Do you feel your age???

@mr_pearl (5018)
India
July 26, 2010 4:35am CST
Hi Buddies... Please don't call me childish after reading this post... I am just expressing what is going on in my mind... Ladies generally tend to hide their real age, at least that is how it happens in the area where I live. I girl of 21 will never say she is 21, unless she is forced to show her ID .. Well, I am kidding. It is not as extreme as that.. But they tend to hide... Men on the other hand are pretty careless about it and if you ask a man, 'how old are you, pal?' He will tell his real age, without even thinking for a moment... I am 27 today... And to tell you the truth, I don't even feel I am 27... I still feel as if I am a child ... No, I am not affected by any syndrome or psychological disorder.. But I just don't feel that I am getting older... I don't know why and don't want to know why... I simply feel that I am still young, that is it! Have you ever felt it this way??? Is it good??? Or am I just dreaming??? Please share... Happy Lotting!!!
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@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
26 Jul 10
Your way of thinking is awesome! I'm same age with you, but I feel like a granny, and that makes me feel depressed I think I will have to learn from you I don't feel old myself, but my age limits me for things that I would like to do and I can't.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
Hi Friend... Don't feel depressed.. .Don't take things negatively... 27 is a small age.. We still have to see a lot and learn a lot... Never think that you're too old, that is not true.. Trust me, 27 is nothing... The real fun of life has just begun for me... And I am sure it'll be the same with you... Look at it positively.... Take care and keep writing... :)
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
It is such a pleasure to be a source of inspiration... Please take things positively... And make the most of each day... :)
• Japan
26 Jul 10
Thank you, you inspire me
• China
26 Jul 10
Well,I always believe that what you think influence deeply your physical side.Mentality always go faster than physicality.You positive attitude is quite good.If you are energetic and young in your mind,then I think you will look younger than what you really are.Try to keep that attitude all the time no matter what others say.They are just jealous about your young appearance. PS Although I am a female,I don't care about my age much.I am 23.(You needn't see my ID) For me,each age period has its unique beauty and you needn't hide it.Just try to be more confident when you are getting old.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
HI Thanks for sharing... I know there are a few frank ladies like you, who don't hide their age... But hey, I am sure you'll agree that not every woman is like that, right? The way you think about life is highly admirable and great... I am sure you'll go ahead in life and no matter what is your age, you will walk with a grace of a Queen... Keep it up!!!!
• China
26 Jul 10
Thank you for your compliment.(trying imagine I am taking a bow gracefully right now) I believe I will keep that attitude no matter what happens in the future.)
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
Yes, you will!!! Keep it up!! This attitude helps us win... Good Luck!!!
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
i don't... i feel like i am still 17 and still in high school and when i get the mirror in front of my face i could say...wow...am i that old?
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
maybe that is why some of adult don't get mature the feeling of the the youth is still in there and we never realized how fast the time had pasted
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
always thinking about your aged is really stressful especially when you can't accept that your older now than what you think..for me i am not ashamed to tell my real aged and i am proud to be..but i don't think that having the aged of 30's is already old enough..it depends on you on how to handle your self..i am 31 but i am proud to say that my face is younger than my aged..
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
Hi Cherwin... It is not hard for me to accept that I am 27... That is not a problem... I don't feel my age... I act my age, maturely, I believe... But I don't feel it... You're to be congratulated as you don't look like your age... wonderful!
@Steinway (307)
• United States
27 Jul 10
I think it depends on the situation. About a week ago, I had a root canal and it has felt like it has taken me awhile to get over and to feel like I can sort of eat again. I told my neighbor that I didn't feel like I was in much pain with having a tooth extracted to having this root canal and filling put into my mouth. He told me it was because I was older, it took longer to heal. So, he sort of reminded me that I was growing older and sometimes healing don't go as quick or as smooth as it did when I was younger.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
Hi... Thanks for sharing... I have seen some teenagers having the tooth ache things... That doesn't make anyone older.. Please don't feel it that way... Taek care...
