mamajena

@mamajena (122)

United States • Age 59

Joined myLot 19 years ago

It didn't kill me

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Does mylot improved your english so far?

Corezz @Corezz (1013) • Netherlands Antilles 16 Jun 07

Hello everybody. I am amazed by the fact that I learned prety well english here. Of course I knew enlgish, but since I joined mylot I found out that I have improved this language very good. How about you, do you imprved your...

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mamajena I don't want to hurt anyones feelings but an example of what my future post says is quite clear in your original post. The correct english would be "Hello everybody, I am amazed by the fact that I have learned pretty good english here. Of course I already...

16 Jun 07

How to cope with husband..

tristansmommy @tristansmommy (33) • United States 14 Jun 07

My husband has joined the Army, and could be shipping any day now. I don't mind, as a matter of fact, I support his decision in everything that he wants to do. The thing is, we have a 8 1/2 month old son, and I'm about 29 weeks...

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mamajena Your response is totally understandable and I think you are entitled to those feelings. It will be very difficult for you while he is overseas. You will have both children to care for and him to worry about. I think it is well within your rights to ask him to...

14 Jun 07

What different languages do we have on MyLot?

Juliette @Juliette (34) • United States 27 Aug 06

What is your native language and do you speak any other languages?

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mamajena My Native language is English but I "speak" 2 versions of sign language both American sign and Signing exact english. I have started a discussion titled how many words can you come up with in this interest group. The idea was that non native english speakers...

13 Jun 07

What did you think of the season finale?

jnallen_487 @jnallen_487 (800) • United States 12 Jun 07

I was so mad that they did that to Ray. I was telling my sister the week before that if they killed him off that I wasn't watching anymore. Now I don't know what is worse. What did you all think of it?

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mamajena I am also unsure which is worse I think they should have just killed him off but I think this is worse for poor Neela. I am also unsure what is going to happen to her. In the end of the last scene she was laying on the ground at that peace rally and Tony was...

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Why it is so hard to be a MOTHER!

butterfly39 @butterfly39 (3904) • Philippines 11 Jun 07

I am a mother of three kids and I love them so much. I have one question that made me so tired of thinking WHY? Being a mother is just so great, and I find it so hard. So hard because you exerted more effort for your family....

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mamajena Any thing worth doing is worth doing well and no one said it was easy. Being a mother is one of the toughest jobs you'll ever love. Take it from a mom who is about to be finished with the raising part there is light at the end of the tunnel and just keep...

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Can you always Communicate with other people well in English ??

easy888 @easy888 (10404) • Australia 2 Jun 07

'I just went out with my friend today and she introduced a guy to me, he was from Italy who speak english as his second language,he wanted to be my good friend so that i can help him to improve his english. He told me it was not...

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mamajena I had a friend from France who found that slow american love songs were a great way to learn english. As far as using slang I quess that would depend on who I was speaking to. If it was a friend who spoke english probably english as second language maybe. Just...

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do you earn money from internet,how ?

ammar55555 @ammar55555 (270) • Jordan 4 Mar 07

I like to share you some of my ideas about earning money from internet.I began this two months ago,start with PTC,PTR,PTS sites like no-minimum and donkeymails ,..... well, now I earn money from paid to post forums, and paid...

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5 Mar 07

Do you and your husband say thank you after cooking meals, etc?

sylviekitty @sylviekitty (2083) • United States 23 Feb 07

My husband and I have been married for 8 1/2 yrs now. I am very good about being polite, and I thank him for making us an occasional meal. (I also thank him when he helps me out around the house). He doesn't usually return the...

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mamajena I am a wife too and have been for over 15 years. I must be really lucky because each night after I cook for my husband I still get a kiss, a thank you and a dinner was good. I try to always remember to say thank you for the little things he does for me too....

28 Feb 07

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Do you think basic manners should be taught in the schools or home?

Bee1955 @Bee1955 (3882) • United States 27 Feb 07

I overheard a lady in the library the other day ranting about how her child is ignorant of using manners because he is so disrespectful at home. Then she blamed the child's school for "not doing their job". STOP! I mean, COME ON!...

