charmaxnojo

@charmaxnojo (20)

United States • Age 46

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How long were you married before you had your first child?

odwitt @odwitt (112) • United States 10 Sep 08

My husband and I have been married for almost 1 year, and we're starting to talk about having kids. Is it too soon? We plan to wait on ttc until he's out of grad school and has a stable income.

kids

love

marriage

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charmaxnojo My husband and I knew we wanted kids right away so we started trying right away. I was truly expecting that we would have to wait a long time but it happened within a couple of months. So we were married for only 5 months before I became pregnant. And now we...

10 Sep 08

sadness

cobrateacher @cobrateacher (8432) • United States 7 Sep 08

Do you feel great sadness when you finish a book? I do. If it's at all good, I want it to go on. It's almost as if a f's been lost when there's nothing left. Occasionally there's a book with an overly facile ending, or one that...

keep going

too soon

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charmaxnojo I don't know if it is sadness but I do hate when a good book ends. I also hate when I am reading and have to stop for some reason.

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Ever read "The pillars of the earth" ??

jc_star10 @jc_star10 (953) • Indonesia 9 Sep 08

I just saw the book on my favorite bookstore. The pillars of the earth sound like promising. Many of my friends recommend the book. And it very very thick book...:) So, i'm here asking mylotters ?? Have you ever read the book ? Is...

book

good story

pillars of the earth

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charmaxnojo This book is so good - one of my top 3 favorites. I have read it many times over the past several years. In fact, I just re-read it about a month ago so I could read another of Ken Follett's books called World Without End. It is set in a similar timeframe and...

10 Sep 08

How old were you when you got married?

lovmyboys @lovmyboys (79) • Israel 10 Sep 08

I had just turned 19 when I got married and my husband was 20. How old were all of you?

married

wedding

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charmaxnojo I was 26 and my husband was 28. I was engaged to my highschool sweetheart at age 19 and thank goodness we didn't go through with it because I never would have met my husband.

10 Sep 08

How old did your baby start walking?

rakittera @rakittera (802) • Philippines 9 Sep 08

I have a 9-month old daughter and she's been taking a few steps while holding on to something or being held with support. I was just wondering, how old do other babies start walking?

baby walking

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charmaxnojo My son started pulling himself up on furniture at about 7-1/2 months. He started crusing along on the furniture shortly after that. He is now 10 months old and for the past week he has been standing up on his own, without furniture. He has been able to take...

9 Sep 08

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Read anything good lately?

mistakesss @mistakesss (436) • United States 19 Jul 08

I'm always looking for new books to read. Care to share what you've read lately? I recently finished Across the China Sky - I didn't think I would get into it, but, it's actually pretty good.

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charmaxnojo Pillars of the Earth or World Without End by Ken Follett, The Time Traveler's Wife, A Thousand Splendid Suns

9 Sep 08

What is your favourite book from middle or high school? How about college

angusthethird @angusthethird (515) • United States 13 Aug 08

Mine is "To Kill a Mockingbird." It spoke of racism and the tragedy that can erupt when justice is perverted to justify an act of hatred in its most disgusting form. In college I discovered Zora Neale Hurston's "Their Eyes Were...

books in high school

college

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charmaxnojo I loved A Tree Grows in Brooklyn. I still re-read it from time to time. We had to read it in 5th grade and I have loved it ever since.

9 Sep 08

The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger

bbeerrssaa @bbeerrssaa (2) • Czech Republic 21 Aug 08

For the one who havent read this book , it is a great book full of power , fiction and romance about a time traveler who falls in love with a young women named clare. Henry which is the name of the time treveler from the moment on...

henry

time travel

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charmaxnojo I love this book. It is very interesting. I had to read it again because I couldn't wrap my brain around it the first time around. I loved it just as much the second time.

9 Sep 08

Who is your favorite author?

Filipinofyrcrakr @Filipinofyrcrakr (27) • United States 3 Sep 08

Who is your favorite author and why? And also tell what your favorite book by them is... Mine is Danielle Steel, and my favorite book by her is Dating Game

favorite author

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charmaxnojo My favorite is Ken Follett. I pretty much like all of his stuff but my favorite is Pillars of the Earth. I have read that book at least once a year for several years and now it is on Oprah's Book Club list. He has a new one that is set a couple hundred years...

9 Sep 08

What's your favourite thing to order from KFC?

bugbaby @bugbaby (1787) • Indonesia 7 Sep 08

Well what can I say, about KFC! When It first came out. (Now you have an Idea how old I am. lol.) I thought It was the next thing to, Sliced bread. It appeared to me that, The more I get of It. The worst It tastes. I've tasted...

fast food

kfc

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charmaxnojo I love KFC cole slaw. I will go there just to order it, no chicken, no mashed potatoes, just the cole slaw. The workers must think I am crazy.

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How do you eat your yogurt?

