Why is myLot so unfair???

By JJ
@JolietJake (50190)
August 27, 2016 3:54pm CST
"They deleted my discussion and didn't even tell me! Or tell me why! Or ANYTHING! I know I said I read the Terms when I joined, but who reads those? myLot is a bunch of doo-doo dinky-dum heads for not telling me!!! " They DID tell you...and you said you read it. "myLot Discussions *myLot Discussions. myLot Discussions provides a venue for myLot members to start and respond to discussions, questions, articles and more in a forum type setting. myLot has no control over the quality or legality of any content posted on myLot, and therefore is not responsible for the actions of any myLot member. myLot reserves the right to delete any discussion, response, comment, or photo that goes against any myLot guideline or term. We also reserve the right to delete any discussion, response, comment, or photo without notification to any myLot member."
(last updated August 21, 2015) If you wish to become a Member, you must read this Agreement and indicate your acceptance during the Registration process. This Terms of Use Agreement ("Agreement") sets forth the legally binding terms for your use of the myL
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@Mike197602 (15511)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 16
I do think they need to rewrite the guidelines, make them more black and white, and call them rules.
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@vandana7 (101988)
• India
28 Aug 16
What is wrong with colored ones..
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@Mike197602 (15511)
• United Kingdom
28 Aug 16
@vandana7 people are often not understanding the coloured ones
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@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
27 Aug 16
Which one did they delete? Oh..I see.
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@jstory07 (144693)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Aug 16
Maybe they figured you know why or you can guess why. sorry they deleted it. Scar will cheer you up.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
27 Aug 16
did you lose another one, or is this about someone else crying on? lol
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@JolietJake (50190)
27 Aug 16
I expect mine to vanish occasionally
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• Centralia, Missouri
29 Aug 16
@JolietJake some of yours are edgy lol.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
27 Aug 16
History tells the story from the point of view of the victor..
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
28 Aug 16
Now I'm wondering what on earth you wrote about that they decided had to go? I can't even imagine...
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@JolietJake (50190)
28 Aug 16
Wasn't me...I know I'll lose one occasionally.
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@glenniah (1197)
• Mandurah, Australia
28 Aug 16
That's just rude. I want to read the one they deleted, hehe
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@celticeagle (176081)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Aug 16
Notification would be nice but could be time consuming.
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@celticeagle (176081)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Aug 16
@JolietJake .....I am sure that every system is different just like everything else.
@JolietJake (50190)
28 Aug 16
They had an automated system on the old old version, but I don't know if they'll ever get one here or not.
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@toniganzon (72544)
• Philippines
28 Aug 16
People find it hard to accept they have violated the rules, somehow.
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@STOUTjodee (3635)
• United States
28 Aug 16
Them dang "new" newbies!! I saw one the other day that was more or less the title!!
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• United States
28 Aug 16
You can lead a horse to water.....but you can't make him read the guidelines.
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• United States
28 Aug 16
@JolietJake I think reading and comprehending are different - they might read but not get it.
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@JolietJake (50190)
28 Aug 16
@AbbyGreenhill Yeah, but you'd think 'English only' would be fairly easy to understand
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@JolietJake (50190)
28 Aug 16
Amen. You can even leave a link, and they'll say 'I read them' and then still just do whatever.
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@JudyEv (356586)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Aug 16
Would I be tempting fate to say I haven't had one deleted yet?
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@JudyEv (356586)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Aug 16
@JolietJake I know they've deleted your from time to time but that's what happens if and when you continually push the envelope. Do you think you might learn from your 'mistakes' eventually?
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@JolietJake (50190)
28 Aug 16
@JudyEv It's been 10 years so far...I don't feel any different Besides, someone has to keep Alex & Co on their toes
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@JolietJake (50190)
28 Aug 16
Probably not. It's not as though they run around deleting them for no reason, although they could if they wanted to. I had a disagreement with staff a few weeks ago about one...but I kept it within a PM exchange, and didn't turn around and do the exact same thing, or complain in a discussion about it...but then again I am more or less accustomed to losing them occasionally. Sometimes I s-t-r-e-t-c-h the boundaries a bit too far and they snap back on me.
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@thelme55 (77707)
• Germany
28 Aug 16
What discussion was deleted? Why?
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@JolietJake (50190)
28 Aug 16
Someone posting in Hindi...and then posted another in Hindi complaining about it
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@thelme55 (77707)
• Germany
28 Aug 16
@JolietJake so it was not your fault . You have not broken the rules.
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• Mumbai, India
28 Aug 16
can you check with mylot team.how thy will recover your messages and post.
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@JolietJake (50190)
28 Aug 16
You can, and on few occasions, you may even get it back, but not if it is a guideline violation.
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• Mumbai, India
28 Aug 16
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@kaka135 (14970)
• Malaysia
28 Aug 16
I find mylot is quite lenient on this. They do not give us warning or ban us, but just help us to delete our dtscussions if they are against the rule.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Aug 16
wow JJ you are really cooking and telling it as it is.One person who complained about having discussions deleted claimed she knew the guide lines so it was a glitch' but noticed she had one other discussion that also had broken several rules. so much for glitches.
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@KristenH (33538)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
27 Aug 16
Did you contact Alex or Bugs? What was the post about?
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@miniam (9151)
• Bern, Switzerland
28 Aug 16
Some discussions do not even have to break TOS,when my discussion got deleted here once,it was more or less for 4 words. Got some advice to re-write but l was just not interested.
• Jacksonville, Florida
28 Aug 16
They deleted one of mine, and never told me, before they did it. If a post causes more harm than good; makes fun of someone; or if it is done for the "sole" purpose of getting $$$, but does not really promote a good conversation, other than just commenting to be commenting, then they will delete it. Or if it is a "one liner" that does not promote a good healthy conversation, they will delete it. It is one thing to be silly once. But if that is all you post just to get $$$, they will sometimes delete some of them, as well. You are developing a reputation of starting posts that "cry wolf" all the time, and that can get old to some people. All I know is... I have been told that if you really want to know why, just get a hold of Alex, and he will tell you.
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@JolietJake (50190)
28 Aug 16
Alex is not the only person that deletes posts, however, and sometimes he doesn't know anything about it.
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@toaitity (33)
• Aberdeen, South Dakota
28 Aug 16
I'm so sad that Tsu.co shut down. It was a site very similar to this but more dank.
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@JolietJake (50190)
29 Aug 16
Disagreeably damp, musty, and typically cold?