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pal7604 @pal7604 (98) • Sweden 26 Apr 09

What can I do when my sister is unable to pay a past due loan? I have loaned my sister quite a big amount of money since 2005. I need the money back because I have a long due bank loan. My credit score has been ruined due to...

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pal7604 Dear esley70, I suppose she is selfish at this point. I am so upset at this point I do not know what to write anymore. We do not live in the same country which makes it more difficult! No more loans to anyone in the future. I have learned a hard...

21 May 09

pal7604 @pal7604 (98) • Sweden 26 Apr 09

What can I do when my sister is unable to pay a past due loan? I have loaned my sister quite a big amount of money since 2005. I need the money back because I have a long due bank loan. My credit score has been ruined due to...

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pal7604 Hi ladym, Yes indeed, it is a hard call. I have tried many ways of collecting even small amounts. Unfortunately, still no luck. I am just freaking out everyday without any results. I won't go legal on this but it is so heart breaking! Thank you...

21 May 09

BlueAngelRS @BlueAngelRS (2899) • Canada 7 May 09

I will give a bit of background...Most of you already know it's been over a year since my ex husband abandoned me and the kids, well I applied for SS because I needed income he was the only one with the income when he left...It...

blueangelrs

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pal7604 Hi BlueAngelRS, Sorry to hear about your situation. It is not easy to say bah or boo to you since different situations in life is unique. We are unique ourselves. The comment from this girl did not make your situation easier either! You will meet...

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polachicago @polachicago (18716) • United States 7 May 09

OK, we are often limited by money we can or cannot spend. I ask my best friend what she would like to do and she was not able to give me any answer. I would like to stay at home and work on my art projects. What would you...

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pal7604 Hi polachicago, That is a wise question! I guess I would still donate the money to educate children. Not my own children but to the poor countries who need financial assistance. There are so many children around the world that have no opportunity to go...

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pal7604 @pal7604 (98) • Sweden 26 Apr 09

What can I do when my sister is unable to pay a past due loan? I have loaned my sister quite a big amount of money since 2005. I need the money back because I have a long due bank loan. My credit score has been ruined due to...

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pal7604 This is the sad part of it, we have any piece of paper! Well I am to blame as well because I trusted her being my sister. I do leave messages on skype, e-mails and answering machine. But no initiative from my sister's end to contact me. Thank you for...

27 Apr 09

John4Christ @John4Christ (1597) • India 26 Apr 09

I happen to listen to a preacher speak about forgiveness few days back......and he said that we should forgive everyone that has hurt us in anyway......so that your father in heaven will also forgive you for what you have done...

forgetting

forgiveness

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pal7604 This a very complex question. I always forgive and try my best to forget the persons who has hurt me. At times it comes back in my mind and I become sad remembering the past. But this does not mean that I am unable to forgive them. The scar left in my...

26 Apr 09

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 26 Apr 09

At the most difficult time, you help your friend get through his/her problems with support, finance, and everything. After he/she got through it, he/she was trying to avoid you. What would you do? Is that really something? Don't...

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pal7604 Confront your friend and ask what is going on? She might be feeling bad as you do because you feel that she is avoiding you and likewise. Talk to her and ask how she is and make her be aware of how you feel. I am sure the doors open to a good...

26 Apr 09

mysterious_boy10 @mysterious_boy10 (73) • Saudi Arabia 26 Apr 09

Im just wandering. . When will i act like a true man?im 16 y/o and acting still like a child,and my mind is not mature yet. . how can i fix my childish life?pheewww!!!! i think i should grow now and be mature. ....

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pal7604 You do not have to do anything in my opinion. As long as you are honest & trustworthy. Just be yourself because this is the real you! No need to play on a different role. You are not on screen play? You familiar with the song "Just the Way You...

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ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 26 Apr 09

One of our favorite bands from the 80's is going to be playing in concert near by. We would love to see them, but they arfe charging $200 for tickets which is rediculas. Would you pay $200 per person to see a band you really...

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pal7604 Yes, I would if I have the money. But how far will you go to see your favorite band? I love music both jazz & classical. When I have conditioned my mind to see a good concert, I'll go. I will have to settle for pasta and sallad next two months! You...

