nel7575

@nel7575 (11)

Malaysia • Age 47

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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man wants?

ruzzel @ruzzel (62) • Philippines 26 Mar 07

Do u think a man wants a girl who's good in bed and have different styles?

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nel7575 That would be a plus!!!!! But, i think a man looks for a partner who is his soulmate. According to a guy friend of mine, he said by looking at a girl's face, he will know whether he wants to spend the rest of his life with this girl or not. Mostly, the...

26 Mar 07

Did you or will you tell your adopted child about their birth parents?

kbkbooks @kbkbooks (7022) • Canada 26 Mar 07

My niece knew she was adopted from a very young age. From then, she was promised that when she turned 18 she would get to meet her birth parents. She grew up with a very close relationship to her adoptive parents and siblings. Her...

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nel7575 I think an adopted child has the right to know where he/she came from at an early age. It is the responsibility of the adoptive parents to do so to avoid future misunderstandings or complications. Trust me, the child will appreciate what you did when they grow...

26 Mar 07

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In Laws or No In Laws

nel7575 @nel7575 (11) • Malaysia 26 Mar 07

If you are given two choices: stay with your in laws and never have to pay monthly expenses but have to face their nagging nature, bossy, busy bodies, etc. Or, stay on your own and have your freedom to do anything with your hubby...

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Stay at home moms

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 25 Mar 07

I am a stay at home, by choice, me and my guy decided it best for our familty. But I am starting to feel, that even if I wanted a job, it wouldnt be worth it as daycare prices are so high that if I did get a job, my guy would...

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nel7575 I'm a stay at home mom too. I would like to suggest that you look or a flexi job or a home-based job/business. By doing this, you can juggle both work and family at the same time. It would be great for your kids as you will always be around when they need you....

26 Mar 07

Are girls are harder to raise than boys?

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 25 Mar 07

In my opinion, YES!! I have 4 boys, and then I got my girl. She is 2 years old. She is wayyyy more demanding and curious than my boys were. She constantly into everything! And punishing her doesn't seem to do any good. She just...

boys easier than girls

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nel7575 Every child is different regardless whether they are girls or boys. People like to stereotype that boys are naughtier and harder to control compared to girls. In reality, girls are also the same. A child is shaped by his/her surroundings. As parents, we...

26 Mar 07

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Can anybody help me get rid of my belly after pregnancy?

dipasrisamanta @dipasrisamanta (121) • United States 22 Mar 07

I have a big bulging belly after my son was born. He is now 2 1/2 but still the belly persists.... What to do?

belly pregnancy

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nel7575 I have the same problem, a bulging belly. I have lost weight elsewhere except for my tummy. My son is already 3 years 3 months. According to my personal trainer, I have to have patience and perseverance. Toning exercises should be done after cardiovascular...

23 Mar 07

When you get old, would you go to a nursing home or stay with your children?

Rexy_leigh @Rexy_leigh (1189) • Philippines 22 Mar 07

Aging is an inevitable thing in life, and with aging comes some thoughts of who would take care of us... or will there be somebody amongst our children who would volunteer to take care of us... or should we just go to a nursing...

taking care of the old parents

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nel7575 I think I would rather spend my old days with my children and grandchildren. After all, I have been taking care of them for so many years until they are old enough to take care of themselves. Why should they dump me in a nursing home when I have sacrificed a...

23 Mar 07

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D A D or M O M -whom u the L O V E the most.....W H Y??????????????

florasaran @florasaran (126) • India 22 Mar 07

We have come down to this earth because of our parents...They shower their love upon us.For some,Dad might be very strict,for some mom may be very strict..Some our love towards mom and dad is not same.....Atleast by 0.01% our love...

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nel7575 Of course I love them both the same! Without them, I won't be here in this world... I think it's wrong to favour one from the other. Eventhough some parents did bad and unforgiving things, we should love our parents the same. Resentment towards...

22 Mar 07

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Does anyone actually love their mother in laws?

hopefoo @hopefoo (1145) • Malaysia 21 Mar 07

I've watched movies about mean mother in laws. I've had friends complaining to me about their mother in laws. My bf and I aren't married yet but I'm not getting along very well with his mom. First of, we don't speak the same...

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nel7575 My advice is you should try to be as nice as possible and avoid things that she dislikes. However, if she's still being negative about everything that you do (despite whether it's a good or a bad thing), you should just show your true self. Develop a "don't...

22 Mar 07

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which do you prefer? a LAPTOP or a desktop PC?

ryanphil01 @ryanphil01 (4182) • Philippines 21 Mar 07

Tho it is expensive i go for a LAPTOP because you can carry it anywhere you like. How about you, which of the two you like to have?

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desktop pc

laptop

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nel7575 I prefer the laptop because: 1. it is convenient and I can bring it with me anywhere I go, 2. it uses LCD screen where my eyes don't hurt like when I use the desktop PC, 3. I don't have to connect it to the plug point; unless I'm charging it, 4. it...

22 Mar 07

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