arnicki

@arnicki (10)

Jamaica • Age 50

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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An Idle mind is a dangerous thing!

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 16 Sep 09

Do you agree with this statement? I could well attest to this in terms of relationships when I had no job and the only thing I'd do the whole day is wait for my partner to come home. I'd think about a lot of fearful things and...

idle mind

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arnicki In Jamaica, we say that the devil finds time for idle hands...that includes the mind! I know what you mean when you do not have things to occupy your mind you always seem to stray in thinking the worst. I find that happens the most for me when I am bored...So...

18 Sep 09

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Word of the Day: Insensitive

sheetalnr @sheetalnr (586) • India 10 Sep 09

Give me examples of sentences that can use the word Insensitive and maybe a small story related to it.

word of the day

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arnicki highly insensitive being someone slightly overweight myself!! I agree!

11 Sep 09

Word of the Day: Insensitive

sheetalnr @sheetalnr (586) • India 10 Sep 09

Give me examples of sentences that can use the word Insensitive and maybe a small story related to it.

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arnicki My boss is very insensitive to the caring people she has around her. She is always making comments that no one does anything for her and its always about her. Her insensitiveness is shown from saying that we are selfish, "country", stupid...and I don't think...

11 Sep 09

Which would you prefer... No electricity for 3 days or no water for 3 days?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 11 Sep 09

Let's just say some major upgrade needs to be done in the city, so you have time to store up water or electricity (for those who have generators and such). There's going to be a choice of which to sacrifice. Would you rather have...

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arnicki I think I would rather no electricity for 3 days as I could always use lamps, candles, flashlights. I am from a hurricane prone country so I am used to that a bit. If we have a disturbance of water flow, it is so inconvienient especially for someone who really...

11 Sep 09

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Being a shoulder to cry on... is that good or bad?

StormWindBG @StormWindBG (143) • Bulgaria 11 Sep 09

Hey... usually... when someone ahs a problem , i like listening to them... and ppl often like telling me what bothers them... I am there for my friends but... lately , i feel like that isnt really... a good thing... it just.....

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arnicki Being the person with the shoulder to cry on is not necessarily a bad thing. I understand completely where you are coming from with this. I am presently in a situation similar to what you describe. I feel that we should be our brothers' and sisters' keepers....

11 Sep 09

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Which one you would you choose,the one you love or the one who loves you?

Margaret0124 @Margaret0124 (10) • China 19 Aug 09

I was always asked this question by my friends,if it was me,I would choose the one I love.But the premise is if we were in a relationship but not marriage.If I'm talking about the marriage,then I guess I will choose the other...

relationships

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arnicki I agree with Starbright...no one deserves a broken heart or a one way love affair...Relationships grow every day, you have to respect yourself first and you have to love and respect that person too else it will never work...so I opt for a two way love affair...

19 Aug 09

When was the last time you went to the movies?You remember?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 13 Aug 09

I will be honest and say that is so long time when i went to a movie,i don t have time, and is more comfortable for me to watch to a movie from my own home, stay in bed and maybe sleeping after a half of hour. In those days, i...

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arnicki The last time I went to the movies I went to watch One Love with my girlfriends... I dunno, I am just always busy! I agree with Icesmile. I feel more comfortable watching movies ay home. I guess because I am so busy when you get home you really do not want to...

13 Aug 09

Can a person live without a partner in life?

phillip_shiny @phillip_shiny (2330) • India 12 Aug 09

Hi Dearones, I really wonder if anyone can live without a partner. I have seen persons divorced, 'still single' even in 40s... I really doubt whether a man or women can live alone? Is it possible for a man...

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arnicki I don't think it is possible for someone to live without a partner. We are human beings and thus we crave on interaction with other people. Everybody wants to be loved..need to be loved and tofeel that they are secure and cared for. I do not want to live...

12 Aug 09

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The Meaning of a Friend - Do you think its true?

ajaykashyap77 @ajaykashyap77 (64) • India 12 Aug 09

Someone turned to me and asked "How many friends do you have?" Why 10-20 friends I believe and began naming a few......A blessed one you are to have so many friends but think of what you are saying. A friend is a hand to pull...

true friends

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arnicki I agree with you on this 100%. i would also add that you don't need to talk to that person everyday, because there are times when you need them the most and your true friends will always be there no matter the distance in between. You always know who your...

12 Aug 09

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