Nikhabele

@Nikhabele (166)

South Africa • Age 47

Joined myLot 14 years ago

If they insist you are not good enough, just say I'm gonna do it anyway.

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I miss him madly....

ryanong @ryanong (9664) • Vietnam 29 Dec 12

Yeah, i have to confess that....event though i am very busy with my research, i work day and night over weekend in here but i always think of him when i am on the way going to the lab or back home... Before i went to korea, he...

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Nikhabele What is he to you? Anyway the way you go about it, I guess you are in love. Enjoy it.

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Have you ever been interested in your old company?

Polang @tkonlinevn (6427) • Vietnam 14 Jul 12

Today, I open a recruitment site. I see an ad of my old company. They recruit many employees. I'm curious how it has developed now. So, I visit their website. I'm not interested in the old company much from I left here. But I...

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Nikhabele I won't call it interest, because I was unemployed ( suddenly) because the company I went to after resigning from them, went insolvent. So I used to miss the previous company but anyway I didn't have the guts to apply as they obviously thought things were...

14 Jul 12

Cannibalism on the rise?

debrakcarey @debrakcarey (19887) • United States 31 May 12

Caution: this story contains graphic account of cannibalism. http://patdollard.com/2012/05/zombies-rising-san-antonio-woman-kills-infant-eats-brain/ We heard recently on the news of a homeless man in Miami being attacked...

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Nikhabele A bit????? You are getting "a bit" freaked out? This is frightening Debra,,,,it's scary, for me at least. And what causes this cannibalism crap? The thought of one animal eating one of its kind is scary and surprising for me, if it's between human beings it's...

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Would you be lost without a gps system?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9460) • United States 27 May 12

I'm always getting lost. It seems even when we print directions some how the directions give us some wrong information. That makes my husband so upset as there really isn't any other way to get directions but from online when we...

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Nikhabele No I don't get lost but in fact I think gps gives me unnecessarily long routes. So if I'm in the area that I know even though I don't know the place I'm going to, I follow the road signs, if Im in the area I don't know then it's the most wonderful thing,...

28 May 12

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leaving or staying?

mluvko2_24 @mluvko2_24 (7) 23 May 12

i'm a single parent with a dauther,,,my sister offered me to go abroad,,,,to find a job,,but im having second thouht abaout leaving my dauther,,, i grow up with my gradmother who take care of us beacuse of the same situation,,and...

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Nikhabele I personally don't stay with my daughter, she stays with my mum and she's happy. But the bottom line is, she misses me and I miss her more and I feel bad, as if I'm failing her, although this saddens my mum. Whenever I say that, she thinks it's because I think...

24 May 12

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Making money online is not easy

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 21 May 12

Most online earners are constantly trying to increase their earnings by joining new sites that promise to pay more .However, I feel that it is not easy to make money on line.If you are able to earn 10 dollars a day it is good, but...

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Nikhabele I believe people who are ale to make proper satisfying money/income online are people who do it full time. I know I can't keep up because some days after work I dont even want to see the computer scree, I'm too tired. So the are many days when I don't even log...

21 May 12

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Feeling sad..

dollar3235 @dollar3235 (2062) • India 19 May 12

Yeah, I'm feeling sad lately, things are happening in unexpected way, everything seems to be out of it's place, I had a little bit of job related worries initially in this year, after that loss of money due to unexpected reasons...

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Nikhabele No one is ever ready for a bad thing to happen, and bad things always happens. I'm yet to meet someone who's not having a little bit of this or that. In fact it seems like everybody is talking about this today.and I am also going through stuff also, iwe are...

19 May 12

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So Depressed!

nitz_godinez @nitz_godinez (62) • Philippines 19 May 12

Have you tried being depressed? Or experiencing the feelings of being sad, hopeless, or pessimistic or having low self-esteem ;decrease or loss of ability to take pleasure in ordinary activities; reduced energy and vitality;...

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Nikhabele I have been really down and sort of drowning, I didn't go to the doctor for diagnosis but I suspect that was depression,,,,,,I used to have suicidal thoughts very often but the second I feel like that I'd think of my daughter who didn't even know what was...

19 May 12

This Life

mikemirasol @mikemirasol (31) 18 May 12

I know we live entirely different lives and my life ain't that perfect, but I'm okay with. Though sometimes I still look for answers to my questions why I had to live a life like this. I'm not saying I'm not contented with it but...

life struggles inspiration

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Nikhabele Hi Mike,,,,,don't we all? I mean life can be so beautiful and merry now, only to be all messy and muddy the next minute. But to be honest I also sometimes feel like its only me who's going through that. And when that happens,often times I find myself asking...

