PATTYCAKE1979

@PATTYCAKE1979 (227)

United States • Age 47

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Just for fun.

kiobug @kiobug (2250) • United States 11 Oct 07

Finish the following sentences about yourself: I wish _____. I want _____. I am _____. I have _____. I want _____. I used to _____. Ive been hurt by _____. I would fight for _____. I would never give up _____. I will...

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PATTYCAKE1979 I wish i had alot of money. I want stability. I am a woman. I want to live. I used to be a college student. I've always loved family. I would never give up my integrity. I will always be me.

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child support

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 26 Mar 07

should dad's who don't bother to pay child support still get to have visitation rights. i don't see how it's fair for my ex to never pay for anything and still get all his rights. my daughter is not getting her rights to the money...

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PATTYCAKE1979 I got one question that I hope no one will get offended or upset about. Is money brought at the time the child was concieved? Meaning was money discussed when you laid down with him? I don't think money should be the reason to deny a dad his rights, if he...

26 Mar 07

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If you were to die today, what would be your biggest regret?

tedmark @tedmark (47) • Philippines 26 Mar 07

maybe id regret the things that gives me chances but i dont take those chances and the wrong things that ive done for others.

tedmark

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PATTYCAKE1979 God! What took you so long, Why didn't you come sooner! (LOL.....) Nah, I am just kidding, my biggest regret would be not to have achieved my TRUE dreams.

26 Mar 07

If God will give you a day with Him, what will you do?

mskzalameda @mskzalameda (4023) • Philippines 26 Mar 07

will you ask questions about the earth? how about your loved one, why do they leave us? is there really soulmate? are angels true? what will you do in a day spent with GOD ONLY.

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PATTYCAKE1979 Wow! This is a good one. There are so many things I would ask, he would get irritated with me! (smile) i would ask about how long it took to make earth. Do we all have the chance to be saved one last time on our death bed? What is Jesus like? What was Adam and...

26 Mar 07

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wats the best thing about Oprah?

joan_hazle @joan_hazle (127) • India 1 Jan 07

i think its her way of talking and her behaviour

oprah

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PATTYCAKE1979 I think what you see is who she really is, she doesn't seem to be acting infront of the camera. She's real and her personality is so flourishing.

26 Mar 07

Are You a Social Person?

monica1981 @monica1981 (466) • United States 23 Mar 07

When meeting new people are you a social person, or are you shy? I tend to be really shy around new people, but once I get to know someone I open up pretty fast. I know people though who have no problem talking to strangers and...

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PATTYCAKE1979 I am not a socialable person at all! I will admit it. I have a hard time opening up to people. When I first met my friend of eight years now, she thought I was a snob. After she got to know me, she said I talked to much (smile) and her perspective of me was so...

25 Mar 07

what do you do when you are bored?

nicks89 @nicks89 (46) • India 25 Mar 07

hi, how do you kill your idle time?? what you do when you are bored and nothing to do ? as far as me i just go out and listen to my ipod.

bored

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PATTYCAKE1979 When I get really bored, I usually take a nap.

25 Mar 07

Who was in the delivery room when you gave birth?

gapeach65 @gapeach65 (805) • United States 23 Mar 07

This morning I was reminded of a funny situation when I gave birth to my youngest son. The room was dark, it was about 4 AM, my husband was by my side, there was the doctor and a few nurses (I don't remember how many). After my...

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PATTYCAKE1979 I have four kids. The last delivery I has I was alone. No family, was in the room. Only my doctor and the nurses. I wanted it that way. I called my dad, my sister to let them know he was here but everyone else heard it by someone else. The reason I did it was...

25 Mar 07

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New born baby...

jcvernz @jcvernz (477) • Philippines 23 Mar 07

Full of innocence and life. But not all are being welcome by their parents. Sad to hear the news last night that a baby is about to put into grave who is still alive. The caretaker of the cementery open up the plastic and found...

new born baby

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PATTYCAKE1979 How long was the baby in the cemetary? I don't understand that if you don't want the child, once it is born, what is the big deal about giving it to a family who will do what you are either scared or just don't want to do? This is crazy, I'm shaking my head...

25 Mar 07

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"I LOVE YOU"... do you prefer in words or in actions?

mylesnarvaez @mylesnarvaez (5450) • Philippines 25 Mar 07

for the receiver: often people would prefer to feel loved and cared for and would probably choose the actions rather than the words. for some, they would prefer to hear the words coz that's giving it straight to them as compared...

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PATTYCAKE1979 I would rather be shown. Words have it's way of manipulation and not all truth. Where as actions show truth.

