We meet a myLot member in Bordeaux, France

@JudyEv (325752)
Rockingham, Australia
August 23, 2017 1:48am CST
Yesterday Vince and I had the pleasure of meeting with myLotter @topffer. This is the first time I’ve been able to meet a member in person. We had a most enjoyable day in Bordeaux. @toppfer caught a fast train from his home town and we caught a bus from our campsite. We had no trouble finding each other at the railway station. @toppfer had kindly purchased tickets which gave us access to buses, trams and ferries for the day and we were off. Although most French museums are closed on a Tuesday, the customs museum was open and we found that very interesting. They also have an original Monet painting there. Vince was able to get some excellent photos - at least 200 he tells me - so he will have fun sorting through them. It was really helpful having our very own guide. I’ll write more about all the different attractions but for the moment here is a photo of the latest in trousers for the men of Bordeaux. Perhaps I should point out that this isn't @topffer! Thanks @topffer for a very enjoyable day and for your generous gift.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
23 Aug 17
Even if you would have not told us, I was sure that this is not @topffer. I am also pretty sure that not everybody dresses like this young man.
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
23 Aug 17
Does not dress and would not dress.. either..lol
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
If everyone dressed like this, Vince wouldn't have bothered with a photo.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv You always find someone looking weird, I am not even sure he is French.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
23 Aug 17
How nice to meet a friend you have only hitherto known from online. I am jealous! I have only met one person from myLot ( @p1kef1sh ) and that was a very pleasant day (and I had a professional and very instructive tour of the English cathedral of which he is the chief guide.) The very personable young man looks slightly amused that you want to take a photo of his breeks. Such apparel is usually sported by festival goers here. I'm rather glad that it is not @topffer. My impression is that he is a rather more mature gentleman who wouldn't be seen in such gaudy attire (though I might quite understand if he harboured a momentary and secret envy of the said leg-wear!)
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
23 Aug 17
How old fashioned...urghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh But you dared to voice what I did not ..lol. Yeah..I too felt it was quite inappropriate...for young as well as old...weird...one thing good though..nobody would know if it was soiled..
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
It was so nice to put a face to a username. I forgot that we met @p1kef1sh too and also had a wonderful tour of Salisbury Cathedral but that was two years ago and would have been in Bubblews time I think. @topffer looked like an archeologist (I hope he will not mind me saying that). The poor young man in the patchwork trews didn't seem to mind. I guess he was a bit bemused. Vince was telling him how he wanted him to stand. My Vince is not backward in being forward.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv I'm very forgettable. Are you still in Europe?
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@topffer (42156)
• France
23 Aug 17
I learned that a museum curator was describing me as a character "high in colors", everybody can check how true this description is accurate. You are too kind with your rookie guide. Without a map in a pocket of Vince, we would still roam in the streets of Bordeaux. It was also the first time that I was meeting another myLotter, and I enjoyed this day spent with Vince and you.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv Because you do not know me as she does, I can do very silly things times to times.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
It was fun wasn't it? But I didn't see any evidence of 'high in colour'. I feel a bit disappointed now!
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
@topffer What a shame we didn't see that side of you - the 'colourful' side.
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@Inlemay (17714)
• South Africa
23 Aug 17
that is awesome what a special encounter that must have been - i guessed this wasn't him because he is more my age and I was thinking that French Men always look good but this is Very Good for a man my age. ha ha - Love the outfit
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
23 Aug 17
Aw...lany!!!!! Are you serious? LOL
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
I can just see Vince in something like this!
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@xFiacre (12595)
• Ireland
23 Aug 17
@judyev Now there's a pair of trousers.
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
23 Aug 17
Yes..identifiable as one for sure. Rest look so skiny that you'd think they grow out of legs.
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@xFiacre (12595)
• Ireland
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv perhaps searching for an identity?
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
I think he was trying to make a statement - just not sure what that statement was!
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Aug 17
That is amazing that myLoters from down under and France should get together.
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@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
23 Aug 17
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
I know some in the US meet up and you'd think that would be simpler so yes, Australia and France is a bit of a long shot.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Looks like a jester, wearing his motley. I am glad he is a stranger, he certainly looks to be a stranger. I have met two or three lotters over the years, including @marsha32 @AmbiePam and @webieishere.
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@AmbiePam (85471)
• United States
24 Aug 17
I promise, I was the least interesting of the three!
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Aug 17
The word 'jester' certainly came to mind. You might hold the record if you've met three myLotters.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Aug 17
@AmbiePam I don't believe that at all!
