goodkat

@goodkat (63)

Romania • Age 40

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Do you think its rude asking people about their past?

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 12 Feb 12

I think this is quite common especially for those who just met new friends and would like to know more about them not just for the sake of curiosity but also to be aware of who they really are and what their backgound is. I think...

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goodkat Hi there! I'm really going to answer to this shortly: I don't think it's rude to ask people about their past if they are really good friends, but I myself never ask about it unless people start sharing without me asking. It's just that I am not even remotely...

13 Feb 12

to hold on or to let go?

gcg_0915 @gcg_0915 (43) 12 Feb 12

both seemed difficult especially if relationship is in crisis. which is which? to hold on or to let go?

holding on

letting go

relationship

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goodkat I would definitely say "let go". Because something that requires a lot of compromise will break down in the end anyway, and you would only feel like you wasted more time than you should have. Which would generally be true. If you don't have kids, LET GO....

13 Feb 12

Need some suggestions

Kotarei @Kotarei (141) • United States 10 Feb 12

Does anyone have any tips for helping of the getting rid of tummy pouch and flabby arms that doesnt involve the whole cosmetic surgery thing. i'd prefer to get rid of it all naturally. problem is ive been eating well and i do...

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goodkat It would be great if you could find a place close-by to go swimming. That would be the best remedy for flabby arms. And for your tummy ... you need a lot of intense jogging and crouches.

13 Feb 12

Delete photos after breaking up with someone?

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 12 Feb 12

Would you delete all photos after breaking up relationship with someone? I think some people would say it would be better deleting all those pictures so as not to bring back or remind us of all those painful memories. But i think...

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goodkat Hi there, I'm guessing it depends on the terms that the relationship ended. If you just ended a really bad relationship, I would think it's ok to delete photos and throw away all the stuff that could remind you of how bad it really was. On the other hand,...

13 Feb 12

Here's a weird one for ya

celticeagle @celticeagle (188292) • Boise, Idaho 13 Feb 12

Back afew years my daughter and I and my hubby at the time were setting around telling scarey/weird stories and when it came to my turn i told them about a happening that transpired back when my best friend and I were roaming...

college students

graveyard

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goodkat I've also had something weird happen to me. My grandfather died when I was only 6 years old, and one of the things I remember about him is that he had the habit of saying "hat on a stick" instead of "oh, crap". I've never heard anyone else say it. I am now 25...

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does drinking urine really have health benefits?

cuttyrish @cuttyrish (3136) • United States 13 Feb 12

I have read online about a certain "unrine therephy" that it is used to treat cancer and various diseases, and that drinking it would give you strenght. There was a even a video of Juan Manuel Marquez, from hbo of his boxing...

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goodkat Here's your answer: Absolutely not! Drinking urine does not have any benefits other than saving the toilet water that you would flush. Certain yoga practitioners claimed it would be good to drink it, but no solid scientific proof came to support the claim....

13 Feb 12

Have you suffered any burns?

joystick7 @joystick7 (728) • India 21 Dec 08

I just suffered a minor burn in my hand few days back while I was at a shop. The shopkeeper had some kind of sugarcane machine outside his shop which I didnt knew was hot due to some reasons... I touched it and instantly I could...

burn

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goodkat Hi! I once burned my tongue with acid. That was my first burn, I was a child. Since then, I've experienced other minor burns.

22 Dec 08

Do you send more friend requests than you receive or vice versa?

bayernfan @bayernfan (1430) • Canada 22 Dec 08

I was thinking about this the other day as I had received several friend requests within a short period of time and I was impressed with a members comments, so I decided to send out a friend request to that member. I receive more...

receiving friendship requests

sending friendship requests

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goodkat i've received some friend requests and sent none.

22 Dec 08

Your last working day of this year?

dieorfly @dieorfly (763) • Slovak Republic 21 Dec 08

Just few days remaining to the Christmas and to the end of the year. Many people decided to take a vacation so they can take a rest. But on the other hand there is lot of workaholics or simple people who have too much duties to...

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goodkat Good for you! I also have a small vacation. I will work until the 24th (24th included) and come back to the office on the 3rd. Happy holidays!

22 Dec 08

My Nephew

CatsandDogs @CatsandDogs (13963) • United States 21 Dec 08

He promised to send my parents some money that he owes them a week ago this past Firday and he never did. This past friday, I sent him a text message and he sent one back to me asking who I was and that he had gotten a new phone...

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goodkat Hi! I'm sorry for all the trouble that you're going through with your nephew. I think you HAVE to call his parents and ask them to pay for their son, no matter how old he is. If they refuse, you can address the police or send an e-mail to a lawyer. They'll...

22 Dec 08

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teenager having babies

sammyo @sammyo (21) • United States 21 Dec 08

Well, my 17 year old just found out she having a baby. Her and her boyfriend have been together for a year now. She came to me in Oct. to see if she can get some birth cotrol. I told her even throu she is on birth control, she can...

children having babies

getting pregnant

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goodkat For her future, I think it would be better to support the idea of an abortion. I know it sounds horrible, but a child being forced to take care of another child is not a bright idea. Maybe she wants to go to a college or university, and thus can't take care of...

22 Dec 08

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wt's ur religions?

babyorchid @babyorchid (1737) • China 22 Dec 08

hey, all my friends here. do you have any religions? i know many friends whose religion are buddhism..or christianity..or islam.. sometimes...they keep on and on to persuade me that the god do exist.. as a free man..i don't...

religions

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goodkat Hi, I'm a catholic, but not very fond of religion in general. I go to church quite rarely. But I sometimes find myself in difficult situations and say "help me, God" in my head... and that brings a little comfort. At least more than it would, if I hadn't...

22 Dec 08

this made me mad

prettygirl_80650 @prettygirl_80650 (306) • United States 21 Dec 08

ok i have 3 pcs in my house and each are hooked to the internet 1 for my hubby 1 for my children and then there is mine. the childrens pc is parental protected . This morning i woke up to a picture of miley cyrus nude on my desk...

xrated pictures

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goodkat First of all, I don't think it was one of the kids who did it. It must have been the husband. I'm quite sure I can't be mistaking. The reason I'm saying this is because, well, when children are watching this kind of pictures, they go for something that looks...

22 Dec 08

Do you suppose my dream is telling me something

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 21 Dec 08

For the last little while, my husband and I have discussing with our younger son that maybe we should try shopping at Costco, but when my son told us the cost of membership, my husband said it would be too expensive. Now I have...

superstore or new purse

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goodkat Come on, I really don't think this is a serious dream that you can take into consideration. Most dreams are related to what the brain has as 'suspended' activity, things that it didn't have time to process during the day. The thoughts are not wasted, ignored...

22 Dec 08

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Do you sleep next to anyone every night?

Sheepie @Sheepie (3112) • United States 21 Dec 08

I have never really slept next to anyone, and I couldn't imagine it as being quite the same. Doesn't everyone need to be able to wake up in the morning, looking his or her worst, to rub out their eye crust and pick their nose and...

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goodkat I've been in a long-term relationship (almost five years) and slept next to that someone for the last three and a half years. I didn't mind him seeing me at my worst, neither did he. What I now dislike is the emptiness in my bed, waking up alone and not having...

22 Dec 08