brandyandbeans

@brandyandbeans (25)

United States • Age 44

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Earthquake 8.23.11

Payout @payout (3794) • United States 23 Aug 11

Today when I was @ work, I was sitting doing a transaction and I'm think my friend is moving my chair and I was about to say stop, I got up and I was standing up and look at the ground and realize everything is moving and...

earthquake

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brandyandbeans I live in Virginia and I felt the earthquake pretty good. I was working at my computer and all of the sudden the house started to shake pretty bad. I did not know what was going on and went outside, it was a little scary to think we would feel such a thing.

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Is it correct to have live-in relationship to test each other before marriage ?

rohit999999999 @rohit999999999 (96) • India 25 Aug 11

Well!! It is very serious matter. Normally it happens, two people met, they fell in love and then marriage. So next what happen? Some two or three year peace and then comments, arguments, quarrels, fighting and ultimately...

live in

marriage

relationship

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brandyandbeans With my religious beliefs it is a no no, but I have done this with my husband. We wanted to know if we could make it living together and we found out that we could. So we moved on to marriage and then to children, we are quite content with our decision of...

25 Aug 11

I have many friends now on mylot! Yahooo!!

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 25 Aug 11

Since I post many discussions and make comments, I have observed that many mylotters would like me to add them as their friends. I remember, the first time I joined here I only had few friends and I rarely receive friend requests....

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brandyandbeans I notice that there are not many people that want to friend you when you are new, like me. But I figure if I hang in here long enough that I will start getting new friends as well.

25 Aug 11

Do you think God might forgive a person who commits suicide?

Barbara Radisavlejvic @bagarad (14283) • Paso Robles, California 25 Aug 11

Some people seem to think that suicide is an unforgivable sin. But many suicides are due to clinical depression or other physical conditions. Can a person control having a mental illness or chemical imbalance that might cause his...

forgiveness

suicide

unforgiveable sin

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brandyandbeans I often wondered this because my brother committed suicide about fifteen years ago. But I finally came to the conclusion that if one can take their life then they have some type of mental impairment... and God would forgive someone that is not right in the...

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Working

brandyandbeans @brandyandbeans (25) • United States 25 Aug 11

My husband has taken care of me for the entire ten years we have been together. Well, recently at work (he's been there 10 years), the boss switched him from one crew to another and basically told him that he could not trust him...

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i love my husband

joypat @joypat (12) • Philippines 9 Jun 11

For 2 years of married life & 10 years of being together, still i find myself in-love with him over and over again & each year we spent together my love for him grows deeper,despite of all our differences we still manage to keep...

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brandyandbeans Love is wonderful, especially when it entails all things beautiful. You remind me of my husband and I. I could ask for no better person to be in my life and I hope to spend every day of the rest of my life with him by my side. It is nice to see that you have...

25 Aug 11

Is jealousy a sign of deep love or insecurity?

Monochrome @Monochrome (11) 25 Aug 11

I have been married to my husband for 6 years now and these past two years i wonder about this absurd bouts of jealousy. Absurd because i know that he loves me and i have no reason to be jealous, i just don't know what is wrong...

love

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brandyandbeans I believe that jealousy is a sign of insecurity. I also feel that past experiences play a major role in how much one is willing to trust their mate. It appears that this is all based on trusting the partner and knowing that they are not going to break that...

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Heaven or Hell?

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 23 Aug 11

One day, I was asked by the God, where I would like to go after my death. I said, “Definitely to Hell my Lord.” Astonished by my answer, God said,” You stupid, don’t you know that heaven is all happiness and no work and hell is...

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brandyandbeans I just do not understand why you would tell God that you would rather be in Hell to do work than to be in Heaven? You must believe in God, heaven and hell so why would you make such a strange discussion?

23 Aug 11

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Do you believe in God.?

bielyn1886 @bielyn1886 (40) • Philippines 11 Aug 11

The phrase"to see is to believe" is popular and mostly believe in this phrases! When I am a college student my theology teacher ask me "do you believe in God" and definitely yes I answered,Then he secondly added do you believe to...

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brandyandbeans No, we do not see God but we feel him within each and every one who has accepted him as the Savior. I love the Lord and do not know how I would answer that question, maybe I should do a little more research on how to.

