amandakringle

@amandakringle (109)

United States • Age 37

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Hurting the one you love...

tayrone09 @tayrone09 (47) • Philippines 9 Aug 10

hey guys just wanna know your insights... What is the difference between hurting the one you love physically to hurting the one you love emotionally???... if the feeling is just the same...

emotional

hurt

physically

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amandakringle Having been in both places I would definetly been emotionally hurt rather than physically hurt. The physical hurt can cause more damage and be life threatening. Physically hurting someone that you love is not right and is worse than an emotional wound in my...

9 Aug 10

Should you beat her up?

casnoking @casnoking (87) 9 Aug 10

Hello friends, my girl sometimes makes me feel like loosing my mind. She does things that sometimes I think the only solution is to beat her up or something. Although I have never tried to do that before, sometimes I feel like it...

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amandakringle Casnocking; I had a guyfriend who was in your exact place. However one day when she dared him he snapped and actually did it. He ended up breaking her nose and she called the police on him. To make a long story short he did 18 months for assault, was...

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My Friend passed away...

mr_pearl @mr_pearl (5018) • India 9 Aug 10

Dear fellows, a good friend of mine passed away mysteriously yesterday night. They say it was an accident. A vehicle ran over him. But the circumstances point to foul play here. And I am feeling terrible! He had been helping with...

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amandakringle Mr. Pearl please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your friend. Good firends are hard to come by these days and its a hard loss when one is so abruptly taken from us. Please extend my condolences on to his family.

9 Aug 10

does the past of your lover matters to you? how do you deal with it?

aaronfyzeon @aaronfyzeon (1919) • Philippines 9 Aug 10

We are now very happy that we already found SOMEONE that we love. We are enjoying the times you are being together! you are proud of yourself as well that he / she loves you. But sometimes his / her past will be an issue! Yes! it...

being cool with the past of your lover

dealing with the past

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amandakringle I personally don't mind if a guy is friends with an ex. My only issue comes when that ex is placed above me on his priority list. I also don't necessarily mind if he confided in her about somethings like a suprise party for me. However where I would have an...

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would you except your name isnt on none of the bank accounts

syankee525 @syankee525 (6249) • United States 11 Apr 10

i just answer a discussion about having names on accounts at the bank. so i thought of this. and this is true.. to dumb to make it up my neice who is married, her name isnt on thier checking account at all, or even on her...

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amandakringle Let me think.......Not no, but he!! no. There is no way that my money would be going into an account like that. How in the world does she put up with that? Do they tell her when she can and cannot spend money too? Jeeze, no offense to you or your neice but...

26 Apr 10

He wants me to pay. Would you?

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 26 Apr 10

I haven't written about my husband in awhile so I guess it's time. My husband's niece is getting married this Saturday. She lives about 300 miles away so we'd have to at least spend one night there. The problem is, the wedding...

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amandakringle Not no, but He!! no. Remember you are under no obligation to be considerate or loving to those who are inconsiderate and unloving towards you. He is definetly taking advantage of you and your situation. I am sorry to say this but it seems that he married you...

26 Apr 10

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Should he propose to you tonight... would you accept?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 22 Apr 10

To the women with boyfriends or partners (unmarried): Should he propose to you tonight.. would it be a definite 'yes'? Why? Why Not? To the men (unmarried): What would it take for you to propose to your girl? To the married...

life

marriage

proposal

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amandakringle If my boyfriend were to propose to me tonight the answer would be no. Its not that I dont care about my man, because I do, but we live together and I am quite happy with where we are as a couple. I am not ready for marriage and want to finish my degree first....

22 Apr 10

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What is your view on marriage?

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 8 Nov 09

what are your views on marriage? Do you also favor divorce? why?

divorce

marriage

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amandakringle Like most people I think that marriage is a scared institution that is to be cherished. However I also believe that it is a full time job. Marriage takes work from day one. Marriage is not something that should be taken lightly or taken advantage of. I believe...

22 Apr 10

Living together before marriage

Airiam @Airiam (12) • United States 21 Apr 10

I just had to do an oral presentation and paper for my english class on living together before marriage and I was wondering what you all thought. Do you believe that living together before marriage is a good idea? Or do you think...

cohabit

living together before marriage

relationships

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amandakringle I think that living together is a good thing. Even though it was against my up bringing, I dont see a problem with living together. From my own experience it has really helped me see the type of man that I am with and has saved me from marrying people that...

22 Apr 10

does he still like me???? a guys opinion would be good on this

OConnell87 @OConnell87 (1042) 30 Mar 10

I was with my boyfriend for 6 months when he dumped me few weeks ago saying he didnt have feelings for me anymore. But he txts me at least once a weeks asking how i am and last night he txt me questioning about the fact that i...

