med889

@med889 (5940)

Age 39

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Overthinking

lizziegee @lizziegee (297) • Philippines 21 Apr 13

I admit I tend to over analyze everything. I believe most girls do. I am the type of person who most of the time believe that everything should be understood and read between the lines. I seldom take things literally, because I...

overthinking

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med889 Hello, I believe it is completely normal to have such thoughts. I do it in certain situations, however i realise it is not always a very good thing to do as it takes your time, it brings a lot of unwanted thoughts which may disturb you afterwards. So I think...

25 Apr 13

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I can't control my nervous

tedifa @tedifa (1232) • Indonesia 17 Oct 12

Sometimes i come to important meeting or speaking in front of some people.But till now i still can't control my nervous.It was shame and become a problem for me.I can't speak well,and what i am thinking always gone cause of my...

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med889 Hello, there are many trainings you can take online, i took one its called presentation dynamic and it helped me a lot, to speak infront of an audience, to address someone, to walk on the floor and raise a topic and even answer to questions. Find some online...

18 Oct 12

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First insult from my boss

Paper_Doll @Paper_Doll (2373) • Philippines 18 Oct 12

I am the happiest person when our department got a new boss. Four months have passed and now, everything changed, I am really disappointed. I thought he is different. I thought he is fair. I told a colleague of mine about what...

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med889 These little things I agree can be disturbing from times to times, I would feel insulted too in your place. but what is more important now is how you should act henceforth. I can say that sometimes it is your behaviour also which can caused this situation...

18 Oct 12

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up and running about

choybel @choybel (5042) • Philippines 8 Oct 12

Well, I am happy to say that my sick cat, which I have told you guys about a few days ago, is now up and running about. After several days of intensive house care from all of us here, I can say that it is back to it's healthy...

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med889 My Cat Zeebaw had an accident 2 year ago and he could not walk, he became slim and could not eat properly so I had to give him a bath every 3 days and help him to eat. I even carried him everywhere i felt it was good for him. Actually we are so attached to him...

8 Oct 12

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All For Music

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 8 Oct 12

Songs that have already been sung are quite sweet and worthy of repeated recitations. But unsung songs are more sweeter.The kind of feeling should be firm in all blooming singers,because the best song is yet come from their...

songs and melodies

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med889 I have music which date long time ago and still are very nice to listen to. I listen to them from time to time thought they are not the trend nowadays but still very soothing and nice to listen to. Music is all the way is soothing to the soul and I would even...

8 Oct 12

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Can we date even we are already committed?

bembzee @bembzee (768) • Philippines 8 Oct 12

Dating is an art of communication. It is a planned and agreed event of two. Dating can lead into a wonderful love story or a good friendship. What if one is already committed? Is he/she allows on a date? Is it acceptable and fair?...

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med889 The day i was commited to my partner, i stopped seeing someone else. For me i wanted to start someone based on honesty and faithfulness and i expect the same from my partner so i started doing it myself by being honest to both me and my partner. It is not fair...

8 Oct 12

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My 4th Article Submitted to Helium and Accepted!

dcunni2990 @dcunni2990 (120) • United States 3 Oct 12

From Monday to Tuesday, I have been working on my next article for Helium.com - Mitt Romney's foreign policy positions - I finsished by Tues. morning but since I had used a website for a source, I had to find info. on embedding...

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med889 This is indeed very good, I was writing on helium too, i was there for 4 years and wrote many articles but then with work, kids and home, i could find very little time to spend on my writing. Instead I have developped my skills in paitings and I am planning an...

4 Oct 12

What path should I follow for my future ?

ScrubJ @ScrubJ (126) • Sri Lanka 2 Oct 12

I am currently an Electrical Engineering undergraduate... But I love programming, web designing.. & computer stuff a lot.. Further, I love mathematics.. specially statistics & number analysis.. however I don't see any motivation...

