 Mar 13

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How To Fall in Love?

valorieesquilona @valorieesquilona (442) • Philippines 30 Mar 13

Can you teach me how to fall in love? Can love be learned? Or am I asking stupid questions? I'm afraid that I do not know how to fall in love because I find it hard falling for someone. I don't know..maybe it's not the right time...

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Mintlin according to my expeience,you don't need to worry so much,this is a natural skill,once you meet your true love,you will know how to fall in love.

31 Mar 13

Mother-in-Law

Always smiling @allknowing (153926) • India 19 Mar 13

Are you the lucky one that you have no problems with your mother-in-law? Or is she the lucky one? The situation becomes unfortunate when you like her but she does not like you. Or she likes you but you don't. What is your...

relationships

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Mintlin Regarding my relationship with my mother in law,well,how to express that? I think we are just fine. Honestly,i do not like my parents in law much,they are from countryside and very traditional,old-fashioned and superstitious,i rarely talk to them,because we...

31 Mar 13

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Can Exes be Friends Again?

quieley @quieley (316) • Philippines 29 Mar 13

Can two people who just broke up can really be friends again and get over the past. Isn't it hard to go back when you have been more than friends?

exes

exes fiends

friend

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Mintlin I believe some people they can be friends with their exes. but for me,NO,absolutely no. I do not want to involved in his life any more,he hurts me deeply,i just want to move on and looking for a new life.he's already a past.

30 Mar 13

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chinese foods in japan, do i need to worry? cheap means bad quality or not?..

scubapro @scubapro (1049) • Gifu, Japan 30 Mar 13

i live in japan,tokyo.here is really crowded and there are many restaurants,shopping centers,stores. i lvoe japanese foods ,especially sushi,udon,soba,natto. my favourite meat is chicken ,i love chicken so much,any parts of...

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Mintlin I agreed most of people said cheap price doesn't mean bad quality. yes,for chinese,chinese food is kind of dangerous,but you donot need to worry so much,because chinese exporter are very careful when it comes to food exporting,especially for japan (japan...

30 Mar 13