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mamajena I think parent have become lazy about raising their own children what with both parents working who has time. I am glad that I was able to stay home with mine and teach them the basics. But I say enough is enough. How can we expect teachers to teach not only...

28 Feb 07

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What I never speak to my boyfriend about...

Dolcerina @Dolcerina (3376) • Hungary 28 Feb 07

I know that my boyfriend would like me to give birth to a child. Sometimes he mention, but he knows what I think about this matter. When he mentioned first time, that he would like a child, we still were at the begining of our...

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mamajena I think you are being a responsible mature adult in the situation, however you need to talk to your man and together maybe you can find a way to create a time line let him know you want the same thing as he does but that you want to do it in a mature and...

28 Feb 07

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I am the worst parent ever!!!

moonmagick @moonmagick (1458) • United States 28 Feb 07

My baby rolled off the couch while I was changing his diaper a little while ago. He didnt hurt himself, got more scared than anything. But I felt so terrible. He has recently learned to crawl and is constantly bouncing all over...

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mamajena Trust me this baby is a boy and you will have many more close calls before he is grown and gone. You still have years of scraped knees and elbows, dirty fingerprints on every wall about halfway down, frogs and bugs and tree limbs that are too high and too...

28 Feb 07

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I'm afraid to take the test...

soccermom @soccermom (3198) • United States 28 Feb 07

Okay, I'm beyond being "late", but I'm scared to take a pregnancy test. I can't wrap my mind around the fact that after having a tubal I could possibly be pregnant. I plan on taking it on Sunday if no "friend" shows up. I tried to...

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mamajena I know how you feel but life is what it is. Things always happen for a reason and if you are pregnant despite the tubal then maybe it was meant to be. Maybe this child is supposed to do something great and just has to be here. As far as your little one and...

28 Feb 07

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What is the best thing to help a baby who is teething?

simesc @simesc (248) 13 Feb 07

Hi my son has started teething. What do people suggest is best to help a baby through this period. If possible I would prefer to use natural solutions rather than medicines.

baby babies teething birth child children

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mamajena One of the best homeopathic meds I ever found was Humphry's teething tables and I used to get them at walgreens or rite aid. We tried the cold teething rings and frozen wash rags and yes even wiskey on his gums. The best thing I ever found was my grandmothers...

17 Feb 07

Inefficient teething?

Leca @lecanis (16647) • Murfreesboro, Tennessee 17 Feb 07

Just a question for other parents out there. How long did it take after your child first showed signs of teething for the first tooth to actually pop through? My son has been showing signs of teething since he was 2 months old....

babies

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mamajena My children all got teeth at around 6-8 months and would come in 3-4 at time I remember my oldest it was so hard to watch him suffer. My grandmother gave me the best remedy though. She took and undyed leather belt and cut it into 3x3 squares and I gave them to...

17 Feb 07

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mom's first night out.

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 17 Feb 07

my daughter is 3 and a half and last night my mother took her to her place for a sleepover. it was so nice to have a night out. i went to the bar to celebrate a freinds birthday. this was my first time to a bar since i got...

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mamajena Mine 3 are almost all grown now 21, 20, and 17 so I don't need a babysitter to go out anymore. When they were little we used to take them to my mom's once a week and do all kinds of things. Go see a movie, go dancing and to dinner. Once we even left them for a...

17 Feb 07

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How do we know if it is abuse?

minerc @minerc (1373) • United States 17 Feb 07

I have 2 step daughters we have a shared custody arrangement, so we get them every weekend, we alternate the holidays and school spring break, during the summer we have them all we and there mother has them every weekend. There...

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mamajena Unfortunately I also have first hand knowledge of this kind of situation. My ex was like this mom. My children were never supervised when they were with him. Unfortunately they would only consider this neglect if something happened to the girls while in her...

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Some Women Shouldnt have kids.

minerc @minerc (1373) • United States 17 Feb 07

My sister is having a really hard time dealing with her oldest son's girlfriend. The girlfriend just had a baby with my sisters son, and she has a 3 year old by someone else. She don't take care of the baby or the 3 year old as...

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mamajena I agree with you that some women should not have children. It sounds to me like she is young and inexperienced and that in time she might learn to take care of the kids with the mother in laws help. If I were your sister I would confront her head on about the...

17 Feb 07