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pal7604 @pal7604 (98) • Sweden 26 Apr 09

What can I do when my sister is unable to pay a past due loan? I have loaned my sister quite a big amount of money since 2005. I need the money back because I have a long due bank loan. My credit score has been ruined due to...

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goolonga @goolonga (75) • Australia 24 Apr 09

i want to hear different people's opinions on this. i can listen to music and study/revise/do homework etc. but some of my friends say that music just distracts them while they are working. i personally think it helps me...

music

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pal7604 Oh YES! I have to have Roy & Diz ON when I prepare the employees salaries! This is a must otherwise, it takes me an hour longer to finish it. Try listening to Roy Eldridge & Dizzy Gillespie trumpet battle. If you like jazz you'll understand what I am...

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yonkie @yonkie (440) • Philippines 24 Apr 09

I have a friend who broke up with her boyfriend. They had a big fight. The very reason of that fight is forgetting their anniversary. Here's what happened. Said couple turned 1 year as boyfriend and girlfriend last month. My...

anniversary

big deal

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pal7604 It is a big deal for me, in my opinion. That is why it is called ANNIVERSARY, it is there to celebrate. With or without any presents. What is important to me is to remember it and celebrate it together. To do something special together does not have to...

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rocketsky @rocketsky (1013) • China 24 Apr 09

what is making money on the internet is your full time job ? would you spend most of your time doing it ? doing freelance jobs is always so attractive ,you dont need to be outsite and things seems so easy and life becomes so...

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pal7604 Yes, I would. If this is my bread & butter I have to do it. With the worldwide financial crises, we hav'nt got much choices, do we? If I will be working though on the internet, I will have to discipline myself on a 6 working hours a day not more. It is...

25 Apr 09

ilawise26 @ilawise26 (191) • India 24 Apr 09

Hi Mylot lovers! The revolution that is Internet...it has become a part of our daily routine! It has affected many areas of communication. Earlier people enjoyed meeting up at their homes and throwing parties! Now they have...

internet

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pal7604 Yes, I can. We've done it before why not this time? Of course the convenience of having one makes it more accessible to accomplish things. But if I have not access to the internet, I will have to get use to doing things the stone age way. I still have...

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johnpetrucci @johnpetrucci (17) • India 25 Apr 09

in this modern world do you believe in superstition

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25 Apr 09

gr8life @gr8life (6251) • Malaysia 24 Apr 09

I was stopping at the junction when the traffic light turned red. For no reasons, a driver behind honked at me. I looked at my mirror and I saw his angry face. I wasn't speeding but maybe, he was speeding and when he saw me...

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pal7604 I do agree that there a lot of ill mannered drivers out there! It is best not to provoke them more because we are just joining the same club, right? Another thing is that we will just consume our energy with their behavior. Just let them honk and let them...

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doubeldutch55 @doubeldutch55 (34) • United States 23 Apr 09

I like both I like the beach for the simple fact of the waves you can have so much fun when there are big waves coming your way back to back . I remember one summer it was when the waves were so high i mean like two and a half...

beach

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pal7604 I prefer the beach. I get allergies whenever I am using pools. I guess they put so mych chemicals and I get so irritated.

23 Apr 09

dreamcatcher9393 @dreamcatcher9393 (31) • India 23 Apr 09

What is your unique style to say Shut up to any person without making them feel bad.

shut up

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pal7604 I use the word REALLY. I say this word in a different style, depending on how soon I want the person to shut up!

23 Apr 09

mommyplus3 @mommyplus3 (6) • United States 23 Apr 09

This world is so large we come in contact with so many people on a daily basis at different place.At work, school, the grocery store, the shopping malls, activities, movies, church, group organizations and so on and on. I have...

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pal7604 The people I meet on my travels are acquaintances. I have a handful of friends that I trust and are ready to help me when needed. I value these 6 women who has helped me go through my dark years. Four of them lives abroad and I have two who lives...

23 Apr 09

fineexistence @fineexistence (574) • United States 21 Nov 07

Please share details of the country the wine is from, vintage, details of taste, amount you paid and why you think it is (or not) worth the money you paid. My personal favourite has got to be Clarendon Hills Astralis 2003 from...

wines

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pal7604 I love wine tasting and I would rather buy from the vinyard because this is the most interesting part of knowing a wine bottle. A bottle is like a person that you meet and learn to know. Just like when you make a new acquaintance that you like and...

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