23 Aug 11

Marrying so they won't leave?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 23 Aug 11

I just responded to a post here where my hostess said she would marry to secure the relationship and it got me wondering,do people marry Just to make sure their lover won't leave? Do people really think once they marry a person...

marriage

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brandyandbeans I feel that two people should marry only if they love one another and plan to spend the rest of their lives together, not simply marry them to hold on to a person. Divorce rates are very high in the US and they grow with every passing year. For me, I...

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I can always count on family to disappoint.....(

lumenmom @lumenmom (1986) • United States 23 Aug 11

I do not interact with my family very much anymore, because they really don't feel like family. I get so much more support from friends and even strangers. I had mot talked to my sister for almost a year. I never thought we would...

disappointment

sister

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brandyandbeans I agree, family can hurt you worse than others. I believe it is because the bonds of families are suppose to be tight. I would not list her as an emergency contact at all and I would ask no more of her as far as helping you out. You did your part for her in...

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Can't say Jesus @ Work?

Payout @payout (3794) • United States 23 Aug 11

I have a strong belief system I believe in Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. I just think it's crazy how we can't say the word Jesus @ work. I don't see it like a bad word or anything. I do fnd it strange that if you say a curse word...

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brandyandbeans I also believe in the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. It is saddening that we are not allowed to have religious beliefs of our own because the way other people feel about it. I find it terrible that there is no long the Pledge of Allegiance in the school...

23 Aug 11

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Casey Anthony has to do Probabtion!

lelin1123 @lelin1123 (15595) • Puerto Rico 16 Aug 11

Judge Perry has decided that Casey Anthony has to do one year of probation for another case where she wrote checks out using a friends checkbook. She pleaded guilty to this crime. The judge at that time stated that once released...

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brandyandbeans I do not believe that much will happen to her over the course of a year on probation, she deserves to be serving life or worse in prison. I cannot believe that they found her innocent either, what a saddening thing. I would have loved to have been a fly on the...

22 Aug 11

Motherhood... a job like no other

babyshei @babyshei (97) • Philippines 22 Aug 11

I am a single mom and motherhood is not as easy as anyone would think. all those sleepless nights and dealing with tantrums is nerve wrecking. There's never a day goes by without our home being in such a mess. Dealing with my...

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brandyandbeans I agree that motherhood is stressful at times but you have to look at all the rewards that being a mother brings to you. Dealing with separation anxiety can be hard for a while, but things will work out for you. Your child just does not want to let go of the...

22 Aug 11

Do u believe ghosts real living?

naseemkum @naseemkum (1803) • India 22 Aug 11

At my teenage i love reading ghost living stories and medium's(ghost controller) experiences. Im also interested to be a medium and also tried something but its not works out. Do u believe that ghost is living or its just a...

ghost real lives

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brandyandbeans Personally, I do not believe in ghosts nor do believe in other life forms being out there. I feel that humans are the only thing that exists in the universe.

22 Aug 11

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Casey Anthony has to do Probabtion!

lelin1123 @lelin1123 (15595) • Puerto Rico 16 Aug 11

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brandyandbeans Well, it appears that she simply got away with murdering her little girl. I find this whole case to be disgusting... I mean, who else could have done it. She is seen in all of these photos partying the night away with various men and women with no thoughts on...

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Talking about somebody you just met

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85135) • Shingle Springs, California 18 Aug 11

So on Sunday I took a friend out to lunch. She's kind of broke, so I bought her a few groceries too. There's this guy in the apartment downstairs who's after her butt. And I do mean that more or less literally. He helps her out...

lewd and crude

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brandyandbeans Sounds like a guy things to me. Also sounds like he is trying to make her jealous. I have had male friends that do these types of things and I tend to stay away from them when they meet new people because I do not want to hear about their opinions of women.

19 Aug 11

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By the time you wake up in the morning...

eM @eLsMarie (4346) • Philippines 19 Aug 11

By the time you wake up in the morning, what immediately comes to your mind? As for me, I tend to think about my assignments and if I have classes. I sounded nerdy, right? I think it became my habit when I have...

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brandyandbeans In the morning, upon waking to the alarm clock... I am thinking about getting my daughter up for school and making sure she is ready to go when it is time to be there. I also think about things that are stressing me out too. But that usually occurs more so at...

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