asifthakur

@asifthakur (76)

India • Age 48

Joined myLot 18 years ago

www.asifthakur.com

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Best movie of the year 2009

chetanvk @chetanvk (211) • India 12 Feb 10

I am just curious and want to know form each one of you which is the best hindi movie of the year 2009. Please tell me which is the movie you people liked the most. I liked 3Idiots the most and recommend you to watch. This is must...

hindi movie

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asifthakur undoubtedly - 3 Idiots all the way.. a movie that had no competition in the entire year..released worldwide at a time Avatar was running full houses and still has done humongous business and shattered all records. it's a movie that deserves every bit that it...

13 Feb 10

The Boat is Sinking! which will you choose to save?

cute_poporing @cute_poporing (134) • Philippines 11 Feb 10

I Got this question from my teacher for a group discussions in our class, its kinda type of a logic question. Deep thinking and reasoning. The question: The boat is sinking and there are many passengers inside. There are only...

survival love logic

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asifthakur A very intresting question indeed!! If such a situation arises in my family where my dad, mom , bro, sis and my wife; everyones life is at risk, I'm dead sure that no one would accept the life jacket in the first place. What is life without your loved ones? We...

12 Feb 10

what is the best way to tell an aging parent that it's time to stop driving?

RAHIL_THKR @RAHIL_THKR (341) • Kuwait 11 Feb 10

telling someone close to you it's time to give up the keys is a very difficult choice that we have to face sometime in our lives. anyone with suggestions how it can be done in an easy way without hurting them?

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asifthakur That would surely be a tough one!!! It's just gonna be like a telling a teenage kid not to drive who has probably just learned to sit behind the wheel. First of all we really need to understand if the driving skills of our parent / any other elderly person in...

11 Feb 10

windows 7 or windows xp?

RAHIL_THKR @RAHIL_THKR (341) • Kuwait 10 Feb 10

hi everyone... just wanted to know how many of you liked the new windows 7 compared to windows xp... i really don't like windows 7 ... windows xp is far more better for me.. what do you all think about it?

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asifthakur I started using XP since its beta version was released...that was way back in 2000 and even upgraded my system to the final release which was, if I remember right on the 25th of Oct 2001. After using it for quite a while, I came to a conclusion that though the...

11 Feb 10

What will make you loose respect for a person?

RAHIL_THKR @RAHIL_THKR (341) • Kuwait 10 Feb 10

just wanted to know what reason it would be to loose someone's respect ... for example say if someone doesn't keeps their word.. or maybe dress in a bad way or anything... give me some reasons that will make you loose respect for...

female

male

respect

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asifthakur It takes only one mistake to damage a reputation that may have taken or may take a life time to build. Usually we lose respect for someone because of our own perception. Maybe we are expecting a lot. To understand what could make you lose respect for a person,...

10 Feb 10

what effect do you think money has had on our society?

RAHIL_THKR @RAHIL_THKR (341) • Kuwait 9 Feb 10

money is making us loose our humanity, we care so much for money that we loose track of what makes us who we are...money buys us everything that we want...its gives us all the comforts of life in the cost of humanity...what do u...

comfort

humanity

money

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asifthakur How often have we heard people say "Money is not everything in life" but hey..after all we do need "Money FOR everything in life" !!! How sad but a true, bitter fact of life. Yes, we are no longer even fit to be called the pride creation of GOD 'Humans' but...

9 Feb 10

Is it OK to call your lover only 3 times per week?

koharukusumi @koharukusumi (1539) • Malaysia 30 Jul 08

Hey there mylotters, I am actually referring to LONG DISTANCE relationships where both are busy and see each other as little as twice a week. It might not be the ideal relationship but sometimes when there's 100 things to do a...

distance

long

love

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asifthakur I have maintained my relationship over a long distance for many many years and yes i know its a real tough task. the only direct source of communication is the telephone and long distance calls aint cheap!! if you happen to meet atleast twice a week then u r...

31 Jul 08

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How many languages do you know?

moneyandgc @moneyandgc (3428) • United States 30 Jul 08

I am fluent in one language. English. I took two semesters of Spanish in high school and one in college. I am in no way fluent though. I can understand a lot of what is being said but don't know how to answer. I am able to piece...

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asifthakur I am an Indian who was born and brought uo in Kuwait. Attended an indian school there where we had three compulsory languages . First - English , Second - Hindi & Third - Arabic. so i gained fluency in all these languages to speak, read, write and even...

31 Jul 08

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How do you force yourself to do something?

purplehyacinth @purplehyacinth (575) • Philippines 30 Jul 08

I feel lazy today.. I have many things to do.. But I dont feel like doing them.. What I have always believed is, in order to do something, there must be driving force that overcomes a resistance. I have lost all my driving force.....

laziness

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asifthakur hi purple, lets make one thing clear first...are you just feeling lazy to do the work that you have to do...or just generally lazy and dont feel like doing anything but lying on the bed. if its the first case - then i suggest that you should just stop...

31 Jul 08

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what is the most important part of your body? why?

