Need Your Advice

Do not call her Dianne, wait to see if she shows up. It would be embarrassing if she has not been invited. Well, there is a solution, call her and ask "what do you do on ( ...) day and time of the Super Bowl Party?" If she says I join a party you can risk to say "Oh I forgot, I do too".

I think I'd be waiting to see if she shows up. If she is invited she might just call you. I hope your team loses - or should that be win? You have totally confused me.

Sounds like it might be better just to wait. I'm not interested in the game but also like the commercials and will watch them on YouTube in the days to come. Enjoy the day!

I read the comments and most say just wait and see. I think I will check on a friend and I would ask what is his/her plans on the Super Bowl date and then I would have an idea.

I'd wait to see if she was invited. I wouldn't want her to feel bad and left out if she wasn't invited. I know that's how I would feel if I wasn't invited to something a lot of my friends were. I'd also wonder about my friends for not inviting me, but that's another discussion.

Yesss. Hope that team loses too. Duh . What team does your hubby like again? I'd wait to see if she shows up. Though it'd drive me nuts waiting to find out.

Ohhhh, I've been in this situation. Most recently would be for a 50th anniversary party for a parent friend's parents. With our group, in past years we have always group texted invitations, and by the text response we would all know who could make it or not. But one of the parents in the past couple years has started texting us individually about get togethers and it seemed like they excluded certain people at times. Hate to say it, but even my daughter was excluded a few times - but only because it was a boys only kind of thing. So at this anniversary party, a bunch of us were actually shocked that one close family didn't show up to this major party (how could they not have come, though none of us discussed anything before this party). We found out a week later they were invited but had other commitments that night. I would wait to see if your friend shows up . . . I know what it's like to be on the end of getting hurt about finding out that I/we were not invited to something.

Better to just wait. It could get awkward if you mention it to a friend and then she finds out she isn't invited at all.

I think you should wait and see if your friend shows up. I'm debating whether or not to even watch the big game tonight. I do not like either team. I hope they both lose! haha But I will probably watch just because the commercials are my favorite part of the whole Super Bowl

@DianneN Just my suggestion is to not call her up but wait and see if she shows up or not. I believe if she was not invited then you would feel bad calling her.

I would wait, i think it is better this way.

I would wait

You may wait Ms. D:)

in my oopinion , don't call her

I wouldn’t call her

I wouldn't call her. Like you, I would feel terrible if she wasn't invited.

I think just about everybody is rooting for "that" team to lose. I think I would wait to see if she shows up, if she is not there. I don't think I would bring it up to her, unless she mentions it.

You shouldn't feel bad if it happens she's not invited, it's not your fault. Ok, I see Orville but where's his son? Awesome shot either way.

I guess calling her may not be a great idea. She may feel bad if she loves partying.

Um ... an inconvenient situation. Maybe I should wait to see if it will show up.