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bon_jing @bon_jing (88) • Philippines 10 May 07

Someone once told me that the Philippines is blessed. Why?On a Full Moon, look at the moon. The black area of the moon is shaped like an abstract form of the Madonna and Child. And they said, it can only be seen in the...

full moon

madonna and child

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janeff this one is for the books, mah friend....true too, this is the first time i have heard of it...why you never even mentioned it to me? thought we were good friends?...:D

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janeff @janeff (19) • Philippines 10 May 07

I have five children, four sons and a daughter. But they are not toddlers anymore. In fact they all have their own children and wives now. When my children were toddlers, they spend most of their hours in front of television. This...

influence of television programs to kids

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bon_jing @bon_jing (88) • Philippines 3 May 07

I am a smoker, and I am not proud of it. I wish I didn't take that first puff. But i live everyday with the hopes that one day I would stop. For the other smokers out there, let me cite an Article on the October 2004 issue of...

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janeff mah friend, this should be good warnings for you...it's a good thing i have kicked the habit a year ago...wow! that is a good feat, ain't it?...means, am celebrating my 1st year anniversary to, "NO TO SMOKING"...i used to remember our good ole days, puffing...

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sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 9 May 07

That seems impossible. You can at best refrain from smoking for a week. I have seen smokers go from bad to worse. If a good friend that stays with you through thick and thin, smoking may be considered the best friend. Smoking is a...

habits that stays with you

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janeff oh yes, i have indeed!...it was like i would be causing death to myself, if i would continue...i still wanted to live, of course...started smoking at age of 29 and stopped only at age 54..i was consuming either one pack or one pack and a half each day...now am...

9 May 07

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bugbaby @bugbaby (1787) • Indonesia 1 May 07

How can you really help them feel better? I'm not happy to hear this about anyone. I want them to feel better ASAP. : )

relationships

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janeff If you will ask if there are ways to assuage their feelings, it will be difficult to find which one would take, doing it successfully. For it there was one that you could think of, it would only abate the feeling of brokenness very temporarily. But there is...

1 May 07

Aphroditei_5279 @Aphroditei_5279 (2465) • Philippines 28 Apr 07

Now that I have reached my 500's. I wanted to start a different discussion. From cooking recipes, health tips, friendship, and Love, now, how about some Music? I wanted to share one of my favorite song. I must admit I had...

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janeff BTW, thank you for welcoming me to this site!

30 Apr 07

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Aphroditei_5279 @Aphroditei_5279 (2465) • Philippines 28 Apr 07

Now that I have reached my 500's. I wanted to start a different discussion. From cooking recipes, health tips, friendship, and Love, now, how about some Music? I wanted to share one of my favorite song. I must admit I had...

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janeff It's very encouraging reading you having high hopes after your lost of a true love. The most difficult part is always that segment when you have to move on and pace the time, without this very dear person with you. Your being a single mom gives you the...

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marifel1986 @marifel1986 (179) • Philippines 29 Apr 07

a friend of mine is having a relationship with an older man who is way to old for him. do you think it's ok to have such relationship?

old men

relationship

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janeff Marifel1986 hello! Maybe the reason why you asked this is because you have also been very observant on why most Filipinas would be finding the love of their lives from dating sites, whose members would be compose of older western/eastern folks, looking for...

29 Apr 07

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Aphroditei_5279 @Aphroditei_5279 (2465) • Philippines 28 Apr 07

Now that I have reached my 500's. I wanted to start a different discussion. From cooking recipes, health tips, friendship, and Love, now, how about some Music? I wanted to share one of my favorite song. I must admit I had...

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janeff Well, Aphroditei_5279, this is a very good and soothing song, for the broken-hearted females and males, out there; and it gives a whole lot of great hopes and push for moving on. We, Filipinos, adore sentimental songs like this, as it appeals to our heart...

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kharl143 @kharl143 (343) • Philippines 29 Apr 07

honestly guys,am still living with my parents under one roof.i treid to ask permission from them before that ill move out but they dont permit to do so...even if ill just be renting a room a block away from our house...that was a...

movint out

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janeff In our country kharl143, you would know that family ties are very strong and most of our parents have the tendency of over-protecting their children, moreso when you are the youngest among the brood in the family. This they would do no matter at what age one...

29 Apr 07

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 24 Apr 07

Life will no more be a play. You have to begin to work seriously in order to build up money resources. Your pre-marital secrets should be buried. If you do not do these - your name becomes a good-for-nothing husband.

good for nothing

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janeff I do believe that marriage is always a fifty-fifty proposition. The married pair can be described akinned business partners, where profits and losses will have to be shared always. Whatever there is in the marriage, this must be equally shared, not...

28 Apr 07

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 27 Apr 07

Is this prohibited in your culture. Would you be sentenced to death. Have you ever been attracted to someone outside your race. What would your parents say? Would your family disown you, never speak to you again? Would you respect...

dating other nationality

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janeff kynni204, i like to believe that not all culture and race would disallow mixed marriages or dating, to the extents that you have mentioned...we are presently living in a more conventional society so these primitive/medieval traditions may not at all, be as...

28 Apr 07

janeff @janeff (19) • Philippines 28 Apr 07

I like to ask how long before you can have another marriage relationship, if the past marriages you have had have all proven disastrous to you? Will that retard the making of another marriage, especially if you have had two...

broken marriages

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janeff mrsbrian, thank you so much for a very solid response to my query...true, two takes to tango..so both must have contributed to the bad and good scenes of their marriage, thus bring whatever comes about as their direct and wilful responsibilities..i very much...

28 Apr 07

emilieespino @emilieespino (963) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

What do you think is the major area of breakdown in marriages today? I would say communication. What do you think?

marriage

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janeff I would not only say communication itself, but the level of understanding relating to the issues or knowing well what issues are concerned, is an added factor. True, communication would have the couples say what each wants to say, but then and if it doesn't...

28 Apr 07

janeff @janeff (19) • Philippines 28 Apr 07

I like to ask how long before you can have another marriage relationship, if the past marriages you have had have all proven disastrous to you? Will that retard the making of another marriage, especially if you have had two...

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