butterflytears

@butterflytears (77)

United States • Age 36

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What small gestures have you made for the person you love?

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 9 Nov 09

In life, there are too many people that focus on expensive material things, what about the smaller things? THings or gestures that are meant to say I love you in a subtle way? What have you done for your loved one to say I love...

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butterflytears It's not so much keeping an account, it's just noticing the small things...recognizing when one does small things for you and if you ever show that you love someone. I think people like to know that you care and appreciate a small gesture every now and then.

9 Nov 09

phone relationship

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 9 Nov 09

I've been talking to this guy for coming up on 11 months via the telephone, having never met him face to face. Is this crazy?

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butterflytears He's in the military. I do believe most of what he says because he is a friend of my sisters and he knows I can just verify it through her if i wanted to. I just find myself wondering why he bothers with someone he hasn't even met in person yet. He says I...

9 Nov 09

What small gestures have you made for the person you love?

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 9 Nov 09

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fine for texting

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 9 Nov 09

I heard that there is now a high fine for texting while driving, do you think that is enough or should there be a higher punishment? I personally think that if it was said that if you were caught texting while driving that you...

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List or go on your own?

Jennlk84 @Jennlk84 (4205) • United States 9 Nov 09

Do you typically ask people what they want for Christmas or do you just go out and buy them something YOU think they would like? I am the type of gal who makes a list and gives it to my husband and other family members who tend...

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butterflytears It depends on the person, I prefer to just let the people get me what they want to get me because I don't want to make them feel bad if they can't afford what I am asking for. I prefer to be told what a person wants, especially picky people that are hard to...

9 Nov 09

Secong chance?

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 9 Nov 09

Should he get a second chance or should he be punished in the same way that any other abuser would be punished?

abuse

chance

chris brown

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phone relationship

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 9 Nov 09

I've been talking to this guy for coming up on 11 months via the telephone, having never met him face to face. Is this crazy?

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Do you eat chocolate or Ice cream when you get upset?

smileonstar @smileonstar (4007) • United States 9 Nov 09

I know this might be sound wired to some people but as far as I see here in the States... most people will eat Ice Cream when they get up set, and I dont know why? For me, If I am upset then I will not feel any hungry at all......

stress

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butterflytears It usually depends on why I am upset, but it can vary from eating icecream like there was no tomorrow, or beating the heck out of my punching bag for an hour.

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sudden interview

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 9 Nov 09

Why is it that Rihanna is suddenly able to speak about her ordeal with Chris Brown? I think it's a horrible thing that happened to her, but I find it a little coincidental that she is releasing a CD and is suddenly able to share...

interview

release

rihanna

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$5...are you serious?

MissAmie @MissAmie (717) • United States 23 Jan 09

Ok, so I've been typing my fingers off on mylot for the past few days and I've accumulated a balance of $.44. With some quick math I figured on average if I type on this site as much as I have been I'll make about $5/month. That...

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butterflytears how do you make money with surveys though? I tried that but it seems that everyone that comes up, it says you have to buy something or partici[ate in membership first.

23 Jan 09

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Is she pregnant or not?

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 21 Jan 09

About a month or so ago I heard on the radio that she passed out behind stage after a performance or something and they thought it was because she was pregnant. Anybody know if it's true? Just curious cuz her baby would be...

how to get pregnant

pregnant

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butterflytears Oh I'm sry, i was referring to the singer Rihanna, it's just i think she's around my age and a little young to have kids but they would be so pretty. Why are people, including me, so fascinated with celebrities?

22 Jan 09

If you were the last woman on earth?

snowcat46 @snowcat46 (2322) • United States 20 Jan 09

If you were the last woman on earth, what type of man would you choose for your mate? (These are the only choices available, unfortunately) A. The Hunter--Able to provide food for the table. B. The Doctor--Except he has no crew...

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butterflytears I'd probably choose the hunter and the farmer put together. it's not only that the hunter can provide food for the table, but that a hunter will go out and make the effort, he'll do what needs to be done to ensure that his family is well provided for. The...

21 Jan 09

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Tell me what you think?

Jo Hill @Carpathian (582) • United States 20 Jan 09

I know this is a subject that most ppl do not like to talk about, but I have to say something. I was looking on the Internet with my husband. We came across the worlds fattest child. She is 7 yrs.old and 400 pounds. How can the...

lucky

lucky 7

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butterflytears I agree that it's really sad to hear about things like that. Of course someone should step in, if the parents are aware that this is threatening their childs life and they aren't making a serious effort to change the kids eating habits then someone needs to...

21 Jan 09

All it takes is ONE word.........

Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 20 Jan 09

.....and that's the answer. Little challenge for you: Quick, right off the top of your head.............what is THE most important 'element' of good cooking? One word. That's all it takes. I'll answer you all, but...

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butterflytears Well I was gonna say "heart" or "training" because you can have heart and really suck but you can have training and suck so I don't know. My grandma has heart and she's a great cook.

21 Jan 09

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racism

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 21 Jan 09

Do you think racism stil exists in America? Some may be appaulled at this question but I think it's legit. If you listen closely to what comes out of peoples mouths, you'll see what's in their hearts. I don't mean twist everything...

hearts

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Which do you prefer, blogging or article writing?

Heartbreaker08 @Heartbreaker08 (684) 20 Jan 09

I have several blogs and I write for a few sites also. I personally enjoy my blog sites the best as I think it is easier to write a blog post than an article. Perhaps this is because blog posts can be short and witty whereas for...

articles

blogging

writing

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butterflytears It depends on the topic I'm writing about. I find that with articles you basically have to sneak or incinuate what your opinion is because some site won't pay you for your opinion. I love to speak my mind and mylot lets you do that.

21 Jan 09

Should Obama have chosen better people to speak at his inauguration?

skinnychick @skinnychick (6905) • United States 20 Jan 09

So I'm sitting watching the inauguration today much like a lot of America. The news kept talking about the great exciting vibes- blah, blah, blah. But honestly, I'm bothered and let me say why. Obama chose the Rev. Joseph Lowry...

african american

civil rights

civil rights movement

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butterflytears I don't know, it didn't really offend me. I thought he was comparing today to his younger years when what he said was not the case. I could be wrong but Itook it as meaning that in his time they asked that of people and now we have that because when you think...

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Inauguration foulup?

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 21 Jan 09

Anyone watching the swearing in of President Barack Obama say when it looked like he fumbled a little through the swearing in, but I think it was the guy administering it that messed up, anyone know what I'm talking about? When...

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no reasoning

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 21 Jan 09

Don't you hate it when you are trying to have a good spirited debate with someone and they start getting personal on you? Or when they absolutely refuse to listen to reason or even consider possibilities. Some people just want to...

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you found me- meaning?

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 21 Jan 09

What does this song mean exactly? Is it bashing God like I think it is? And in the beginning is it saying that God was smoking a cigarette? I'm confused cuz maybe it just represents something. LIke " the corner of first and...

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