meldred

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Does the preacher you listen to know what he's doing?

clowdine @clowdine (1402) • Philippines 3 Feb 10

This post is intended for Christians and those who believe in the Chrisian God and the Lord Jesus Christ. We regularly listen to our overall presiding minister of whatever church we belong to but what makes you keep on listening...

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meldred I listened to what the preacher because i want to nourish my spiritual life...in order to make me more mature.

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Are there special songs that remind you of someone?

dragonangel @dragonangel (551) 21 Feb 10

I love listening to music and i could say that there are really songs which could remind me of someone. They're not just ordinary someone but someone holding a special place in my heart. There is this Moon River song which...

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meldred yap there are many...not only memories on my special someone but memories in my family...friends & events.

21 Feb 10

friends who let you down

sbryan1969 @sbryan1969 (212) • United States 21 Feb 10

Has anyone ever had a someone who you thought was a friend who really let you down. Ok I know that no one is perfect but I had a supposely close friend who was in a real bind and I loaned her a good deal of money. (yes, I know...

friends who let you down

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meldred yap sometimes trusting a friend is not easy especially on money matters...it's very disappointing..me too i have experienced the same. Mine is almost 3yrs by May & she never answered my phone calls,email & text... i try going to her house but my husband won't...

21 Feb 10

Is it OK to be back with your EX?

anc457 @anc457 (186) • Thailand 21 Feb 10

i don't know how we broke up that was two years ago already. but we end up friends, sometimes dduring the past two years we still see each other over dinner or coffee. now i'm seeing someone else, "my ex" has another but they're...

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meldred if you feel that you still love him why not.

21 Feb 10

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is valentines day important?

cutepink_13 @cutepink_13 (691) 6 Feb 10

well ever since i already heard about valentines and until now. now that i have a bf is it really necessary to celebrate valentines?

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meldred for me? if you know exactly the meaning of valentines..it should be celebrated daily because as i understand valentines is all about love...

18 Feb 10

do you go to church today for the ash wednesday?

rosey19 @rosey19 (951) • Philippines 16 Feb 10

Today is ash Wednesday, the beginning of the lenten season. As an observance of the lenten season all christians have to go to the church for the imposition of ashes on the forehead. for me i already attended mass this morning...

ash wednesday

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meldred me? i don't...because i don't understand the purpose of putting ashes in the forehead...is this mandated in the Bible? i'm just curious.

18 Feb 10

is love the way to a happy marriage ?

dilipmiester @dilipmiester (932) • India 13 Feb 10

when it comes to making a decision about the life partner no one wants to make a mistake but the divorce rates going on increasing i think obviously we are getting wrong ? do you think that that marrying for love is a wrong...

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meldred ofcourse we should...marrying the one you love is not easy because it's all about giving all you have to someone else. That's why think millions times before getting married...be sure that you love the person..& you will do everything for that...

18 Feb 10

What is Love to you? What does it mean to you?

carlynganda @carlynganda (749) • Philippines 17 Feb 10

There are lots of definition of love and I want to know what you think?

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meldred love is unconditional & powerful

18 Feb 10

regrets in choices

feltkun @feltkun (23) • Indonesia 17 Feb 10

i've been wondering. sometimes in life we came across paths where we have to choose a a difficult decision. for example, we like this girl/boy, but she rejected you. then, you became friends again. we dont hope for it any longer...

regret

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meldred have patience in waiting because i know there's a good things coming at the end...God gave us intellect,will & emotion for us to choose...but we have to wait also for the right time & right guy that God assigned for us. We are not given a mind like an animal...

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Your Love letter?

AjaySinghBaghel @AjaySinghBaghel (5506) • India 10 Feb 10

Gone are the days when lovers used to write love letters, its Mobile and SMS for all. I did not get such chance to write a love letter and now I convey my feelings using Mobile or internet. Did you get a chance to write love...

love letter

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meldred You know when i was still single,my husband is not used to give me flowers,chocolates & love letters...but when we got married,He went abroad...& you know He always sent me love letters, cards, stuff toys & chocolates...it's just short caring & sweet words......