RAHIL_THKR @RAHIL_THKR (341) • Kuwait 29 Jul 08

yes friends i would like to ask you what is the most important part of your body and why do you think so?...i just want to say its not eyes or ears...there are many people blind and still living and many people deaf...so you reply...

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asifthakur a very very interesting answer. just to add on, what i really feel that the most important part of my body is my heart - not for living but for loving. you have mentioned that we should have a shoulder where your loved ones can lean on and shed a tear. thats...

30 Jul 08

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internet connection on mobile?

RAHIL_THKR @RAHIL_THKR (341) • Kuwait 30 Jul 08

hello everyone...i have a internet connection on my pc...is there anyway i can connect internet on my mobile using the same connection...what is that i will have to do? can anyone help me with this?

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asifthakur hi rahil, the only option i can suggest u is if you have a wi-fi enabled phone. you would require your pc to have a wi-fi card installed and all you have to do is make your pc as a gateway and share the internet connection with other users on the network....

30 Jul 08

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will you feel bad if the person you love rejects your proposal?

RAHIL_THKR @RAHIL_THKR (341) • Kuwait 29 Jul 08

lets see what this story teaches us and what will be your reply after you read it... once there was a guy who was in love with a gal. she wasn't the most beautiful and gorgeous... but for him she was everything. he used to...

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asifthakur hi rahil, a very intresting story indeed...but let me remind you that in real life it isnt so easy for someone to just be rejected and go on with his/ her life as if nothing had happened. anyone - even the toughest of people living or ever lived will surely...

30 Jul 08

have you ever noticed that most of our problems in life have to do with money?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 28 Jul 08

i have noticed that a lot of the problems that people have in life a lot of times have to do with money problems...i know that sometimes we need money and that causes problems..maybe we need money for bills,health, kids...just...

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asifthakur i agree with u jhl...most of our problems in life are cause of money.. it could either be because of a low income problem , unemployment or simply mismanagement. i would contribute most of the problems we face to the mismanagement of money. its not about how...

28 Jul 08

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how old were you when you had your first serious relationship

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 27 Jul 08

i know that we all have our first serious relationship at different ages so i thought i would ask you all about yours...i know that most of us start off in high school or college but there are others that don't start until later...

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asifthakur at that time i never thought it would be so damn serious...way back in 1990 when i was just around 13, i met a girl who just kindled a flame in my heart right away. i fell in love and i knew it was love coz i had never ever felt like that before. i enjoyed her...

28 Jul 08

Does Love remain Hot only when you are still Chasing for it?

Nic @academic2 (7000) • Uganda 28 Jul 08

Human nature has left me think deeply to myself lately-when you are in pursuit of the love of your life-you do it with amazing aggression and passion-once you land you hand on him/her and get to the carnal knowlege zones, you seem...

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asifthakur i really need to know what is your defination about LOVE mentioned above. If its something that can die down with time...i wouldnt call it love but rather a crush, infatuation or simply lust. love in my sense is not something that should die down with time or...

28 Jul 08

Will A person always get what he wants in life?

Nic @academic2 (7000) • Uganda 28 Jul 08

I have been wondering, will any person always get what he/she wants in life. There are manydreams that have been sought after with a passion, but none has come to fruition-will you always get what you want in life?

ambitions

dreams

life

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asifthakur hi academic.. i believe that to live a complete life one must face failure along with success and God has balanced our lives equally with both; though we may not really realise that. it takes me back to one of my own discussions : Do you believe in luck for...

28 Jul 08

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living abroad for saving

RAHIL_THKR @RAHIL_THKR (341) • Kuwait 24 Jul 08

i would like to ask you all...is it good to live abroad for earning more than what you get in your country...i am an indian staying in kuwait for my earning...my family is with me for now...but the problem i am facing is that i am...

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asifthakur hi rahil.. the topic that you have started can only be answered by those who r or have lived away from their family in pursuit of earning a big buck...so i dont see it surprising for you not to get many responses so far. secondly the topic is quite...

28 Jul 08

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whats your earning for today at my lot

RAHIL_THKR @RAHIL_THKR (341) • Kuwait 27 Jul 08

hey i got 0.26 this time ..i know it's not big...but being a newbie i am happy about it...what about you? and are you happy with your earning?

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asifthakur hey i got a 0.60 for yesterday!! that pretty good i think. i believe its coz i rate every response i get...start doing that (doesnt take a sec to click on the + sign for a positive rating) and also do select the best response to your discussion...btw whats ur...

28 Jul 08

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Is it easier to Raise Girld or Boys?

Nic @academic2 (7000) • Uganda 28 Jul 08

I have had the experience of raising boys-but not girls, now parents out there, which are easier to raise, boys or girls? My boys are very dstructive-any appliance I buy, you find th curiously trying to unscrew them up to check it...

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asifthakur hi academic, i am father to a boy and a girl and really consider myself very very fortunate for this wonderful experience and thank Almighty God for such a blessing. my daughter is 5yrs old and my son is just 11 months old so its not a lot of experience ;)...

28 Jul 08