benchao

@benchao (43)

China • Age 43

Joined myLot 13 years ago

must strong live any time

Responses (24)

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Is it wrong to ask for your workmates help to raise a fund for institutions?

nat1_ong @nat1_ong (150) • Guam 7 Jan 13

I messaged my workmates to help my niece's institution for children with special needs because they need materials, toys, medicines, and various stuffs after the devastation that happened when the building is strucked by typhoon....

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benchao no crime!

7 Jan 13

How to earn in locationary?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140931) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

I tried to register in this site last week, but I felt discouraged that my ticket values turned into negative. Then the site send me a personal message to dispute the data that I had encoded. If that's the case, the word gprs of a...

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benchao I have no met this case.sorry

29 Dec 12

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"I don't want an eye surgery"... Chinita

Shavkat @Shavkat (140931) • Philippines 15 Dec 12

In Asian country, most of the people have slant-eyed. In our country they are called "chinito" (men) or "chinita" (women), they are so cute to look at. For some country, it is common to have an eye operations to make it bigger...

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benchao I think everyone love beautiful face and body.but frequently most of us are not,so I will have to put on makeup,so if my child love it,i will allow them to do it.

17 Dec 12

How can I stop e-mail notifications

hlfbldmom @hlfbldmom (743) • Philippines 13 Dec 12

I already unchecked the e-mail notifications in preferences and then notifications but I still get notifications in my e-mail. I don't want to receive notifications because I am always online here in myLot so I don't need it. I...

mylot

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benchao I want to know too~!

13 Dec 12

Is it love, if your partner asked you to be slim?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140931) • Philippines 13 Dec 12

Some men are particular in body-type, being slim is one of their ideal dream. What if your boyfriend ask you to trim down, to have figure-of-8 body. Would you think, he is concern or not? If he insisted you to do it, do you think...

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8 people

benchao Maybe you can do it,that is beautiful for you!

13 Dec 12

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For mothers: Who is more advance in mental development, girls or boys?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140931) • Philippines 13 Dec 12

In motherhood, having their children. They will know the mental development between their offspring. In research development, some people claimed that girls are far more advance than the opposite gender. Let me hear from the...

life

mother

people

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benchao maybe it is girls,because they will put up with more difficulty!

13 Dec 12

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Can you survive with perfection?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140931) • Philippines 13 Dec 12

Whenever I see people who are so delicate in everything you do. You might ignore it or not, but still the person is keep on nagging you. It is like you are in military, everything is in order. Can you survive?

life

people

perfection

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benchao Yep,everything must be suitable for others!

13 Dec 12

We broke up, he said he don't love me but he keeps communicating with me

hlfbldmom @hlfbldmom (743) • Philippines 13 Dec 12

It's almost a month since me and my boyfriend broke up, he knows I still love him just that there's so many things we can't work out. We still talk after we broke up but then I decided to stop communicating with him. Until one...

break ups

heart broken

pain

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benchao I read what you wrote,I actually understand why did you guys break up,but I think there must be something that happened to you one another.you are pregant,that's very bad to you,you broke up is right,but if you want the baby,you keep.if you don't want,you can...

13 Dec 12

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Why most Asian women are skinny? especially with chinita eyes

nat1_ong @nat1_ong (150) • Guam 12 Dec 12

I admire most Koreans, Japanese and Chinese women in regards to their figure. Do you have any idea what they drink? Is it because of the tea? What kind of carbohydrates they drink? What are the foods they eat for them to stay with...

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benchao I don't think this women's figure is very good, because they not only drink somethings,but their gene and environment,if you want to know what they drink,I think this 3 countrys women are diffrent drink,i am chinese,i know our women don't like to drink...

13 Dec 12

small business idea/s anyone?

naryshkashian @naryshkashian (139) • Philippines 7 Dec 12

starting a family is hard fianncially especially when a baby is about to arrive too that is why beyond my husband's hard work I would want to help him out by trying a business I can do at home so as for me not to compromise taking...

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benchao Yep,our live is not easy,sometimes we will take care of our parents,sometimes we weill look afer our childs.all stuffs need to spend money,if we are not very rich,I think that is difficult.I very agree with you,but I have't found a home business to you,I have...

