ashbelle

@ashbelle (49)

Philippines • Age 38

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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swearing in public..so not cool

amelly @amelly (1554) • Malaysia 26 Oct 11

yesterday me, my mum and my siblings went out for groceries shopping, when i was searching for few stuff.. i heard like a guy swearing kinda loud and he was behind me..pushing a trolley with his sister( i guess so.....

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ashbelle Hello, Amelly. I agree that the guy was so rude. We know about the freedom of speech and stuff but it would still be better to respect other people around. Sadly, a lot of people wont care if others hear them cursing.

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Parents: an obligation or a burden?

masang @masang (295) • Philippines 25 Oct 11

An old mother, bedridden, who lived only with her helper, felt that she was useless and not appreciated because her children: a doctor, a nurse and a pharmacist, seldom to visit her. She felt that they wouldn't even really mind if...

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ashbelle Its ironic how the children's professions are taking care of other people but they can't care for their own parents. Its really sad. I hope that they will realize this before its too late.

26 Oct 11

Applicants discrimination on educational background

lmpalco @lmpalco (89) • Philippines 26 Oct 11

Why? Why do employer based applicants qualification more on educational background where in they can also base it on their experiences. As an employee of more than 6 years, My husband have already experienced different types of...

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ashbelle I have been an online English teacher since 2007 and have a wide variety of experience to students. However, recently I tried applying for the same position in a company in Makati, and got rejected because I wasn't able to finish my college course. It took me...

26 Oct 11

Does it really matter?

Toni @toniganzon (72539) • Philippines 24 Oct 11

Sometimes i make the effort to make my husband feel that i'm so so in love with him. Sometimes though i feel that i shouldn't be doing that. I think he should make more effort. I don't know why i sometimes feel like i need to...

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ashbelle Yes, of course both should make the effort to make the other half feel special and loved. However, you really can't force your other half, right? I think you should just make the effort to him and make it sure that you give him all the love that he needs. No...

24 Oct 11

I have no choice, I have to quit my job.

kris182_2000 @kris182_2000 (5475) • Canada 23 Oct 11

Today was the absolute last straw with the jerk who got us the Stratford job that never materialized. He seemed to think that he could overload my van with work materials, but when I started up my van to load it up, it was...

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ashbelle Oh, sorry to hear about you quitting your job. I have recently quit my job due to bullying. Yes, bullying. At my age of 23, I never thought people older than me, called themselves professionals bully other people when they get insecure. Its hard to leave a job...

24 Oct 11

When Truth Hurts, Would You Mind To Know It?

Daddy Neil @neildc (17238) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 23 Oct 11

Hiya myLotters and friends! Previously I talked about something I discovered regarding my step-daughter's misbehavior, her attitude, that I have evidences something to prove why she could be doing negatively for the past...

attitude of the youth

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ashbelle No matter how the truth hurts, its still the truth. You may want to live with a world full of lies just to save yourself from hurting. But you wouldn't want to live like that forever. At one point, it will be better to know and face it. Because you really wont...

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Is it that hard?

Toni @toniganzon (72539) • Philippines 23 Oct 11

I don't think the mylot guidelines are that hard to follow. Especially the ones regarding inactivity. If you have been inactive in mylot for 3 months or so then do you still think you deserve the money you earned while you were...

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ashbelle The rules here is not strict at all. In the first place, its a free site. And its just like chatting and commenting with friends with just an added benefit of the pay.

24 Oct 11

How can we make a better place of this world...

Rosa26 @Rosa26 (2616) • United States 23 Oct 11

A lot of things happen in the world, what can I do? what can we do to make this a better place? I think one thing to change the world that we can do is respect each other. Respect means treat the others in the way you want to...

we can make it change if we change

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ashbelle Oh, this seems like a very well known wish from everyone (well, almost everyone). World Peace. I think that starting the change in ourselves will be a great idea. Also, understanding other people can help us help each other. Then, respect will follow. And all...

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To borrow, to buy or to download?

a_year_older @a_year_older (636) • Malaysia 24 Oct 11

These days there are a lot of ways to get your hands on a book. You can borrow it from the library or from friends, buy it from the bookstores and you can even get the electronic versions. Personally, I prefer borrowing a book....