• Singapore
26 Jul 10
I'm a 34 year old female and doesn't mind telling people my age, still. lol I still feel pretty young, actually not much of a difference from when I was in my twenties though I do not feel like going out late at nights now. I have different thinking at different stages of my life and I am grateful for all my past years' experiences, be they good or bad, I realized I can learn to live with it and become wiser.
• China
26 Jul 10
Well,attitude is a key for almost everything.Bless you good luck. Getting old delicately and confidently is also charming.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
Hi Blue Moon, Thanks for sharing... I agree with you.. And I feel the same way too.. I feel young but yes, I do act as per my age... Smallsaozhou.. You have put it is short and very well put too.. Wonderful Statement: Getting Old delicately and confidently is charming.. Great... Thanks!!!
• Singapore
27 Jul 10
I would like to do that...grow old in a graceful and confident manner... Thanks for sharing...
• United States
26 Jul 10
Happy Birthday!! Have a great day! Today is Your Day! I don't think about my age. The last time I looked forwatd to reaching an age was 21. After that I never really think about it. I must be more like a guy. If a person asks my age I first have to figure it out and then I'll tell them. I Never acted my age. When I was a little girl my mom said I knew things a little girl wouldn't so I acted older than I was. It seemed every time I about to be the age to stay in the pool or other things the rules had changed. So when my mom said I was too young for something, I just assumed I would Never get old enough to do anything. So when I reached 21, I stopped thinking of my age, and in that way I feel I Now act younger than what I really am. I feel like I reached 16 and stopped. The saying is I may grow old but I will Never grow up!
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
Hi Sarah.. Thanks for your wonderful reply... Your response has set me thinking about my own young age and the times, when my parents discovered that I knew something that I shouldn't have known at that age... LOL... e.g. I had asked boldly about LOVE to my father when I was only 7 (in Indian families this is a too BOLD thing for a kid to do!). Now, I am 27... I don't feel as if I am 27... but I act my age, many times, though not all times... LOL... I like being childish sometimes... ;)
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
26 Jul 10
Hi, I feel that a person's age is his/her own business and if someone fels like hiding , again it is upto them.I feel that age is something that is time related and what you feel inside yourself is something else altogether.I have seen a person who is 20+ years old having the mentality and ideas that are ancient and not at all as one would expect , whereas there are some at 70+ who come across as dynamic and forward thinking. so what is really important is the persona and how you carry yourself rather than your physical age..
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
Hi Kiran... Thanks for sharing... I agree with you... It is totally up to how one thinks... Wonderful post... Have fun!
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
27 Jul 10
I rarely ever feel my age but I really can't say why. Perhaps its the way that people like us view things. For years I've been seeing and hearing things about how to "look and feel younger" so maybe this isn't a common thing. If that's true I guess we are just the lucky ones.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
Hi Kitty... I think it is good not to feel one's age... Or let us say, it is better not to feel older... It is better to feel younger, which psychologically provides a lot of energy and keeps us happy... :) Thank for sharing...
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
26 Jul 10
WELL, TA ! DA! HAPPY BIRTHDAY !! I bet you don't feel your age at 27.........that is not old enough to be out of diapers LOL I don't feel my age of 61 either and soon to be 62. I still think I'm 30 but sure don't look it LOL, I like being older cuz I get more respect........sounds like Rodney Dangerfield LOL but, you have a great day, hugs, quita
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
Hi Quita... You are always so funny... :) Well, I am out of diapers for long... But still feel as a school boy... The good old days, feels as if it happened yesterday... Don't feel like I am 27... I act as if I am 35... But feel young... What s worng with me??? How are you? Sent you an e mail about the new site... Plz take a look... I am not well for 2 days...
• Brazil
26 Jul 10
I also don't feel my age haha Well I don't see the problem with feeling young...i think it's a very positive thing.Like people say age is nothing a but a number so you probably are a fun, spontanious person to be around.I'm 18 but i don't really feel like it.Mabe its because when I was younger I thought that things would be different and that my life would be at this point.Another good thing is that i look younger haha!!!!