17 Feb 10

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About making love before married

BlueGhost @BlueGhost (129) • Indonesia 12 Feb 10

Hey mylotters please give your oppinion about making love before married??,, nowaday many young man in my country doing that,, they said it's to proof if you really love him/her

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meldred i don't agree making love before marriage because true love can wait

17 Feb 10

How many loves do you have?

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 17 Feb 10

I have had or do have many kinds of love... Love between man and woman A mother's love Love for friends Love for pets Love for the Earth Love for mankind Which is your favorite love and why?

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meldred all that you mentioned are the ones i love..because without them my life won't have meaning & ofcourse GOd is my first love because He is the creator of everything we had in this earth.

17 Feb 10

What to do

AcousticSoul @AcousticSoul (1309) • United States 17 Feb 10

My husband is turning 28 February 20th and I don't know what to do for him for his birthday. he told me he is ok with spending the day with just me but If feel like I can do more. We live in California and his family is all the...

birthday

party

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meldred you just wake Him up with your voice singing a birthday song when the clock's/date turns Feb.20th, bring HIm cake w/ candles for him to blow...& make a surprise party in the evening.

17 Feb 10

Do you feel confortable with your body?

joaomacp @joaomacp (67) • Portugal 17 Feb 10

I want to know how you feel with your body. Would you like to be thinner, taller, gain more muscle mass, or are you perfectly confortable with your body? Looks have a lot of importance this days, so I think everybody would like...

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meldred i want to be slim that's why i am now on diet.

17 Feb 10

can you remember the name of your first love?

usamietihsia @usamietihsia (58) 17 Feb 10

Early this morning, I have been thinking of my first crush' full name. I remember her first name is Christina but I cant seem to remember her last name! YOU? can you remember yours?

love

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meldred yeah it's God

17 Feb 10

My korean church pastor tells everyone to make an offering every sunday..

hanxyoung @hanxyoung (57) • United States 17 Feb 10

My pastor made a sermon about making offerings to churches every sunday and i felt kind of pressured when i heard this sermon. I make offerings time to time but there are times that i dont make an offering. Is it wrong to feel...

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meldred maybe its just a reminder to everyone...maybe he don't mean anything about it because offering is a personal commitment to God...you can give anything you want..it's not all about money..it's also your service, your talent & ofcourse your personal life.If its...

17 Feb 10

Would you help?

benz87333angel @benz87333angel (104) • United States 17 Feb 10

Say you were walking down the street and looked down a small side street and noticed a homeless person. You noticed that they were lying on the ground in a strange position, and started to try and yell for help. When you ran over...

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meldred maybe i'll just call for help with other people around because honestly i'm afraid with that kind of people because i don't know who they are...what if they are just pretending to...& if you will help them he will snatched your things...but in short i will...

17 Feb 10

practically speaking, can you love or forgive an enemy?

mrbrownedeye @mrbrownedeye (781) • Philippines 2 Feb 10

can you really love or forgive your enemy?

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meldred it takes time to heal the pain but i can forgive but i can't easily forget.

12 Feb 10

How old do you have to be to get married?

ANIME123 @ANIME123 (2466) • United States 11 Feb 10

What's the youngest age that somebody could get married. I really want to know this and I don't really know the answer to this question does anyone know how old you have to be to get married. Some states make it so you can't get...

getting married youngest age state ages

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meldred when you're in legal age you can already get married according to the law.And be sure you are reponsible enough to handle a family.

11 Feb 10

Breaking up with my boyfriend

Chums1822 @Chums1822 (42) • Philippines 11 Feb 10

I have a boyfriend now, we are on for almost two years but I found out that he courted other girl and they are on now for two weeks. I love him so much and I feel like I will die if he will lost to me. I love him so much and I...

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meldred If you really love him then set him free, I know that God has a purpose in your life & i know by doing that its makes you feel more comfortable & i know from time to time you can overcome on it.Just pray to God for more wisdom.

11 Feb 10

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