~Our Day Around Here~

Josiah 8 days old
Valdosta, Georgia
February 18, 2017 1:20pm CST
Hey everyone! It has been a much better day here than yesterday was. Yesterday Julian was extremely fussy and it was a rough day all around. I was exhausted and feeling down. The kids were fighting all day long and it was a hot mess! Today on the other hand is much better. =) The older kids have been outside playing-they are having a good time and getting along! The babies have been happy and right now their both napping. My husband is working and will be all day until late-nothing new there. He was stiffed on a job last week and it has hurt us BIG time so I understand he has to make up for that. Usually he charges half up front but he trusted the guy and got burned-lesson learned. I hope your all having a wonderful weekend so far! Picture is Josiah before his nap. =)
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• Eugene, Oregon
18 Feb 17
Too bad about the rough day and the deadbeat who did not pay. It is good that things are smoother now. We are waiting for my daughter to drive down from Portland and stay the night. She is bringing the granddog Chihuahua of course. It will be good to see them both.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
@JamesHxstatic Thanks, yeah hopefully with him working he will make up for it. I hope you enjoy your visit with your daughter and your grand dog. =)
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• Eugene, Oregon
20 Feb 17
@LovingMyBabies It was very nice. Thanks.
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
18 Feb 17
Cute little baby and if he is a good baby, that's even better
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
@marlina Thank you so much, he is a very good baby. =)
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@skysnap (20154)
18 Feb 17
he looks so cute :)
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
@skysnap Thank you! =)
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@DWDavis (25812)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
18 Feb 17
Josiah is looking quite handsome. Sorry your husband got stiffed on the job. My uncle taught me an expression to remember when someone offered to pay me for a job. "In God We Trust, all others pay cash, up front."
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
@DWDavis Thank you so much! =) That is a great saying! And so very true.
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@Morleyhunt (21746)
• Canada
18 Feb 17
Glad to hear that today was a bette day!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
@Morleyhunt Thank you. =)
@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
18 Feb 17
Sorry to hear yesterday was not a good day for you. Kids are like that though. Little ones can be fussy and older ones like each other one day and not so much the next lol Glad to hear that today is a much better day for all of you. That it terrible about your husband getting stiffed for a job he did. Sad that you can't trust some people. The picture is adorable. What a cutie.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
@Happy2beme Thank you. It was a stressful day. Yeah they have their good days and bad ones. Thank you, I am feeling much better myself so that helps too. =) My husband is kicking himself as it set us back a lot. Now he's trying to make up for it and killing himself. Thank you so much!
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@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
18 Feb 17
@LovingMyBabies yes I can imagine it would set you back. That is a terrible thing for somebody to do.
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• United States
18 Feb 17
Oh my, I have been away a long time. He is adorable!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
@ElusiveButterfly I know! Its good to see you. Thank you! =)
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@snowy22315 (170703)
• United States
19 Feb 17
Glad it is working out with the kids. Josiah really does look lively for a newborn..In a couple of years no doubt you will be remembering fondly when they used to nap.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Feb 17
@snowy22315 Thanks. He is very alert for his age. =) Lol, yeah I might miss the days they napped.
@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Feb 17
Getting stiffed is such a bummer. I would report the person. This sort of thing makes it difficult for honest people. Like I have told my daughter more than once, " You can't make any ugly babies can you?"
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Feb 17
@LovingMyBabies .....Just spread the word among other contractors so they aren't able to do it to others.
• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Feb 17
@celticeagle It was a home owner so no way to report them... =( It stinks that it happened but not much he can do.
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@traceh (552)
• Cape Town, South Africa
19 Feb 17
Glad things are going better, parenthood is definitely not easy. It's difficult when you work for yourself because you not guaranteed of an income and people tend to take advantage of you. We ask a 60% deposit so it at least covers our materials, so if we get stiffed it is not to much of a loss. I am forever telling my husband that we can't take a chance in not asking for a deposit, but he also tends to be to trustful of others. We have been lucky so far but we will eventually get a client that will do us in.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Feb 17
@traceh Usually my husband asks for half up front, not sure why he believed this guy but yes working for yourself is SO difficult! People think it's the "dream" but I would much rather my husband work for someone else at this point. We never know what he will make from one week to the next-I HATE it!
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@traceh (552)
• Cape Town, South Africa
19 Feb 17
@LovingMyBabies So true, you can't budget and if you do manage to save it tends to go towards those months when business is quiet. I have been looking for work in my area just for an extra income but the salaries are so bad, that between that and the cost of daycare, it's cheaper for me to work from home and look after my little one.
@jstory07 (134727)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Feb 17
He is so cute.Is he a good baby so far. When kids fight with each other it makes for a hard long day. But kids are kids and they than turn around and get along with each other.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
@jstory07 Thank you! Yes he is a great baby. =) Yesterday was a really rough day with the kids fighting. I was ready to pull my hair out. Lol
@LadyDuck (459635)
• Switzerland
19 Feb 17
May be Julian is a little jealous of Josiah, I think it's normal.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Feb 17
@LadyDuck He is, and I hate it because he is so loved too. It breaks my heart.
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@LadyDuck (459635)
• Switzerland
19 Feb 17
@LovingMyBabies I can understand, he was the youngest in the family and the most cuddled and now he is no more the youngest.
@Tampa_girl7 (49163)
• United States
18 Feb 17
Glad that your day is going better.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Feb 17
@Tampa_girl7 Thank you! =)
@syeow1 (5137)
• India
18 Feb 17
Oh so cute baby.i want to hug him...May Allah bless him..
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
@syeow1 Thank you so much! =)
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@syeow1 (5137)
• India
18 Feb 17
@LovingMyBabies my pleasure..
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@dodo19 (47120)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
19 Feb 17
I'm glad that your day was better. It's that things are slowly getting a little easier. Hopefully, it continues to get easier for you guys.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Feb 17
@dodo19 Thank you. Yeah things are settling down now and it does make things easier.
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@LeaPea2417 (36530)
• Toccoa, Georgia
19 Feb 17
My day is going fine at the moment. Josiah is looking quite adorable in the photo. Sorry that happened to your husband but glad he learned a valuable lesson.
@Juliaacv (48652)
• Canada
18 Feb 17
I'll tell you, that husband and you really make adorably cute babies you know! I'm glad that everyone is getting along and there is harmony in your household today. Its a shame that someone took advantage of your husband's good nature.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Feb 17
@Juliaacv Aw, thank you so much! The house was much more at peace today-so much better. Thanks, I told my husband karma will deal with it. God says revenge is His.
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• United States
18 Feb 17
Wow I can see Josiah is getting bigger already. How lucky for you that both babies napped at the same time and the older kids were getting along. Sorry to hear your husband got stiffed on that job. My son is a plumber with his own business and learned that lesson too. Now he always takes at least half up front.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Feb 17
@Marilynda1225 Yes he is! He is eating great now so I'm grateful for that. =) Yeah my husband usually does half up front, the guy said he would pay at the end of the week-then never did. My husband is too trusting.
@KristenH (33363)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
18 Feb 17
So glad your day is much better than yesterday. Sorry to hear about your hubby being stiffed at work. That's not good. Enjoy your weekend and this lovely weather.
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@JudyEv (326275)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 17
That is awful that someone didn't pay up. I can't believe some people.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Feb 17
@JudyEv Yeah, it set us back a lot but karma will get him so we are just trying to move forward from it.