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MissGia @MissGia (955) • United States 20 Dec 06

At this particular moment in time i dont speak to my mom. I havent seen my mother since 2002 when my grandfather passed away. My mother has done some really screwed up stuff to me and made some really bad judgements. When i was...

forgivness

mother

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merrymapper Yes, you should forgive her. You've had a horrible childhood, but don't let bitterness ruin your whole life. Try to put all this behind you, as hard as it is.

21 Dec 06

mkup30 @mkup30 (494) • United States 20 Dec 06

She thinks I am an absolute zero and she always puts me down. She says I am pathetic b/c I don't have any kids and I am already 26. I am married though with a good job, a good career, an MBA, and my husband and I own a successful...

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merrymapper She definitely has a problem, but try not to let it be a problem for you. Sometimes people do things like that because of their own insecurities. My mother always put me down, but now that she's dead, I wish I had done more to build her up. She sacrificed a...

21 Dec 06

EpixStudios @EpixStudios (8) • United States 9 Jun 11

I have been trying to find ways to control the PCOS symptoms like acne, dandruff, and weight gain. What do you all use to help control the inevitable symptoms that you get from having PCOS?

medicine

pcos

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merrymapper I have been trying to find ways to control the PCOS symptoms like acne, dandruff, and weight gain. What do you all use to help control the inevitable symptoms that you get from having PCOS?

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MsBingoGossip @MsBingoGossip (42) • United States 20 Dec 06

This morning a semi-close friend of mine died of cancer. I want to call his wife and check on her, but what do I say. I am worried about her and I want to say the right thing, but what can you say to a woman who just lost her...

what are the best words to use

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merrymapper Go and do things, and it won't matter what you say, as long as she knows you are there for her. Ask her what she needs. Give her a big hug. It won't matter if you don't say anything.

21 Dec 06

chiquita1977 @chiquita1977 (1706) • United States 20 Dec 06

okay here is the situation im a stay at home mom with a 2 year old and 8 month old.my husband works outside of the home.when he comes home all he does is sit on his butt and do nothing he expects me to cater to him and serve him...

husbands

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merrymapper Have you talked to him about this? It's important to keep lines of communication open always. Ask to sit down and discuss it and try not to be defensive, but just let him know how you feel. Pray about it first. Prayer changes things.

21 Dec 06

cole585 @cole585 (167) • United States 8 Jun 11

i am kind of on the line for going to see the new xmen movie because it looks good but they have new people and it kind of ruins it if you ask me. But its getting good ratings so i think i will try and work around the new faces....

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merrymapper i am kind of on the line for going to see the new xmen movie because it looks good but they have new people and it kind of ruins it if you ask me. But its getting good ratings so i think i will try and work around the new faces. but if you have seen this movie...

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gz1282 @gz1282 (571) • United States 26 Oct 06

I am married and I love my husband. I have recently met this guy who is about 5 yrs. younger than me. He is so smart and I am starting to like him. I am afraid of falling in love w/him. What should I do??? HELP!!!

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merrymapper The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence. Remind yourself of why you fell in love with your husband. Dwell on all the things you love about him. Forgive him if he has done things you don't like. Spend time with him. You don't know...

20 Nov 06

Alexus @Alexus (1) • Kenya 13 Aug 06

If i had the opportunity i would get lid of poverty,violence,racism,tribalism & all the ills that face our society so it is upon us to rise up & be counted

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merrymapper What are you doing to help these issues? Are you volunteering at a homeless shelter, or a food bank? Are you doing something to be counted? It's fine to think of how the world could be different, but each one has a responsibility to do something to make the...

20 Nov 06

amiksinha @amiksinha (1960) • India 24 Aug 06

what do you think of Dog the Bounty Hunter?

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merrymapper I really like watching that show. I don't think he sets a good example in general as a Christian, but he appears to really care about helping the people he catches, and that's more than many Christians do. He is good to his wife and kids. He's helping in...

