~Becoming The Bread Winner~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85125)
Valdosta, Georgia
September 5, 2016 8:39am CST
I am not saying anything major is wrong-I am not a doctor so I don't know. But I am getting myself prepared in case the results come back and it's bad. If it's something where my husband cannot work anymore I have decided to go back to school.
The results are taking so long because it's going from the ER doctor to his regular doctor. We are just left waiting until his primary doctor gets the results. And now with more tests soon it will be more waiting games...
I hate school-I have all my life. (I know that sounds weird since I Home School, Lol). It's not the learning I didn't like-it's the test taking I have always had an issue with. Plus I am terrible at math! Thank God my kids learn that online because I am not strong in that area...
I am just hoping I can handle being a mom, wife, home school teacher, childcare provider and a student! Anyone think I can do this?? 
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@vandana7 (99385)
• India
6 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies ...When will the report be in...
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@vandana Thank you. I hope so too.
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@JudyEv I am hoping the same thing. Thank you for the prayers and hugs. =)
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
6 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies The waiting and unknown are always the worst thing when you are the one doing the waiting. I have been there many times as my husband has had 6 heart attacks, a stoke and more than six knee surgeries. You can see I have spent many times in the hospitals and they are always nerve wracking.
A little faith and prayers can work wonders. Bless you. You are in my prayers.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
5 Sep 16
like other mylotters, i'm hoping it's not major, too. i didn't love but didn't hate school, either. was just an average student. is math the only subject they learn online, then you teach them the rest? what are you going to study when you go back to school?
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@hereandthere Yeah, math is the only subject they do online. The rest is me teaching them. I won't teach them something I'm not good in, I don't want to hinder them in any way.
I am not sure yet. I know I want to work with children. Thinking about psychology, we will see.
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@hereandthere Nope, you can have tutors, co-op groups, online classes, etc...
I don't want to teach common core and that is required so I wouldn't want to teach at a public school.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
5 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies because i thought homeschooling meant you have to do it all yourself, so i'm glad there's an online option, too. how about early childhood education?
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
5 Sep 16
I think you will have to prioritize and you must accept that you are not super-woman and not set unrealistic goals for yourself. But I think at the moment, prayer and mental preparation are what is called for and then you can decide. School may not be the answer at all unless you are looking to be a nurse where there is pretty much a guarantee of a job.
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@BelleStarr Yeah, it's going to be tough and I am hoping everything will come back fine. If not though I will have to deal with going back to school.
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
5 Sep 16
Sure you can do anything I think. But don't borrow trouble, you don't know yet right? Wishing you good news
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@CinnamonGrl Nope, just getting prepared in case. Still keeping faith its nothing too serious. Thank you!
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
5 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies I don't think you'd have time to still home school though, that was my thought. There are only so many hours in a day. You may need a helper - depending on what is going on with your hubby's health.
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@CinnamonGrl The good thing is Home Schooling is flexible-doesn't matter what time of day you do it as long as your teaching and their learning. After work each day is fine.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
5 Sep 16
yes you can do it.it's hard to be a mom because you are the teacher of your children,a nanny of your kid and you are also a student because you have to adjust of everything for them
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@ilocosboy Thanks, I hope so. I teach my children and I babysit for other children-plus I am a wife as well. It will be an adjustment that is true.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
5 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies you are just like my wife we have 5 kids and they are all studying and she is baby sitting without pay, she just want the little baby girl because her mother is studying,all mothers had a hard job in this world and i know you can do it
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@ilocosboy Our 5th baby is on the way. Your wife and I do sound a lot alike. =)
@piya84 (2581)
• India
6 Sep 16
I am in same boat as you for different reason.
I am have decided to join classes as well.
I never though i will be ending in this position.
But well destiny has something else in mind looks like.
Just like you i hate going to school
@Juliaacv (49014)
• Canada
5 Sep 16
Of course you can do that.
Wait until you get the news and make sure that your husband and the kids are on board, you'll need everyone's co-operation on this one.
I don't suppose it would do any harm to research the job market so that you can take courses to fit you in there.
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@Juliaacv Thank you. I will need help from all angles if it turns out that way. I have been researching a lot lately to help with my decision.
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@shshiju Thank you, I'm trying not to worry.
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@paigea (36061)
• Canada
6 Sep 16
Yes you can. And your husband will still do a share even if it is less than now.
I aoways preferred tests to assignments. They were done by a set time. It was my chance to get everything I'd learned out onto the paper. Assignments are so time comsuming and can be tweaked over and over. Lol
I hope the tests show it isn't too serious.
@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@Shiva49 That is true. Thank you for the prayers. =)
@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@NJChicaa Thanks for having faith in me! I am worried...
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@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
8 Sep 16
You're a strong woman. I'm sure you can make it! 
Good luck on your journey. Surely, you children are going to be so proud of you. They're so lucky that they have you. 
Good luck on your journey. Surely, you children are going to be so proud of you. They're so lucky that they have you. 
@celticeagle (161402)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Sep 16
I know you can do this. You are strong. Anything it takes for your family I know you will do.I hope that you get good news from the doctor.
@PurnaSharma (2561)
• Guwahati, India
6 Sep 16
I know you can do all and this waiting make you worrying but be positive,your husband do not have any disease.
@cacay1 (83236)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Sep 16
You can make it, and just pray your husband has no bad sickness, just a virus.
@ValueAdder (409)
• Philippines
6 Sep 16
It may be difficult, but I know it's not impossible. It took me a long time reading and coming up with words that, hopefully, can add value to you as you embark on a mission. Why not considering starting a network marketing business? Search for a sponsor who can help you as you start small. Kathy Denison is a great single mom for her two kids. She started small with her sponsor named Mark Yarnell, until she went on to become a millionaire and an international figure in the network marketing business. At least, you will own your time to take care of the kids and your husband. The learning curve is not too long.
@seerat_11 (90)
• Amritsar, India
6 Sep 16
Of course you can! Just believe in yourself. Don't underestimate your potential. You are strong and will always stay strong. Best wishes