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ashbelle I like doing all three. I like buying books and reading them like the old times. I also like borrowing some if I can't find one in the bookstore. I have tried downloading e-books as well and it was fine. It depends on your time or budget I guess.

24 Oct 11

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Do you own a house or property? and is it the best investment for future?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 24 Oct 11

Most people make plans to own a property, a house or an apartment of their own.In fact, it is the done thing for most families. It is taken for granted that once you get married and start a family, the next step is to have a house...

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ashbelle Investing on a house and lot is a good move. Even on just lots. Lots or land price never depreciate. It even gets higher in time.

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why is it so???

skirankumar90 @skirankumar90 (212) • India 24 Oct 11

why do people like(love) only good looking people. The guy or gal who is ugly may have kind heart and open minded. why do people don't love them??

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ashbelle Not everyone resent or dislike ugly people. However, the norm for us nowadays is to be drawn to good-looking ones. But aside from looks, its the personality that can pull those 'not-so-good-looking' people up.

24 Oct 11

How do I make a natural hair moisturizer?

SilverSnow @SilverSnow (45) • United States 24 Oct 11

I have nappy, super thick, never relaxed, and dry afro hair and I was looking for ways to make a natural homemade moisturizer. I looked up stuff on the net but I'd rather get advice from people who have tried it so I know if it's...

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ashbelle I have tried mayonnaise and it was really good. It will make your hair shiny and soft. At first I was hesitant to try this but when I did try it, I really liked the result.

24 Oct 11

What would you do if

Hazelme @Hazelme (647) • United States 24 Oct 11

you and your boyfriend been together for one year. But he stops putting you in his plans, example he hardly calls you, treats your different, you only see him 30 minutes, when you have a argument he ends it up saying " there you...

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ashbelle I'm kinda like in this situation. But in my case, we have been together for more than 4 years. For me, I'm thinking that its worth fighting for. But he is acting really different now. Like he's a whole different person. So, I'm more confused than ever.

24 Oct 11

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Are you strong enough to walk away from:..

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 24 Oct 11

Do you cut off relationships that are obviously hurtful to you or others around you.? Sometimes people allow others to take control of their lives, they want friends so much that they will sacrifice their own happiness.. Are you...

sounseling

therapy

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ashbelle As much as I would want to be strong enough to walk away from someone who's hurting me now, I can't. Its because I'm in love with him. This is my dilemma nowadays. I now that its stupid but I really can't do it.

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Halloween is nearing! What is your scariest experience?

ashbelle @ashbelle (49) • Philippines 17 Oct 11

Halloween is just around the corner. Even if its not Halloween, talks about ghosts, supernaturals, paranormal things are common. However, in this season, its rather timely to talk about these stuff. So, do you have a scary...

halloween

scary

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ashbelle Thanks, SydneyJ! Do you know that feeling presence around you when you are alone is one of the top signs of your "third eye" thing being open? They say its not always the "sight", feeling and hearing indicates your sensitivity to paranormal activities as...

21 Oct 11

please do PRAY for me---am i IN or OUT?

nurseclare @nurseclare (2209) • Philippines 19 Oct 11

My 45 days training in the hospital has indeed and the institution will choose among 130 trainees who did their best. God knows i did my best, i give my all effort and hoping i will be chosen to be their staff... Mylotters,...

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ashbelle I pray that you will be chosen. If not, don't worry. God will give you something better. Keep praying and hoping but be prepared as well. (If you wont get picked)

19 Oct 11

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shopping - Quantity or quality?

clearwater18 @clearwater18 (695) • Philippines 19 Oct 11

hello Mylotters! What do you prefer to buy when you go shopping - quantity or quality? Will you buy an international brand that would cost you much but the item tend to last for years or a local brand that will cost you less but...

quality

quantiy

shopping

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ashbelle Quality! Its really nice to have something that you bought (even if its a bit costly) that will last for a long time. I have tried buying low quality cheap things and they get easily broken.

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