19 May 12

My husband doesn't give time for me

rkennedee @rkennedee (333) 17 May 12

I'm really feeling bad. I'm a housewife and my husband's work is really far from home that's why we only see each other once a week. I'm ok with the set up but inside the office cellhone is not alound. I'm feeling bad that we...

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Nikhabele The best will be to talk to your husband, agree on a more healthier agreement which is to join him and close that gap. You are housewife, Ou should have joined him in the first instance, if maybe children were at school, then by year end you shoul have all...

18 May 12

Can a man be just a friend with his ex?

besweet @besweet (9830) • Ireland 13 May 12

Last week, I was out having a coffee with my boyfriend and some friends, and his ex-girlfriend came by and started talking to him. They had a long relationship that ended a few years ago and they hadn't met each other for a long...

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Nikhabele Yes besweet I think you should bring it up again. Tell him it's wrong to be too friendly at his ex and even have the odesity to say she's just like that. If she used to be like that then, it was because they were in a relationship, so she must be like that...

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Very sweet.

chicgale @chicgale (2982) • Philippines 12 May 12

I am so lucky to have a daughter like her. hehehehhe My 7 year old daughter cleaned the house, and set the table for lunch today. I wanted to help her but she don't want me to do anything. She said she will just do the house work...

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Nikhabele That's so sweet and it's unbelievable how fast they grow up. Mine is eight going on nine but I tell you I still can't believe when she tells me she can cook. I allow her to fry an egg for herself but I can't picture he cooking other food. WhenI look at her I...

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Why does life have to be so stressful????????

thechans @thechans (79) • United States 12 May 12

Ever notice how consistently stressful life is? It would be so great to just have a day off here and there without it. My only relief is my daughter. Without her I don't think I could get through it. Share with me how you relieve...

stress consistently stressful life help

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Nikhabele Figure out what's stressing you but at the same time know that everybody is stressed anyway. So if you don't like your position right now and wish you were somebody somewhere, ask yourself what they dealing with and will you be able to deal with it yourself?...

13 May 12

How do you get the books you read?

jricky1 @jricky1 (6797) • China 11 May 12

We love to read and that brings us lot of leisure.Most importantly,i wanna know that where do you usually get the books? Buy or just borrow from the library? Or just staying in the bookstore for a whole day? I heard from my friend...

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Nikhabele I buy my books, I believe a good book is for keeps,and I don't borrow people my books. No. If a person insists I'd rather buy them a copy, depending on how special that person is to me, or refer them to the bookstore. Also sitting at a bookstore and read is...

12 May 12

How do you survive the downtimes?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 9 May 12

There's been a downtime in everyone's life. Family problems, health issues, financial crises - and sometimes all of these hold hands and knock your door together. However difficult, we survive the trying times. Some just manages,...

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Nikhabele Honestly everyone has those times, and experiences. It's just beyond me how other people manage to suppress the feeling, because according to me, if times are hard you need a strong pillar and support. So to answer your question yes I've had bad times and if...

9 May 12

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I will really feel sad if I loose my friend.

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 9 May 12

A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters, I feel quite sad for the past 2 days as I have the feeling that I will gonna loose a friend. That due to some misunderstanding, our friendship will just loss like that. Well, before I don't mind...

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Nikhabele Friendships are like any other relationships and therefore they are to be treated as such, give her sometime and then phone her to apologies, sometimes we do that even if you are not wrong. It all depends on how valuable the friendship is. Good luck.

9 May 12

Why does it had to end this way?

Ayeizsha @gaiza12 (4884) • Philippines 9 May 12

I hate the mood in our office today. The secretary of our boss has just been fired because we are not gaining much profit lately. I hate the feeling of seeing someone leave you when you are already too close to that person. She...

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Nikhabele Shame, this is such a sad story about your colleague. The nice people always get hurt the most, the wicked remain and they continue being wicked. I hope her and he husband get on well.

9 May 12

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I clean my face using water with salt

Ganjzi @Ganjzi (53) • Philippines 2 Apr 12

I have read articles about salt solution can remove oil and dirt on your face. Well I think it is effective. I do not wash my face with soap, or facial wash anymore. I have a plastic bottle with 50 ml. of distilled water and I mix...

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Nikhabele Wow, this is a new one, and I can't wait to get home to try it out as I have oily skin and I'd do what it takes to deal with the oil. So far I've spent a lot on good products, which works but I wouldn't mind using a more affordable equally effective...

8 May 12

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