20 Nov 06

amiksinha @amiksinha (1960) • India 24 Aug 06

what do you think of Dog the Bounty Hunter?

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merrymapper I really like watching that show. I don't think he sets a good example in general as a Christian, but he appears to really care about helping the people he catches, and that's more than many Christians do. He is good to his wife and kids. He's helping in...

20 Nov 06

ez2chat @ez2chat (31) • United States 1 Sep 06

What causes people to gravitate to one or the other? Is much of it personality types? Or what?

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merrymapper I love them both, but right now I just have 2 old cats. They are really loveable, but they encourage me to cuddle up and stay in where it's warm. I need a little dog that I could walk and play fetch etc with. That would help me do more. I really love my...

20 Nov 06

merrymapper @merrymapper (25) • United States 20 Nov 06

I have 2 older cats, over 10 years old. I would like to have a small dog, and I hope I can find one soon. I have a red tabby/persian with beautiful soft fur (that is hard to clean up off the carpet). I also have a calico that is...

cats

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rainbow @rainbow (6761) 21 Aug 06

Do you think we will ever live in peace?

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merrymapper Would you have peace at any price? Would you give everything you have for it? Would you give in to the radical muslims and live the way they do, without any freedom, oppressed in every way? I prefer not to have that kind of peace. I don't like war, but the...

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huxdsz @huxdsz (33) 20 Nov 06

I open my account today,hope to make friends and practice my English here.

new member

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merrymapper Good luck to you. There seem to be a lot of things to discuss. What is your native language? Where are you from? I am from Michigan, USA. I'm fairly new, also.

20 Nov 06

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merrymapper @merrymapper (25) • United States 18 Nov 06

Has anyone out there lived in Clovis, NM? I was raised there in the fifties, but haven't lived there in years.

nm

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littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 12 Nov 06

I have been experiencing pain in my "joints" my elbows, knees, fingers..What can I do to eliminate this..Is this a sign of athritis?+

bones

pain

relief

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merrymapper If you are determined not to go to a doctor, and the pain has gradually gotten worse over time, it is probably arthritis. Many people seem to get relief from Advil or similar products. I use Biofreeze as a rub-on. I purchased it at a physical therapist, but...

18 Nov 06

pcw3004 @pcw3004 (167) • Canada 12 Nov 06

I have Spinal Stenosis and Friday it started again, The specialist said to try cortisone shots, do they help? I hear they are really painful? Anybody under 50 that has Spinal stenosis please let me know. Thanks

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merrymapper I honestly don't know about your disease, but I have had cortisone shots in all sorts of places, and they almost always give me great relief. The exception would be my shoulder, but it depends entirely on where you get injected. I finally did get shots in my...

18 Nov 06

merrymapper @merrymapper (25) • United States 18 Nov 06

What can I do when everything seems to hurt? It seems that when the weather is damp and cold, my hands swell and get stiff, and everything else just hurts. I refused to try Enbrel, but I take meloxicam. I'd like to know what...

arthritis

medication

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eddyraj @eddyraj (501) • India 18 Nov 06

i spend 10 to 30 mins

prayer

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merrymapper I don't time my prayer. I try to pray a lot, and the Bible says, "Pray without ceasing". My goal is to live my life in a prayerful way. I pray when I leave the house, and when I need to get into heavy traffic, when I need a parking space, when someone lets...

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shoreboy31 @shoreboy31 (1433) • United States 14 Nov 06

I have brought this question up to my pastor and even he did not have an answer. Every religion thinks they are right and all others are wrong, and that if you don't follow their teachings then something bad is sure to become you...

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merrymapper I know my God in my heart. I know He is real because He changed my life, and made it meaningful. He healed me of severe asthma. He comforts me by His Holy Spirit when I am sad and discouraged, and soothes my soul. I know Him because I spend time with Him,...

16 Nov 06

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