A Nice Change
@SIMPLYD (90717)
Philippines
December 7, 2015 9:44pm CST
In my post below , i talked about my husband to go ahead of me in reporting to work because he gets impatient waiting for me to dress up.
Thus , the week that followed had him going to work ahead of me by 15 minutes each morning .
However , this week I noticed he was waiting for me again and we would again go together to work .
Usually , we would just leave the dishes we used for breakfast in a basin filled with water by the sink , for me to wash it in the evening .
But now , while he waits for me , he washes the used dishes we used for breakfast . 
Well, I feel happy by this nice change in him . Though , I don’t vocally tell him , lest he will again revert back to just leaving them in the sink . 
Well, I feel happy by this nice change in him . Though , I don’t vocally tell him , lest he will again revert back to just leaving them in the sink . 
This morning , my husband was rushing me as usual , since we go to work together . It was just 7:00 in the morning and usually we go at about 7:20, yet...
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@birjudanak (14316)
• India
8 Dec 15
your husband is very nice who help you in house work,if he like to do then let them to do and if you both together then more love increase between you and also both enjoy.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
10 Dec 15
@birjudanak Yes, that's why i am so happy .
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@birjudanak (14316)
• India
8 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD hum but it still look nice because in this kind of situation though they angry but help because they not see their love do lots work.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
8 Dec 15
aww so sweet of him to do the dishes..yes keep it quiet and reward him in other ways for being nice
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
10 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD we need more men like him!!
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
8 Dec 15
If couples are working and they have time constraints, it is always wiser to make use of available time either in the morning or evening. Your hubby is smart now, he does not waste time but instead wash the dishes till you get ready.
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
11 Dec 15
@SIMPLYD - Yes, when you are tired after working entire day, when you reach home you do not want to see soiled dishes in the sink.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
11 Dec 15
@dpk262006 That is true . You want to arrive in a clean atmosphere .
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
10 Dec 15
Yes , I thought of that , but silently , for me to know of only.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
8 Dec 15
I did tell you he is a loving and caring husband.
He wanted to go earlier only to check out that the roads were good, jeepneys were on road and all was functioning good. If not, he could always give you a call and let you know about the state.
Okay, here is the silly me again with my detective brain -
Now, I think you have given him his XMas present (the wristwatch) or if not, he might be trying out his new tactics to lure you.... 
He wanted to go earlier only to check out that the roads were good, jeepneys were on road and all was functioning good. If not, he could always give you a call and let you know about the state.
Okay, here is the silly me again with my detective brain -
Now, I think you have given him his XMas present (the wristwatch) or if not, he might be trying out his new tactics to lure you....
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@changjiangzhibin89 (17242)
• China
10 Dec 15
I have something that has to catch up on ,because It sounds like your husband now goes along with you to work .It is nice of your husband to do what you used to do now .
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@slund2041 (3314)
• United States
8 Dec 15
It my opinion you should tell him how much you appreciate him washing the dishes. If you do not say anything, then he will think it is going unnoticed. Your husband needs to know when he is doing a good thing. It will make him feel a bit appreciated for his hard work.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
10 Dec 15
I realized that too . So , yesterday i was the one who gave the blowout for my birthday . We had dinner in a restaurant of his choice last night .
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
10 Dec 15
Thank you . It was a happy day for me indeed yesterday . I have a lot of catching ups to do today .
@garymarsh6 (24025)
• United Kingdom
8 Dec 15
I think you should say thank you to him. He is after all waiting patiently for you. What a nice man!
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
10 Dec 15
I actually did already yesterday when i treated him for a dinner on my birthday .
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
8 Dec 15
then maybe, just maybe, you can delay whatever activities you are doing so he washes the dishes while waiting for you? Hmm! Evil me...
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
10 Dec 15
Oh no , i won't do that , because for sure he will get mad and just leave those dishes in the basin again everyday when we go to work . 
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Dec 15
i think you should say thank you. or he may think you are unappreciative
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
8 Dec 15
Tomorrow , i will tell him that when i treat him for dinner since it's my birthday . I will be treating not him as my appreciation for that but i will also tell him about it .
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
8 Dec 15
Yes, i hope he sticks on this . But actually this only happens when my in-laws are not home . Because if they are it's my mother-in-law who does it after we are gone .
