One Sad Day

@Marcyaz (35316)

United States

February 1, 2016 10:10am CST

This is a sad day for me (in fact it is a sad month) because this is the anniversary of the passing of my dear sister in-law in 2011. We used to do a lot of things together and she was a person I could always count on and she always knew she could count on me also. She was 84 when she passed and had been in a nursing home from a stroke she had. I remember the last Holiday we had with her was on Thanksgiving in the nursing home and she couldn't cut her meat so I cut everything for her. She was very grateful for my help, I still miss her and think of her often. She was a good person with lots of friends.

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@LadyDuck (502653)

• Italy

1 Feb 16

I am very sorry, people said that with the time it gets better, but it's not true.

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased

@Hatley (163772)

• Garden Grove, California

1 Feb 16

yu are so right and another thing that irked me they will s ay but hes better off now o kay hes not your husband I think as hey say that to me. I sitll miss m y hubby afer all these years.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@LadyDuck Thank you, no the hurt eases after a while but never gets better.

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@vandana7 (102698)

• India

1 Feb 16

@Hatley ..that is insensitive..

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@celticeagle (189927)

• Boise, Idaho

1 Feb 16

It is always sad and when they are nice it makes it even sadder I think. Glad you have nice memories of her.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@celticeagle I do have fond memories of her and think of her often.

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@celticeagle (189927)

• Boise, Idaho

2 Feb 16

@Marcyaz ...That is nice.

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@irishidid (8687)

• United States

1 Feb 16

I lost my oldest sister in 2013. I still think about her a lot.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@irishidid Sorry for the loss of your sister you will never forget about her and will think about her often.

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@vandana7 (102698)

• India

1 Feb 16

That is not so long ago...so sorry..

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased

@Hatley (163772)

• Garden Grove, California

1 Feb 16

those are the peo ple we miss the most I have been widowed for a long time but still miss my hub b y; the loss alwa ys hurts even a bit after long years.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@Hatley I am also widowed and still miss my hubby the loss never goes away.

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Patsie Hatley is Deceased

@Hatley (163772)

• Garden Grove, California

2 Feb 16

@Marcyaz no it sur e does not and i of ten think oh Garlandr wotu l love this then rememb r he is not here but it does not hur as m uch now

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@TiarasOceanView (70020)

• United States

1 Feb 16

I am sorry for the loss of your dear sister in law Marcy. It is nice that you were so close to her. Was she in Oklahoma?

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@TiarasOceanView Thank you, yes we were very close and lived within a few miles of each other in Oklahoma.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

2 Feb 16

@TiarasOceanView We were friends from the first time we met, we just felt connected.

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@TiarasOceanView (70020)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@Marcyaz Nice that you had each other Marcy. It is good to get along with in laws.

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@Missmwngi (12915)

• Nairobi, Kenya

1 Feb 16

Don't be sad but choose to celebrate her life and i am sure she will smile back on your

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@Missmwngi Thank you i do celebrate her life by remembering the good times we had.

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@kaka135 (14994)

• Malaysia

1 Feb 16

Sorry for your loss. It's so sad to lose a family or someone you are very closed to. She'll always live in your heart or memory.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@kaka135 Thank You She does stay in my heart and my memory.

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@vandana7 (102698)

• India

1 Feb 16

Nice of you to remember her even after she is no more. She must have been a very good person for you to be thinking of her. Hugs.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@vandana7 She was a very good person and we always had fun going out and about, hugs back.

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@SIMPLYD (90717)

• Philippines

2 Feb 16

She is in a nice place now . Though , we can't help miss someone specially when we know that it's the day when that love one passed away .

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

2 Feb 16

@SIMPLYD I do miss her and think of her often.

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@SIMPLYD (90717)

• Philippines

3 Feb 16

@Marcyaz That's understandable , my dear.

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@louievill (28846)

• Philippines

1 Feb 16

It's very hard to forget a good person.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@louievill It is hard to forget a good person who you have known.

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@DanieGirl80587 (2724)

• United States

2 Feb 16

I'm sorry to hear about this. My condolences. I'm sure you 2 were very close and I am sure she is grateful for everything you did for her while she was alive. Just always remember the fond memories.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

2 Feb 16

DanieGirl80587 Thank You yes we were very close and I have fond memories of us and the places and things we did together.

@jillybean1222 (6406)

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1 Feb 16

certain losses never get easier

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@jillybean1222 You are right certain losses never get easier.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Feb 16

I am so sorry for your loss. It is so good of you to remember her and keep the good memories alive.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

1 Feb 16

@DianneN Thank you she was a wonderful lady and I have good memories of us together doing things.

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@Daljinder (23193)

• Bangalore, India

2 Feb 16

Such people are missed a lot...They always leave us feeling or wishing that we had just one more moment, one more word, one more glimpse of them..... Sorry for your loss

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

2 Feb 16

@Dajinder Thank You she is missed and often in my memories.

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@GardenGerty (169505)

• United States

3 Feb 16

You and your sister in law blessed each other by being involved in one another's life. I know you miss her, but this is also a sign that you are a genuine person with all kinds of feelings and needs. Hugs to you friend and my you find another friend to also bless you.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

3 Feb 16

@GardenGerty Thank you so much for your kind words.

@jaboUK (64346)

• United Kingdom

2 Feb 16

At least you have good memories of her, and she would have known how much you cared.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

2 Feb 16

@jaboUK She did know how much I cared for her and I do have good memories.

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@Tampa_girl7 (54718)

• United States

2 Feb 16

So sorry for your loss. Try to remember your happy memories of her.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

2 Feb 16

@Tampa_girl7 Thank You, I have some wonderful memories of her.

@gudheart (12659)

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2 Feb 16

So sorry for you loss :( As long as you can relieve those memories whenever you want, but the pain does not go away.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

2 Feb 16

@gudheart Thank you no the pain never goes away but the happy times remain.

@KristenH (33591)

• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio

2 Feb 16

My condolences for the loss of your sister-in-law. Cherish the memories you've had with her.

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@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

2 Feb 16

@KristenH Thank You yes I do cherish the memories of our times together.

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@KristenH (33591)

• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio

2 Feb 16

@Marcyaz You're welcome.

@Deepizzaguy (122256)

• Lake Charles, Louisiana

2 Feb 16

The good news is that you will see your loved ones in the next lifetime according to a book that was written by the late Garner Ted Armstrong called "Believe It Or Not The Bible Does Not Promise Heaven."

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