what was the best advice that you got when married

@amadeo (111948)
United States
December 14, 2016 11:21am CST
Good afternoon.Yes,what was the best advice. When I got married no one gave me any advice. Too bad that someone did not mentioned to me not to get married is the best advice I can give you not But for some the younger crowd here what was your best advice?
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• United States
14 Dec 16
the best advice I got from my father was "don't do this he's the wrong guy for you". I didn't listen but years later it ended in divorce. My advice to anyone getting married now is make sure you really know the person you are marrying and remember you can't change anyone..they are who they are
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@jstory07 (135042)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Dec 16
@Marilynda1225 people never do change.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@Marilynda1225 How long were you married then?
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@LadyDuck (460346)
• Switzerland
14 Dec 16
All my family told me that I was too young, not to marry and wait. The best thing I did was not to listen. I am married from 45 years and would do this again.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@LadyDuck good fro you.
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@marguicha (216330)
• Chile
14 Dec 16
When I was about to get married, my weeding dress half on, my mother came to me and said she wanted to tell me something very important. I freaked out! I thought the lady would talk to me about the bees and the pollen But she said that no matter if I did not have as much money as a friend, I should invite them back when I had been invited. I have done that all my life and I have wonderful friends. And money is no object.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@marguicha good for you there.
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@marguicha (216330)
• Chile
15 Dec 16
@amadeo Good for my mom.
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
An advice that I got was "never go to bed angry".
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@jstory07 (135042)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Dec 16
@marlina that is good advice.
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
15 Dec 16
@amadeo If we did go to bed angry, neither of us would have a good night sleep for sure.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@marlina and yes we hear this quite often.And if you did what would happen?lol
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• United States
14 Dec 16
What my mother told me I can't repeat...LOL But for young people - don't rush into marriage...be sure you are ready for a lifetime commitment.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@AbbyGreenhill. No!she did not say that Abby.Bad girl.lol
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@teamfreak16 (43419)
• Denver, Colorado
14 Dec 16
I've never been married, believe it or not.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@teamfreak16 that was the best advice to your self.A bachelor.How about that.
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@teamfreak16 (43419)
• Denver, Colorado
15 Dec 16
@amadeo - I've been in several long term relationships, I've been with my girlfriend almost six years, but I've never married any of them.
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@jstory07 (135042)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Dec 16
My Dad told me to learn to do everything because when something goes wrong you will be home alone. And that was so true.
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@Juliaacv (48620)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
I was raised in a very strict family that did not believe in divorce, and if that came my way, it was well known that they wouldn't allow me to be a part of the family anymore. Nobody really gave us any advise, we just have always held tight to each other over the years and laughed and cried together.
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@Juliaacv (48620)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
@amadeo A lot of the way I treat people comes from the way that I was treated by my family, and then I do the opposite-because they can be very hurtful. I feel that divorce is a very private issue, between the husband and wife.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@Juliaacv yes,sound like you made it through
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 16
I don't remember getting any advice - I wouldn't have listened anyway.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@JaboUK I wish I did and someone told me not to do it.It was disaster
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@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
15 Dec 16
my best advise came from me when i told myself to marry this girl...that was 49 years ago...very good advise
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@just4him (308498)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Dec 16
No one gave me any advice before I married.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@just4him I see.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
14 Dec 16
i will be reading some comments, for future use, lol
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@NJChicaa (116272)
• United States
14 Dec 16
Don't get married? Having a bad day Fredo?
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@NJChicaa I am married.What would I have a bad day.?please explain
@Liza13 (3)
14 Dec 16
My best advice is dont become a perfect wife but become a good one. Be responsible .
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
14 Dec 16
@amadeo Nobody gave me any advice.I do not wish to give any advice either.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@silvermist same here .I wish they did at that time.LOL
15 Dec 16
I honestly don't remembering a single piece of advice.
@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
15 Dec 16
Everyone knew my hubby was going to be a great one so no advice needed r given...
@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
16 Dec 16
My mother told me to think 100 more times whether the person I'v choosen is the right and I can spend my life time with him or not... Then, only if you think he is the right person only get married to him. Because marriage is not something to break when ever we want
• Agra, India
19 Dec 16
Live and let live... Lol
@Sud_mk (20)
• Navi Mumbai, India
20 Dec 16
I am an Indian women, with respect to our culture I received a package of advice of which I would say is, marriage is an institution by itself. I suggest you must believe in.