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
23 Aug 17
Oh Wow..What a wonderful vacation you got there...Glad that you met a mylot member and enjoyed more of the place..Waiting for more of your vacation postings
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• Germany
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv ..I am sure it will be nice..Wish you a nice day
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
We will be moving on shortly but I'm not sure where we're going yet.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
@m_audrey6788 Thanks!
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@dodo19 (47050)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
23 Aug 17
It's nice that you were able to meet him, while you were there. I'm glad that you guys had a good time.
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@dodo19 (47050)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv It definitely isn't always easy. But I'm glad that you managed.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
It can be hard when you're travelling to meet a person on a particular day at a particular time but in our case, it all worked out nicely.
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
23 Aug 17
How disappointing...I was hoping you would upload the pictures of that elusive Frenchman. LOL.
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
23 Aug 17
@topffer .. Will you be wearing that type of pant?
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@topffer (42156)
• France
23 Aug 17
Lol, vanny, you will have to come in France and meet me to check if I look like this.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
We have some photos of @topffer but I'll ask his permission first.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
23 Aug 17
so the meetup finally happened! yay! are the museums closed on mondays and tuesdays? you're probably good speaking french now.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
23 Aug 17
Museums are closed on Tuesdays in France, but opened on Sundays. The customs museum is an exception, because it is handled by a staff from the customs (we were received by customs officers).
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
25 Aug 17
@JudyEv I'm just curious... Was myLot (and its members... ) ever brought up at all as a subject of conversations during the meet up?
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
We were lucky to meet up at all because I kept making istakes in my emails First I put July instead of August then I kept getting the dates muddled. @topffer was very patient and persevered through it all.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
23 Aug 17
I've met two online friends in my life, on in London and one in Jerusalem. But that was before I came to myLot. Like the other members who've commented here, I was surprised that Monsieur Topffer should look like this. Yet, I would like him to look like this. Why not @vandana7?
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
23 Aug 17
Well to begin with...all those archeological excavations he does of ancient tombs...all those folks would start turning in their graves... Honestly did not like that pant..it is so weird...thank god top did not wear it...I would have teased him rotten.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
23 Aug 17
@vandana7 I can't understand why you're getting so worked up about this young man's attire *as an Indian*. You have men in long dresses!
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
23 Aug 17
@vandana7 If I had been there, I'd have teased you!
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
23 Aug 17
That is nice to meet the @topffer. But I have one question who is the man in the photo?
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@topffer (42156)
• France
23 Aug 17
Who knows ? He was waiting at a bus stop.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
23 Aug 17
@topffer O Lol. But he is a Super star in MyLot Now.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
As @topffer says, he was waiting at the bus stop and Vince asked if he could take a photo.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
23 Aug 17
Wow, how cool is that?
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
I thought it was pretty cool. @topffer said he had brown hair, a grey beard and green eyes. Luckily I didn't have to peer into too many eyes before I found him.
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• Pamplona, Spain
23 Aug 17
For a moment I really thought it was tops. Had me thinking there. How wonderful to meet up with him and Bordeaux is not too far from us either. Really glad you were able to meet him too .
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• Pamplona, Spain
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv Great to hear that. Tops is a very nice person and I think he likes walking a lot also.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
Thanks. We had a very pleasant day together. We walked a lot and tops has said he slept really well that night - as did Vince and I!
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• China
23 Aug 17
We have MyLotters all over the world! You were sure excited to meet each other personally then.Did you arrange to meet through Mylot?
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
Yes, @topffer suggested we might meet in a comment and then we mostly PM each other through myLot.
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• United States
23 Aug 17
Sounds like another great adventure!
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• United States
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv Yes, that is always helpful.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
It was a great day - so much better with someone who knows something about what we were seeing.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Aug 17
Would have been impressed if topffer wore something like that on your meet up. ;)
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv conservative French guy then. ;)
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
He was much more conservative in his dress.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
23 Aug 17
That is great. I am sure you had fun meeting each other. How I wish I can meet one or more Mylotters someday.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
There are very many in Australia although one lives not too far away. I'm not sure if she is still active but I will check one day soon.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
23 Aug 17
@JudyEv Yes, you can meet with them and have fun.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
23 Aug 17
That must be moment to remember meeting someone from mylot, hope we meet someday too.
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@JudyEv (325752)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Aug 17
Strange things happen sometimes so you never know.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
25 Aug 17
@JudyEv True hope to see you sson.
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