ksmita

@ksmita (513)

India • Age 47

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Lost Job Opportunity

LilyoftheThorns @LilyoftheThorns (12918) • United States 30 Jun 18

I recently experienced something that has made me really question where I'm working, and I'm having a hard time getting over it. I applied for a new position (one with the company I'm currently working for) that I was really...

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ksmita Hi..experienced the same few times, now i am immune to all the politics as i have seen soon such people are laid off as they have no professionalism and take everything for granted..getting job is easy but maintaining it is not fun. Just move on towards...

30 Jun 18

Do you ever feel insignificant when dealing with the people around you?

Jesuslovesme @MsBooklover (3974) • United States 26 Jun 18

If you do, what is it that makes you feel that way? What kind of behavior does it? I feel like most people do not take me seriously, and I don't think they ever will. With some people....maybe a lot of people.....the nicer you...

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ksmita I have felt the same for my whole life and the strange thing is people come and ask me 'why don't you talk to anyone or stay alone'???

27 Jun 18

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Are you cheap or just frugal?

Alfredo Rossi @amadeo (111938) • United States 25 Jun 18

hello everyone.Question of the day. are you cheap or just frugal. I maybe cheap in some things But I think that more frugal for me. How can you tell if your cheap or frugal? Photo online

personal

gay

news

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ksmita Definitely frugal. I never think of price before buying expensive things if that's what my loved desires.

26 Jun 18

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What purpose for Life?

Rathanasabapathy Sethumanickam @SRSaba (1128) • Chennai, India 25 Jun 18

We are born, learn, work, love, marriage, child, educating.. that is life?? we are all doing this! what is reason for we are here? what purpose for Life?

life

love

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ksmita To settle our past karmic account and to remain stable and peaceful in every situation in our life. What is your purpose of life??

26 Jun 18

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Stress buster

Kokil agarwal @amitkokiladitya (171927) • Agra, India 25 Jun 18

Stress is an inevitable part of human life. There are days when the stress levels are at the peak. Every person adopts different methods of dealing with stress. For me.the greatest stress buster is to have a brisk walk. It helps...

stress

life

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ksmita Music is my stress buster as well as watching 'Awakening with Brahamkumaris' helps me to calm down.

26 Jun 18

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Welcoming Old Users On Mylot

Super Singh @thesupersingh (42067) • India 22 Jun 18

Well, normally its the other way that we welcome new members or I Should say Newbies on Mylot but as Mylot have many registered members and some do leave us for sometime to take some sort of break from online activities or may be...

mylot

members

come back

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ksmita Even I came back after almost 3 years and first thing I did was to search Hatley and Gandhisunu as they were regularly responding to every post of mine and were quite respectful and modest. Read about Hatley in some post few days back. Hope she gets well soon...

22 Jun 18

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What Are Your Views About India?

Super Singh @thesupersingh (42067) • India 22 Jun 18

I think when someone hears about India then it think about many things like poverty, population explosion, terrorist attacks, Kashmir Issue, Vast land, Place of Different Religions, cultures, Foods, languages and Most popular in...

india

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ksmita We are our own enemies i guess!!! Instead of cherishing our rich heritage, culture and history as a whole, we have been fighting with our own countrymen and painting bad picture of country to the foreigners. On the positive side, we are developing in sports...

22 Jun 18

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Have you ever considered to move in another country?

Mei @mhayannsuju (27) 20 Jun 18

I have always been saying, only if I can, only if I have the means to do it, I would definitely pack my things and live evrything behind. And go live my life to the fullest! But, there is this one thing that some people who thinks...

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ksmita I desperately want to move to some new place..I had too many bad memories and experiences here...i am always thinking of starting new life with new people around, but unfortunately right now i can't because of financial burden....

22 Jun 18

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Which hurt one the most in life

lovely @augusta123 (6649) 21 Jun 18

I was just wondering which could hurt the most saying hurtful words and later regret or keeping mute but feel bad later for not speaking up earlier. I think bottling up earlier will hurts me more,I like letting my emotions out,...

life

cares

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ksmita Both is hurtful..saying hurtful words and regretting later and bottling up emotions. It is better to be assertive and express yourself in a proper way, not easy though, but trying myself..

21 Jun 18

How Is The World Today?

Marlina @marlina (154117) • Canada 21 Jun 18

And how is your part of the world today? Today, the first day of summer here where we live in Canada. Something that we have been waiting for so long. I have 2 errands this morning: one is to go to City Hall and pay our municipal...

