aihaoqi

@aihaoqi (14)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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can money buy happiness?

juanmary @juanmary (39) • China 28 Dec 08

can money buy happiness? this is the question that my friend ask me yestoday.what's your opinion?

happiness

money

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aihaoqi You see,money is important,but,it can't buy real love.Would you be happy without love.The answer is 'No'.Though money can buy a lot of things i want,it can't give my happiness.

31 Dec 08

How to do with dispensible anxiety?

aihaoqi @aihaoqi (14) • China 23 Dec 08

I have always been worried about the things unhappened.I know it is dispensible,but I am unable to stop .I think i have too much pressure.I am worried about my job in future. I need you advices about how i can do with my...

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aihaoqi No,i haven't.I'm sorry to hear that about you husband.You must be very worried about him.My anxiety isn't so severe.Now,i'm not so worried as before.My worry is not about everything .I'm only worried about my job and my life with my boyfriend in the future.I...

24 Dec 08

How to do with dispensible anxiety?

aihaoqi @aihaoqi (14) • China 23 Dec 08

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What are you looking forward to in 2009?

MichaelJay @MichaelJay (1100) 23 Dec 08

We have had a rough year what with losing my job at the end of October - that has presented us with some challenges. There is gloom and doom about the economic situation and new work will be hard to come by. However, my oldest...

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aihaoqi I am staying with my parents in morning of new year.I love them.You know ,having the love of your parents is so felicific.Next year ,I hope i will learn much and not waste time.MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY NEW YEAR!

23 Dec 08

I Need Some Women's Opinions

jambi462 @jambi462 (4576) • United States 23 Dec 08

How would you feel if your boyfriend asked you your opinion on having a threesome with one of your close friends? If you were sexually attracted to women and thought that your friend was attractive would you do it? I want to ask...

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aihaoqi I think you must tell her why you invite her close friends.If is me ,i will always think why you invite her and not other girl.If you have no other mind,no need to worry about it.

23 Dec 08

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Your only daughter gets pregnant in collge or high school,what do you do ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 22 Dec 08

I am sure this situation has happened to many families but I am curious as to how would you handle such a situation?.Would you first curse and put her out of the house ? Would you sit her down and deal responsibly with the...

teenage pregnancy

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aihaoqi I will not get her away.You know ,as i am angry ,she is sad and worried.Whatever she had done ,I should know she is your daughter.She needs my help.If i drop her ,who can help her? Tell her the situation what she would face if she had the baby.Let her choose...

22 Dec 08

what would u do if u find difficult to fall asleep at night?

kunking @kunking (1118) • China 21 Dec 08

hey, mylotters! sometimes we are too excited to get asleep at night,or we get worried about something that may happen later such as an importane exam, or a job interview..anyway, we can't easily fall asleep as usual..so what would...

difficult fall asleep

job interview

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aihaoqi When i find difficult to fall asleep,i will do some exercises,or read books.Most of the time ,i fabricate stories untill i get to sleep.

22 Dec 08

Have you ever forgot your parents' birthday?

garfield_zhou @garfield_zhou (530) • China 18 Dec 08

I always remember my parents' birhday except this year due to my busy work. what a shame, I should have inputed their birthday into my PDA, which would reminds me of that ahead of two days. I love my parents, I feel guilty of...

parents

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aihaoqi Before university,I had always forgotten my parents birday.But now I feel guilty of that I have done.So,i have never forgotten the birday of my parents in recent years.Even when i have no time to celebrate the birday,i still call them to say i love them.I...

22 Dec 08

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I had a break up today

sunilpatel @sunilpatel (150) • India 21 Dec 08

I am writing this just after my break up with my girl freind. No question its feels like ruined and dead. Is there any way I can overcome this shock? Decent one please

shock

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aihaoqi I'm sorry to hear that .Though i don't know the reason for your breaking,i understand the feeling.To talk with your friend.If your home is near the sea ,go to the seacoast and feel the sea breeze.

21 Dec 08

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Yes or no?????????????

Lili2008 @Lili2008 (91) • Canada 21 Dec 08

Can you tell me if you get a present from your husband or boyfriend for your birthday every year? Is it important for you what kind of present do you get? How much does he spend for it?

birthday

present

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aihaoqi I got some presents from my boy friend several years ago. But,in recent years,I have got no present from my boyfriend for my birthday except a birthday cake.He think there is nothing usefull to buy.Though I have told it was no need to buy my birthday present,I...

21 Dec 08

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what will you do if you have a bad day?

juanmary @juanmary (39) • China 17 Dec 08

for me,if i feel rather blue,i will do something else to forget it.usually,i'd like to watching an interesting movie or playing some interesting games until i feel better.what will you do if you have a bad day?

bad

better

feel

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aihaoqi If I have a bad day ,first i will have a conversation with my best friend or my boyfriend.They will encourage me and give me some advices.Perhaps,the advice is useless,but I think my mood can improve gradually during the conversation.Certainly,to do something...

18 Dec 08

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Do you smoke?

maximus2006 @maximus2006 (835) • Hong Kong 16 Apr 08

Do you smoke? I smoke too much these days because I am busy with a project. I often work till midnight,even 2:00AM. when I feel tired, I just have a cigarette to make me feel a little more clear. I do know it's...

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aihaoqi I don't smoke.I prevent the members of my family from smoking,too.It's harmful to our healthy.Since you know its harm,you should try to drop it.I know it is very difficult to drop it,so you can find something else instead of it when you feel fired.For...

14 Dec 08