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
Hi Jessica... Thanks for sharing... You have written a truth that I have experienced too.. I had imagined that things would be different when I grew up... But I did't find any change, or maybe, I didn't notice. I still don't feel I am 27... LOL... Things are the same....
27 Jul 10
I'm 20 but I don't feel that old. It's like I'm aging but not maturing LOL. I also feel like lying when someone asks my age, but in a joking manner. Maybe maturity is a factor or whatever..
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
I think it is good for the younger ones to not to feel the age... It is kind of an energizing factor... So keep it up... But do it as the others do... Even if you don't feel your age (which is good), please do act your age... :) take care... :)
@m_perez (506)
• United States
26 Jul 10
Nope I don't feel my age. I'm 17 and it feels like i'm 15; I even look like a 15 year old. I really don't feel like i'm growing up at all and I kinda like the feeling. But I would never lie about my age even when i'm 48 and someone asks me. I hope I feel young when i'm 50 or something..well i'm pretty sure I will. :D I think it's good that you feel young because then you feel happier.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
Hi Kid... With this kind of mind set you will never feel like you are getting old, trust me... Keep it up... Thank you for sharing...
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
No, same as mr_pearl(772). But it is otherwise as I feel older than my real age. I am 18 now but aged with a lot of responsibilities that I have now. I am a working student-- working not just for myself but for my entire family. A good son? Not really. ^^
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
29 Jul 10
HI Friend... Keep up the good work!!! Working Students have always earned respect... Keep up the good work and you'll be a great guy soon... Good luck!
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
26 Jul 10
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@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
Hi Diana.. Thanks for sharing... It is great to read from you after such a long time... The way you feel is pretty mysterious for me... ;) but I am glad that you're happy with it... I'd like to feel the same way too... :)
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
26 Jul 10
i am in my 40's but i feel like i am much older due lot of pain. but i dont act my age too much, i act younger
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
Hi Syankee.. That is how most of us are... We act our age... But we feel that we still are younger... Wonder, is it really a common feeling???
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
You're not the only one Mr. Pearl... I am 25 but I honestly stopped feeling like I was getting any older when I reached 20. In my mind, I will always be 20, and I just can't fathom the fact that I am 25. I am not ashamed of my age, I will tell it to you honestly if you ask me, but it's really just a number. I had this talk with my siblings, and we were all feeling the same thing. We all stopped counting when we reached 20, so in our eyes, we are all forever young. Hehehe.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
HI ... Thanks for sharing... I too feel the same way, sometimes... Stuck at one age.. Before an year, my mind was still dwelling in school and college days.. 1999 seemed to be a recent time.. I act my age, but sometimes, feel very childish... :) It is great feeling, right?
• Thailand
26 Jul 10
im just 17 and i do feel my age. I do whatever i want whenever i want to do it, and i dont know why anyone should be ashamed of telling there age. Wherever i go even though i know im probably the oldest i still say how old i am because its something im always proud of!
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
HI... It is great to read from you... I know 17 is an age of energy and enthusiasm... The desire to do something new, Something better is there... It is the most wonderful age... Make the most of it!!! Thanks for sharing...
• Romania
26 Jul 10
I feel my age...sometime i think i am older than my age....when someone ask me about me age i sait it ....
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
Hi Christiana... Thanks for sharing... You don't look much older to me. And you sound pretty innocent too, to tell your age to anyone... Take care.. Have fun!!!
@juryse (752)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
No I don't feel my age. But I act my age. =) Does that make sense? I'm 33 but I don't feel like I'm 33. I feel as if I'm on my 20's. I guess who you surround yourself with makes a difference too. I work with younger individuals so I feel as I'm young too. But as I've said I don't act young. I act appropriately for my age. I don't see anything wrong with not feeling your age. It just means that you have a carefree attitude.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
26 Jul 10
Hi Juryse... Thanks for sharing... I think, I feel the same way as you do, but I failed to express it.. Yes, I know I am 27... And I act as a 27 years man... But many times, I am simply childish and enjoying like a child... Thank you for defining the concept... Have fun!!