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ksmita It's a beautiful evening here in South India. Its raining here and saw rainbow sometime back after long long time!!!

21 Jun 18

Will You Work For more then 12 Hours a Day and 7 days a Week For 2X Of Your Current Salary?

Super Singh @thesupersingh (42067) • India 21 Jun 18

I got an opportunity like that a few months ago where in I was offered A Job where i need to work for 12 hours or something like that in a day, Where in Our Meals will be provided by the work place and those who are from distant...

job

offers

work culture

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ksmita Depending on the work environment and security provision, I will take it. Maybe look for something better after saving enough.

21 Jun 18

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No one to be with him.

Bhem @JustBhem (70555) • Davao, Philippines 20 Jun 18

When I was confined in the Hospital last May, I met along a patient who is alone. He never has a watcher or someone to look after him, he was the one who takes care of his medicine. I was seeing him from where my bed is. I thought...

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ksmita Sadly I fear the same as I do not have any friends and my family is spread out and busy. Right now I am in good health and even if I get mildly sick,I alone take care of myself. But I am scared to be in situation where I have to be dependent on someone and no...

21 Jun 18

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Do you smoke cigarette?

Solongo Munkhbaatar @ko31024 (492) • Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia 15 Aug 16

Do you smoke cigarette? i do and i'm only 19 tho i started smoking cigarette when i was 14 now it's pure 5 years i smoke 4-5 cigarette a day i'm strongly addicted to cigarette and sometimes i can't even sleep without smoke that...

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ksmita Well, I started smoking almost 5 months ago...i smoke 1-2 cigarettes per day..mostly at night while working...now kind of addicted to it...

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Did you know readbud.com?

fitriadi21 @fitriadi21 (386) • Indonesia 30 Nov 11

I am curently awaiting extra money online from readbud.com. A program make money online which very exciting. We simply asked to read the article, then gives it's rating on the articles that we read, and we get paid. It is very...

make money online

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ksmita yeah, it is a scam site..initially you will get quite a few articles to rate, but when you reach near 50$, don't expect aany articles!! I reached almost 46$ and then i didn't get any articles..don't waste your time on that site.

1 Dec 11

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when someone gets sick in the family, every one gets affected

hotsummer @hotsummer (13847) • Philippines 20 Nov 11

i have mentioned already in my other discussion about my father being sick and needs daily care , he is almost like a baby thta we have to watch him closely. if he walks around the house, we need to make sure he won't fall and...

sickness

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ksmita Hi. I can relate my life to this totally. In Jauary my mother was diagnosed with end stage renal disease. since then she is on dialysis three times a week. I took night shift for that reason. since then even i have no social life or personal life for that...

21 Nov 11

Readbud.com is the confirmed scam site....

knrsekar @knrsekar (1009) • India 8 Jun 10

I am the member of this site for about two months. I am having the balance of $38.00 in my account..As I used to read many discussions about the reduced number of articles, I just wanted to test the site.. For your kind info, at...

avoid

readbud

scam site

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ksmita hi. i don't know whether the site is scam or not , but i agree that they reduce the number of articles. i have reached $40.27 mark..i thought i will soon reach $50 mark but unfortunatley since 3 days , i have not recieved any article to view!!! i guess i just...

9 Jun 10

Do you still hug and kiss your parents even you are old ?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39140) • Philippines 20 Mar 10

hello dear friends,mylotters,mere bhai/s,sister/s, Do you still hug and kiss your parents even if you are old,i mean at your age now? You are also a parent..a mother or a father of your own kids. Do you feel comfortable...

missing my parents

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ksmita hi sister jaiho. personally iam not comfortable hugging and kissing anyone. as for parents , i touch their feet . with others , i just shake hands or greet them with smile even if iam seeing them after long time. generally, there is nothing wrong in showing...

20 Mar 10

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If you would just get off your high horse blah blah blah

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163773) • Garden Grove, California 17 Mar 10

this discussion I started from reading one in which one of my friends was rudely dissed over something that should have been kept private, and she should have private messaged my friend. Do any of you my fellow mylotters feel...

quarrels should not be aired in discussions

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ksmita hi hatley. i totally agree with you. as a friend , you can take liberty to be little bold with your response but it should be done privately through PM. when you know that , your response is going to be read by other many mylotters, then you should be careful...

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