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amandakringle A word of caution would be to be very careful and think about taking him back very seriously. I have had the same situation almost exactly. Taking the guy back was one of the worst mistakes that I have ever made. The relationship was horrible and controlling....

31 Mar 10

Need Help

manusmichelle @manusmichelle (30) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 6 Jan 10

I been talking to a man online for over a year and i am truly in love with him but he talks to another women and lies about a lot of stuff.What should i do?

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amandakringle He is a heart break waiting to happen. So unless your aching to be hurt, you may want to just leave him alone.

8 Jan 10

Does he still like me...is there hope?

Dawn C @indiandevil (2477) • Canada 6 Jan 10

Well back in August, I broke up with this guy the first few months were very hard niether of us were speaking to the other, hurtful things were said on both parts. It appeared we would never speak again, and then he came to me,...

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amandakringle Hi, I dont think that he really likes, you but rather your attention. But you have to do what you feel is right for you.

8 Jan 10

Whwn is the right time/age to loose your VIRGINITY???? PLZ HELP!!

ankush19 @ankush19 (154) • India 22 Dec 09

hi guys, there is some problem that i'm facing these days.i cant explain the situation here but i just wanted to ask u people that when is the right time to loose your virginity?? or in other words what according to u is the...

life

virginity

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amandakringle Hi ankush19, The best time to lose your virginity is when you are ready and when you are with a man that loves you for who you are good and bad. A minute before you are truly ready (mentally, physically and emotionally) can cause some deep emotinal and mental...

23 Dec 09

I lost my virginty a mouth ago and i regret it,help plez?

persona_touch @persona_touch (1701) • United States 23 Dec 09

I'm 20 and my bf is 21 i know thats is the age of an aduit but still i have been having a lot of regete of losting in october of this year.(i don't know if its cus i was a v for so long or what) i have been cheat on before and i...

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amandakringle Hi persona_touch, I want to apologize now because this may be rahter long, but its meant to encourage you. I was in your situation not to long ago. I was raised in a religious home, and in church. When I lost my "v" to a guy whom I loved, I found out that he...

23 Dec 09

Background Checks on Sitters

Anora_Eldorath @Anora_Eldorath (6028) • United States 22 Dec 09

This weekend we had a scare with our children which resulted in the sitter being dismissed. Now we are currently wondering how does one politely ask those seeking sitting employment with us to provide a background check? Has...

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amandakringle Hi, the best way to ask is to just come out and tell them "we do background checks" and ask if they would mind submitting to one. If they say no then don't feel bad about it, they may have had something to hide. You can NEVER be too careful about those who you...

22 Dec 09

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fall out of love

novelcai @novelcai (600) • Philippines 22 Dec 09

what would you do if your in a relationship and you feel that you already fall out of love to your partner? do you have enough courage to tell him/her straight what you feel? i know some guys hate that if the goodbye will start to...

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amandakringle Hi, novelcai, having been in that sitaution before I have found that its best to be honest with the other person. If you continue to pretend you are only hurting yourself and the other person. It may hurt them at first but they would rather you just be honet...

22 Dec 09

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Kids and their weight.

froggieslover @froggieslover (3069) • United States 22 Dec 09

I have a son that is 10 years and weight 110 lbs. As a mother I am concerned that he may be getting a bit overweight but I am not sure how to get him to more exercise without hurting his feelings. I am a diabetic and it runs in...

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amandakringle Hi froggieslover, I can definetly relate, but more with your son. I was overweight as a child too and it caused a lot of breathing problems and other health issues for me. My mom finally had enough and took me to see a pediatrician and at 11 years old and 120...

22 Dec 09

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Are PitBulls safe to be around Children?

nakitalikely3617 @nakitalikely3617 (453) • United States 30 Nov 09

Hello mylotters! I am thinking about purchasing a puppy for my 5 month old daughter and I was thinking to purchase a breed that would get fairly big and grow with her. I was sort of interested in getting a pitbull but was...

dogs

pits

puppies

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amandakringle Hi, nakitalikely, from my own personal opinion it may be best to wait until your daughter is alittle older before you buy her a puppy, especially if she is the only reason that you are considering adding a puppy to your house hold. she may not be old enough to...

1 Dec 09

Write a Diary , do you have this habit ??

shia88 @shia88 (4570) • Malaysia 9 Oct 09

I used to write a diary when I was in Singapore for my study. It is because I am alone there,so writing a diary is a way for me to express my happiness and sadness. I wrote a diary for a couple of years and I have 3 diaries...

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amandakringle I keep a daily journal, I am not very good at expressing my thoughts and feelings all the time especially to my boyfriend so I find this helps. Also I have had problems with suicidal thoughts before and decided that I really needed to get help. I showed the...

21 Oct 09