Sheepie @Sheepie (3112) • United States 7 Sep 08

Do you eat the fruit-on-the-bottom yogurt by stirring in the fruit first or do you eat the yogurt then eat the fruit? I eat it separate, I don't know why I just always have and I found no reason to eat it the other way.

food

yogurt

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charmaxnojo I have to mix my yogurt and fruit. And I can't eat it unless I have granola or something crunchy to mix in too. I buy a bag of granola from the bulk section of the grocery store and throw it into the yogurt, the more the better.

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What is your favorite breakfast for dinner (supper) meal?

sweetdesign @sweetdesign (5142) • United States 7 Sep 08

I love when we have homemade biscuits and gravy with either sausage or bacon. It is my favorite. But I also like having eggs and grits with that meal too. What do you like to have for breakfast for dinner? We do this every other...

biscuits and gravy

breakfast

sausage

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charmaxnojo I love breakfast for dinner. I can have cereal or eggs and toast for dinner anytime. But I love tortilla and eggs. I take a little bit of oil and heat it in a skillet. I break up 4 corn tortillas into small pieces and cook them in the oil until they are almost...

9 Sep 08

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How to do the pizza?

panpanzhu @panpanzhu (90) • China 9 Sep 08

I want to cook a delicious pizza, can you tell me? I need different taste~~

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charmaxnojo I buy the crust and roll it out onto a pan. Then I finely chop garlic and mix it with some oil. I brush the oil on the crust and poke holes with a fork. Then I bake the crust for 5 minutes in a 350 oven. After the 5 minutes, I take the crust out and put a...

9 Sep 08

Who has been best friends the longest?

Rocketj1 @rocketj1 (6955) • United States 8 Sep 08

My first best friend I had for about 26 years (we met when we were 4). Then I moved and we lost track of each other. I haven't been in contact with her in years. How about you? How long have you had your best friend? When did...

best friends

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charmaxnojo My best friend and I have been friends for 20 years. I moved to a new city when I was 8 years old and went to a new school. She always made me feel welcome. We were very close all through elementary school. We went to different high schools and lost touch...

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when girlfrend turns into wife!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

archnap @archnap (1) 8 Sep 08

Tell me one thing honestly did u ever find any difference when u were a galfrend and after getting married to that same man and became his wife.............. I found hell lot of differance sometimes it was hard to bileve he is...

girlfrend turns into wife

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charmaxnojo I find that he asks me to make meals more often. Before we were married, I rarely made dinner. We would just find something in the fridge or in the cupboard. But now he asks me "What's for breakfast?", "What's for lunch?", "What's for dinner?". I am not a huge...

9 Sep 08

Is there one little thing about your husband that bothers you?

Rocketj1 @rocketj1 (6955) • United States 8 Sep 08

Of course you'd never say anything. It's not that big of a deal but .... it get's under your skin. Mine is that he is a bad hand-holder when we are walking. I think it's because of our heighth difference (he's very tall). But ......

holding hands

husbands

pet peeves

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charmaxnojo My husband is a big hypocrit. I love him but he drives me nuts. If I leave dinner dishes on the table because I am getting our son cleaned up, he gets mad. I leave the room but have every intention of going back to get the dishes. Yet he will leave his soda...

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what are your kids going to be for halloween - doyou buy or make costumes?

kimberlylynn @kimberlylynn (978) • United States 7 Sep 08

My kids want the most popular outfits out there this year. I try to tell them there will be a million of those walking around so why don't we try to find something more original or make a costume but that is not what they want. Do...

masks

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charmaxnojo This is my son's second Halloween. He was born last year on 10/30 so he was too little to dress up then. But this year I think he will be Donald Duck. I saw a cute Donald Duck costume online. I am just holding off just in case I see something cuter.

9 Sep 08

I love my son!

BabyJacob1 @BabyJacob1 (1) • United States 8 Sep 08

Tell me anything about your baby.

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charmaxnojo My son is just over 10 months old and I never could have imagined that I would be able to feel the amount of love that I feel for him. He is just the cutest little thing I have ever seen. I know that every mom feels that way. He is almost walking and it is so...

9 Sep 08

I Promise I Will Wear This Dress Again.

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 7 Sep 08

Do you have clothes in your closet that is to small for you and you aren't going to throw them away or give them away because you say you are going to get back down to that size. I had some in my clothes I refuse to throw away and...

sizes

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charmaxnojo When I was pregnant, I decided to clean my entire house. I washed every piece of clothing in my closet. It was then that I saw some clothing items that I was just hanging onto. I found some fake leather, red, snake-skin pants that I wore in Cancun when I was...

8 Sep 08

Would you stay with someone if you weren't happy?

tigresseyes @tigresseyes (22) • United States 7 Sep 08

I've been married for almost 12 years and realized that I'm not happy. And I could feel that my husband wasn't happy either. Neither one of us had the courage to say anything until about a month ago. Finally I said something and...

relationship happiness

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charmaxnojo I am happy in my current relationship. When I met my husband, I knew he was the one right away. But I had been in a relationship, unhappy, for the previous 4 years. I knew we had nothing in common and I still stuck around. I think that once you get into a rut,...

8 Sep 08