Should I Feel Guilty?

@kamel622 (310)

United States

March 1, 2016 1:46pm CST

The other day we were at 50 F (10 C) and this morning I woke up to 14 F (-10 C) and it was snowing. It snowed all morning, not the big pretty flakes but little tiny flakes that came down at varying speeds all morning long. Well, now my husband is out there shoveling and I'm sitting here on the bed and reading and writing. Should I feel guilty that he is shoveling and I'm not helping? I don't think he is upset about it but somehow when someone else is working I think I should be too. I do a lot of chores around the house that he doesn't and that doesn't bother me, so I guess I'll get off the guilt train and continue reading. ...make it a great day!

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@MALUSE (69413)

• Germany

1 Mar 16

Could you please add the temperature in Celsius as well for the majority of the members who don't understand Fahrenheit?

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@kamel622 (310)

• United States

1 Mar 16

I'll see if I can find a chart and edit the post....I don't know Celcius so that is why I haven't included it.

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Michael Liriano

@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)

• West Haven, Connecticut

1 Mar 16

I would be a bit upset, make him some hot chocholat when he gets back in lol

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@kamel622 (310)

• United States

1 Mar 16

He wasn't bothered by it all.

Peter B. Giblett

@pgiblett (6524)

• Canada

1 Mar 16

I am sure he would like a hand clearing the driveway, why don't you go out and help?

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@kamel622 (310)

• United States

1 Mar 16

I read the post and comments to him when he came back in....He said "it's my job" Love it!!!

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Peter B. Giblett

@pgiblett (6524)

• Canada

2 Mar 16

@kamel622 I hope we have no snow tonight.

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@TiarasOceanView (70035)

• United States

1 Mar 16

He likes you to not have to be out there shovelling Kathy I am sure that is why he does it. Oh dear snow again?

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@kamel622 (310)

• United States

1 Mar 16

Thankfully he feels it is his job. :)

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@TiarasOceanView (70035)

• United States

1 Mar 16

@kamel622 He is a good man.

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@marlina (154166)

• Canada

2 Mar 16

Off the guilt train, I hope?

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@kamel622 (310)

• United States

2 Mar 16

Oh yes...lol probably until it snows again.

@paigea (35713)

• Canada

3 Mar 16

If you each do your share, no reason to feel guilty if your break just happens to be when he is working!

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@kamel622 (310)

• United States

3 Mar 16

Very true! Thank you :)

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@celticeagle (159200)

• Boise, Idaho

4 Mar 16

Well, let me put it this way-- shoveling snow does burn a lot of calories. LOL

@allknowing (130064)

• India

2 Mar 16

You must be having an unspoken understanding in these matters It is your good nature that you got this guilty feeling.

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@LadyDuck (458458)

• Switzerland

2 Mar 16

It was very cold in your area. We had a very mild winter and I hope that the worst is over.

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@AbbyGreenhill (45496)

• United States

1 Mar 16

Men should shovel!

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@jaboUK (64361)

• United Kingdom

1 Mar 16

That's the attitude - enjoy it!

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@Marilynda1225 (79804)

• United States

1 Mar 16

Don't feel guilty!! shoveling should be a mans job

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@kamel622 (310)

• United States

1 Mar 16

I guess he agrees!! He said it is his job. :)

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