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med889 I recruit people and the trend nowadays is IT. SAP is needed everyone in the world today and companies are ready to pay the SAP Professionals a good package if they can work for them. IT is a very important pillar in the world today and its good you have...

3 Oct 12

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I Just Can't Let Go...

eurekafemme @eurekafemme (5874) • Philippines 2 Oct 12

I should have stopped for good. It has been a year or more since the last time I talk to some of you. I thought I can do without your friendship. I thought I can just go on with my life without turning back and missing the things...

friends

long absence

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med889 I am here for the last few years and i made a lot of friends here in mylot. Then last year I had to cut off from mylot because I had many other important priorities to look after, it was such a pain for me because i used to spend nearly 4 hours per day here....

2 Oct 12

Do you feel you have become more responsible after your marriage?

padu19 @padu19 (1441) • India 5 Jul 12

Hi, I have been repeating this in almost all my discussions, that 'I got married just a month ago!'. I know this person for quite some time. However, till a few months before our marriage, we used to fight very badly. I used...

family

relationship

responsibility

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med889 My sisters often narrate to me their marital lives and the changes. One is married for 12 years and she depicts marriage as a sacred act however also says the truth about it. She says as far as one does good things for the other like washing the clothes,...

6 Jul 12

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work problem

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 5 Jul 12

hi guys. I'm in a children's library. I do want to improve this one however, they have very limited budget and I'm not paid that much. I feel unsatisfied knowing that because of limited budget, I can't do something. can anyone...

work

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med889 This is indeed a very good initiative. I remember when I had to help children in my neighborhood. Actually I wanted these children to benefit from something different so I talked to some friends and make them come and teach these children music. They are...

6 Jul 12

it is frustrating when it takes ages before someone reply you on chat message

hotsummer @hotsummer (13882) • Philippines 5 Jul 12

like i am wondering what happened to the person on the other end. as we have some important matters we need to discuss specially when i need to know the answer fast. but i always get a valid explanation. but sometimes it gets me...

message

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med889 I guess it is only based on the person's availability. But I also agree that it can be frustrating at times. For example, when I post a discussion here, I bear in mind that it might take me 2 days to get a good response. But same does not apply when i chat...

6 Jul 12

I love my cousin....

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 5 Jul 12

I just heard it to the radio last night when the boy cried and told his story to the DJ actually the radio program is about the love story problems. The boy really love his girl after having two years of smooth relationship the...

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love

relationship

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med889 All these time matter. All the moment spent together matter. And I will advise to go forward because what would happen if the relative would come between them after they got married? Will they leave each other just because they are cousin? I do not think so....

6 Jul 12

What does a relationship mean to you?

Yanzalong @yanzalong (19092) • Indonesia 25 Dec 11

Some people think that having a relationship means it is between a man and a woman who are going to be close and closer one another. In other words, it a relationship which will later develope into a more serious relationship in...

friendship

love

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med889 It means happiness if you know how to handle it, it means care if you can give consideration to your partner, it means love if you can give without expecting, it means the world if you believe in it. Making friends do not mean that the person is searching for...

25 Dec 11

Man,please don't shout to woman!

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 24 Dec 11

Boy,if you want me to not shout you,shut your mouth so i will not shout you! girl,if you want me shut my mouth ,you better stop hurting me!.......do you think that they are both hurting each other...?

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med889 I think a liitle consideration should be given to a relationship before making a mountain out of a hill because no fight is great so before shouting at each other there should be a little thinking going on in the head for each other, I would never say that I...

25 Dec 11

how to judge people by their faces

amrbar1 @amrbar1 (3) 1 Oct 11

I heard so often that there are people who can get an insight on anyone just by looking or more precisely studying their faces. I dont know but i wanna know how to do this or practice this....i think this is technically called...

character judgement

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med889 I would say never to judge someone but always to observe to be able to get an insight of the nature of the person. I like to observe people a lot especially if the person is a new face in my environment. It helps me to better understand him/her and therefore...

25 Dec 11