25 Mar 07

is there such thing as a perfect relationship?

lexxie3 @lexxie3 (52) • Malaysia 24 Mar 07

yeah we all heard these before,,two couples sharing the same interest and ambitions in life,creates a perfect relationship.. but the tricky part is finding that special someone who shares all your interest and desires in...

love

realtionship

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PATTYCAKE1979 Sure relationships can be perfect. Just not in this lifetime (smile) Just joking, serioulsy, I believe perfection is possible with two compatible mates.

24 Mar 07

What does it take to change our world......

biotechfreak @biotechfreak (97) • India 24 Mar 07

There are so many brilliant minds in this world...striving to improve the conditions of humanity, then why can't we see things changing???? We have got scientists, Engineers, artists and numerous people full of creativity, then...

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PATTYCAKE1979 Resources. We are in such need for more resources that the access has became impossible. If you don't have the money or know the right kind of people being these things just have no meaning. Our systems see dollar bills, or family of someone that is not very...

24 Mar 07

who do you turn to when you have a problem??

lpetges @lpetges (3036) • United States 24 Mar 07

is it your spouse, your friend, your neighbor, your parents?

problems

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PATTYCAKE1979 The person I have the problem with. Nothing like going to the source.

24 Mar 07

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There's Something You Want To Say To Someone...

SpitFire179 @SpitFire179 (2536) • Canada 24 Mar 07

But you just feel like you can't, it doesn't matter who it is, it doesn't matter what it is you have to say, but you just can't seem to say it to them face to face or on the internet even. What is it? One of the worst things...

concience

have something to say

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talk

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PATTYCAKE1979 I use to feel like that until I had a nervous breakdown, then I couldn't shut my mouth. I spoke what was on my mind anywhere at anytime, and I will not spare feelings. Alot of people don't like it and some do, but it is a load off, speaking what you feel,...

24 Mar 07

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Soul Mate

kitkat1 @kitkat1 (1227) • Canada 24 Mar 07

Everyone is suppose to have on true soul mate in the world. The only person you can connect to even without words and miles could separate you and that person it is as if they can read your mind when they are not there. Have you...

mate

soul

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PATTYCAKE1979 I feel I have met my soul mate. It is my second relationship and the things I feel and have seen has been some of the most memorable and cherished ever! We read each other's mind. It's like we see through one another. I know when he's lying and vice versa,...

24 Mar 07

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Do you think Satan Exists?

desertdarlene @desertdarlene (8911) • United States 24 Mar 07

Do you think Satan exists, or do you think he's a myth.

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PATTYCAKE1979 Satan surely exixts, the bible speaks about evil and betrayal amongst ourselves. We are self-destructing, satan is the mascot of destructors. I believe it explains alot of people's actions. You know when people say things like "What wrong with him/her she/he...

24 Mar 07

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*Girls* Do you like long hair on a guy?

brandi_girl_16 @brandi_girl_16 (624) • United States 24 Mar 07

I do! I think it's so hot when a guy has long hair! Not like long, nasty, thin at the bottom long hair but longer hair like that curls under the baseball cap's rim! It's so cute! My boyfriend used to have long hair like that then...

guys long hair

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PATTYCAKE1979 It depends, If he keeps it up like the maintenance, it's ok, but just hanging everywhere and never trim it or anything is very unattractive, but I would prefer a clean cut guy, with a little facial hair (goo-tee) or a mustache.

24 Mar 07

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jobs

kitkat1 @kitkat1 (1227) • Canada 24 Mar 07

What is the worst job you have ever had? Mine would have been working in a fish processing plant it was just plain gross. Makes me wonder why i still like to eat fish lol.

jobs

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PATTYCAKE1979 My worst job was working in a Lab, distributing urine into this machine after testing for a job, or a doctor's office or whatever. The urine is sealed with red tape and reasy for disposal. My first break after two hours of work, I left, they called me the next...

24 Mar 07

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Kids Say the Darndest things

kitkat1 @kitkat1 (1227) • Canada 24 Mar 07

My little girl came to me one day with another little girls phone number on a piece of paper and asked if she could call her friend. I told her sure she could and so she examined the piece of paper than looked at me all serious...

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PATTYCAKE1979 That's cute, um well, my four year old is very, very curious. He wants McDonalds one day, and I told him I didn't have money for it, that next time we can. He was ok with it, so as I pulled into the gas station I pulled out $20 to pay for gas, and he goes "Ma,...

24 Mar 07

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What Do You Consider Good Discipline?

ChrisRock619 @ChrisRock619 (1040) • United States 24 Mar 07

We all know these days lots of children are trying to defy their parents, it's not a matter of "Kids will be kids" they'll more times than none just flat out disobey. What do you think is a good and effect way to punish children...

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PATTYCAKE1979 This is tough, well it would depend on the situation, what one parent thinks he serious may not be to another. I handle my children with talks, punishments, (no company; no video games; no telephone; extra chores) But this may not work for other parents, but...

24 Mar 07

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