7 Dec 12

greatest gift of my life

naryshkashian @naryshkashian (139) • Philippines 5 Dec 12

I just visited my OB and she was happy to tell me that I might give birth in 2-3 weeks and i am just so excited for the day that i will see my daughter sooooooon :) instead of just feeling her kicks and movements I will be able to...

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benchao Happy birthday to you!blessing you and you family happy too.

5 Dec 12

Why men run when a women surprises them that she is PREGNANT

hlfbldmom @hlfbldmom (743) • Philippines 5 Dec 12

7/10 pregnant women become a single parent because men run when they know their gf is pregnant. A lot of women asked the guy, if I get pregnant would you stay, and most would say of course, probably to get more of that sweet tail,...

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benchao yep,i think it is all right,but the acount is not that more.

5 Dec 12

Going to work in rain

silverfox09 @silverfox09 (4708) • United States 3 Dec 12

This is one of the worse feeling , having to go to work during the rainy season . I just want to stay in and cuddle especially in those early morning when that's the best time to sleep . Every where just wet , at least when I was...

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benchao Just the rainy season,I work in shenzhen in P.R.C,right now our here already is winter,and always rain.every morning i wake up at 6:30.then take public traffic bus to our company,I feel terrible!

4 Dec 12

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Thanks Heaps

hlfbldmom @hlfbldmom (743) • Philippines 28 Nov 12

With much sincerity and happiness I thank everyone who greeted me today on my special day. I was not expecting to do anything special and I was even preparing myself to make the day a very normal day but all the text messages,...

birthday

thank you

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benchao Oh,i agree with you!

28 Nov 12

how do you really give baths to a new born?

naryshkashian @naryshkashian (139) • Philippines 25 Nov 12

I'll be due in 6 weeks and it's so weird because I am so scared of imagining myself giving my baby a bath... my mind goes like I might have sleppery hands that she might fall and all those stuffs... but how do you really give new...

baby

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benchao I don't know,because I haven't kids until now!but i figured out it's so hard

25 Nov 12

Guy Thing !?!

hlfbldmom @hlfbldmom (743) • Philippines 23 Nov 12

Is it a guy thing to not like to talk on the phone? I have a friend who is complaining that her boyfriend changed because he didn't call her more often or they don't talk on phone longer. When they first started dating, her...

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2 people

benchao that boyfriend is gonna start to don't like his girlfriend .

24 Nov 12

Relationship Problems?

hlfbldmom @hlfbldmom (743) • Philippines 23 Nov 12

In a relationship we need Communication and Compromise so the relationship will work out fine. and .... No playing games. No scheming, no plotting. Talk to bf/gf directly about what we are feeling. Never be stubborn, either....

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benchao yes,i agree with you,and i need relationship.

23 Nov 12

what's on my mind?

hlfbldmom @hlfbldmom (743) • Philippines 22 Nov 12

It will be my birthday soon and I am thinking where to celebrate it. If we cook at home and my family can come over or for a hassle free we celebrate it like dinner out. And thinking this documents from my boyfriend didn't...

birthday

documents

question and answer

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benchao first happy birthday for you! I think birthday is amazing day,you can spend with you around friend.but if you have resources,it't better to spend with your family or boyfriend.

22 Nov 12

do you like/love you job???

Mary Ann @therealmaryyy (3162) • Philippines 20 Nov 12

What do you do right now? Do you like AND love your job???? If given a chance to trade a different or another job to anyone or stranger, what and who would it be??? WHY??

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benchao No,I don't like my job,because I earn little money from my job,I hate my technical job about MIM(metal inject molding).If give me chance to change it,I will lovely to do it.

21 Nov 12

Unexpected Friendship

hlfbldmom @hlfbldmom (743) • Philippines 21 Nov 12

Back in Australia when I was there on my 3 months holiday. I don't have friends in and I don't know anyone besides my boyfriend. I saw some Filipino but they are not approachable enough. I am fine without friends, I go out alone,...

unexpected friendship

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3 people

benchao You are happy gril,there was peace,sweet and concern,that is beautiful.

21 Nov 12