chaska

@chaska (170)

United States • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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No Divorce

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 29 Nov 11

Would you still marry if there were no divorce? What if you could Only marry once? And if it didn't work out you Had to remain married? Would you Still marry? Or would you just take extra time to Really get to know your partner?...

divorce

marriage

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chaska Well I would not honestly say that I would have never married. I am married now and if there was no divorce, I would have taken longer to make the decision to marry. Not that my spouse was not a good choice, but you do not really know a person until time has...

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3 people having a relationship? would you accept this?

sweetloveforeve @sweetloveforeve (13116) • Portugal 12 Jul 11

hi guys^^ i watched a spanish series a few time ago, where a woman and two men were having a relationship. at first the guys wanted her only for himself but one day, one of the guys got angry, and the other one slept with her...

love

relationship

strange

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chaska I am married for 12 years and my husband can be pretty demanding and wants to have intimacy every day if possible. I find it hard to please him sometimes, so I could not try to please two men.I also would not feel right bringing a third person into our...

13 Jul 11

Among ghosts, is this guest house haunted?

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20156) • India 1 Jul 11

Friends, you all know, I am on duty, will be going back home in few days. This guest house is on the top of a hill, I am the only occupant now, they have provided me with a 24 hours orderly servant, after giving me food , he...

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chaska Wow I do believe in spirits. I once moved into this home with my husband and 2 young children and I was expecting another one. I would always feel as though there was another prescence in the home. The people that moved out before us left an old radio and...

2 Jul 11

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Help Me Deal With This User

Amber @AmbiePam (105491) • United States 19 Jun 11

I'll try to summarize this as short as possible. I'd like everyone's opinion regardless if you're a pushover or a rude person. Maybe you can help me find a middle ground. I have a neighbor (she lives in the same building as me,...

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chaska OMG! she is definitely trying to use you. I am also tooooo nice and people try to take advantage. I do not ask people for stuff because, I do not want to bug people. I see that your neighbor does not mind bugging you. I am glad that you put the sign up,...

20 Jun 11

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Priests against birth control....

Hailey2008 @Hailey2008 (47) • Philippines 24 Nov 08

Hi everyone! i just want to share my dilemma. Me and my husband are planning to use birth control. But you see we are Catholics and the priests are against artificial birth control methods. They only allow the Natural Family...

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chaska I have a different faith from yours so I do respect that catholic faith is different. I do not agree with abstinence after you are married your husband and yourself have a physical and emotinal need for intimacy. I do think that you should discuss this with...

25 Nov 08

Working Part time Offline is Better than Working Online...

sdas86 @sdas86 (6076) • Malaysia 24 Nov 08

I think that taking part time job offline is earning more than working online. Making money online is only making very little money and it takes a lot of efforts. If we work offline such as working part time in shops, the wages...

make moneu

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chaska I work fulltime offline and only part time online. I do very well in online surveys and with some PTR sites. I am only doing okay in PTC sites. I work online on weekends, during my lunch break at work, and at night after work. I definitely think I do better...

25 Nov 08

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Should children carry guns to school???

LadyMarissa @LadyMarissa (12148) • United States 20 Nov 08

A group here is pushing to allow children to be able to carry guns to school for protection from the nutz attacking schools. I find this to be a horrible idea. Can you imagine the number of children that would be sent to the...

children carrying guns

guns in school

insane idea

nutz

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chaska #@$%^&& No. Why would they think such a thing was a good idea. That is the most insane thing for anyone to be rallying for. Kids already do not think of the consequences of their actions already. If they are allowed to bring a deadly weapon to school they will...

21 Nov 08

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Is the women responsible for spousal Extramarital Affairs?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 11 Nov 08

People indulging in adultery destroy their marital relationship while deeply hurting the person who love them most. Unfaithful partners know that their acts are not only wrong but would wreck havoc with their personal life. Yet...

extra marital affairs

flag

survival

unfaithful

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chaska I would say that if a person were in a loveless, unaffectionate, unhappy marriage that could lead the spouse to look for it outside of the marriage. I do agree that some people can be driven to do so. However, I feel that if someone is unhappy with their...

12 Nov 08

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Short sleep tied to heart disease risk

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 11 Nov 08

Ifound this article which stresses the importance of having an eight hours of sleep daily. Here is the link...

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chaska A lack of sleep can lead to many more health problems as well. It can lead to obesity, sleep apnea, Diabetes, heart disease, etc. Not getting enough sleep causes tremendous stress on the body. Your body repairs itself during sleep. It is a known fact that when...

12 Nov 08

Do you shut down your cell phone when you sleep at night ?

remoteamber @remoteamber (135) • China 11 Nov 08

I usually shut down my cell phone when I sleep at night , because cell phone radiation can harm my health . But , however , I have always worried whether or not to shut down my phone at night , sometimes your friend or your...

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chaska I use my cell phone only minimally during the day and even less at night. I rarely turn my cell phone off. It usually stays on all day and all night. I have a home phone-landline. Most people call me on either line. Since reading your discussion I will start...

12 Nov 08

How Reliable Is Your Postal Service?

ellie333 @ellie333 (21016) 6 Nov 08

I was just responding to another discussion and in answering realised that in the last couple of months I know for a fact that two parcels that have been sent to me haven't been received which I am quite upset about. What about...

postal servive

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chaska My postal service in my county is not very reliable. I have received other people's mail and have to go give it to them. It makes me wonder how much of my mail goes to other people. At least I do give other people their mail. I have a PO Box that I have had a...

7 Nov 08

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Where did you spend all your online time BEFORE mylot?

James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 6 Nov 08

I have been a member of mylot for around 2 and a half years now and have to admit that it eats up a considerable amount of my online time each week. I tried to think of what I did on the internet prior to mylot being around and...

before

mylot

online time

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chaska Most of my time online has been spent on taking online surveys for about 2 years now. I am a member of a lot of them and they pay very well. The surveys do not take much time and their are a few sites that email me everyday with a new survey(s) to take. The...

7 Nov 08

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Do you get offended when some people makes bad comments on your kid?

pehpot @pehpot (4762) • Philippines 4 Nov 08

My kids as you all know is ages 5 years old, 3 years old and 6 months old now. They are skinny babies and they don't grow that much on weight. They got from us, hubby and I is not that fat, our bones structure is not that big and...

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chaska I do become a little defensive because it sometimes hurts my kids feelings. My eldest child has a big bone structure so she is heavier than my other children. she is 8 years old and sometimes people will comment on her size. Her younger 2 siblings have small...

5 Nov 08

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Very Bad.

adihindu @adihindu (1922) • India 5 Nov 08

I had started a new discussion on yesterday. Now it was one of the hot discussion. But unfortunately one of the fellow mylotter has added the same comment to all the responses. Now I was thinking to not to respond to the...

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chaska That is just terrible. I think that was wrong for the person to do that. I try to respond to a lot of discussions and are very careful to give good advice. Was the other person new to mylot? I hardly ever comment on other people's responses. I think that I...

5 Nov 08

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Help me solve a debate

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 3 Nov 08

My oldest son is very athletic, and is very good at any sport he's ever tried. I've been told since the time he was 4 years old that he has a good shot at having a future in sports, which of course is his dream at the moment. I...

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chaska Hi you never said how old your son was. If he really likes both sports I would say try to let him try them both out. Maybe if he is really young next year he could alternate between the two. Especially if they are done at different times of year. My son is 7...

4 Nov 08