Labels

@just4him (323168)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
February 27, 2019 2:18pm CST
We live in a world where everything has a label. There are even national days for some of those labels. Now, I don't consider myself prejudiced, and who knows, maybe I am. Why would I say that? Well, labels. Do labels really define who you are? Do labels tell other people who you are? This month is Black History Month. In celebration of Black Americans. We have St. Patrick's Day in celebration of everyone who claims to be Irish. We have personal labels for who we are individually, LGBT. We have ethnic classifications - White/Caucasian, Black, Latin, Hispanic, Asian, Native American. We even have religious labels. You get the picture. We have a lot of days to make people aware of the different groups we may or may not belong to. Why can't we just be ourselves? Why do we need labels to define who we are? Personally, I'll be very happy when this month is over. Why? Black History Month. There is so much hype over the black community. I'm not against being black or a person of color. We are all people of color. I just happen to be white. Maybe I'm pink. White people have been called pink and pale face. Funny thing is when I look in the mirror, I see me. I don't see any labels telling me who I am. When I go anywhere and do anything, I let who I am speak about me. I like to think that it doesn't matter what color my skin is. When I break the skin, I bleed red, same as you. I'm not red, black, white, Latino, Spanish, Asian, or any other breed. I'm not rich or poor. I'm not religious. I'm not LGBT or S. I'm me. I have opinions, same as everybody else. I breathe air, same as everyone else. I need food and water to survive, same as everyone else. Why do we need to make a big thing of being a certain nationality or part of an organization? Can't we do away with the labels? I'm not prejudiced. I don't care whether you're one of those ethnicities or belong to a defining organization. When I look at you, I see you, the person. I see your merits. I see your struggles. I see what gives you hope and what discourages you. When I see you, I see someone I can relate too. We have something in common. We are all people. We all have similar circumstances that define us as people and let us know we are no different from one another. It's time to get rid of labels and be individuals who love life and want to live it. Thanks for reading.
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@celticeagle (189793)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Feb 19
We don't need labels but I think there are certain times when they are a good idea. So you're saying you would be okay with being labeled an individual? (Just being cute)
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@celticeagle (189793)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Feb 19
@just4him .......I think we all have labels we could use to describe ourselves.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 19
Yep, that's what I'm saying. Well, maybe not labeled that way. I'm not for sale.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
@celticeagle Yes, but why do it?
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
27 Feb 19
not going to happen.sorry.They do not care.You will never get rid of them.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
28 Feb 19
@just4him I do not blame you.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
@amadeo Thank you.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 19
I know they don't care. I don't like being confined to a box.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
27 Feb 19
Labels do tend to divide rather than unify.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 19
Yes, they do.
@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
27 Feb 19
What an excellent post, a lot of wisdom here. I agree 100%.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 19
Thank you. It's been on my mind for a few days now.
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@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
27 Feb 19
I have no use for them either. Many people use them to say they were picked on for being different. I hate that use of them the most.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 19
Yes, that irritates me too.
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• Midland, Michigan
27 Feb 19
Good points, Valerie. Maybe I should apply to have a Polish day. I don't think there's one of those yet. Although, with all the paczki's we sell you'd think everyone was polish. Lol, I'm not really wanting either the day or the donut.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 19
There is a Polish day in March sometime.
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• Midland, Michigan
28 Feb 19
@just4him Hmm, I've never heard of that before, not that I was worried about it or anything.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Feb 19
@MarshaMusselman I got the month wrong. He's a Revolutionary War hero, General Kazimierz Polaski. He was a Polish general. His day is October 11.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
28 Feb 19
An excellent post, Val. I agree 100%. There should only be one day labeled, People Day.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
1 Mar 19
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
I fully agree with People Day.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
28 Feb 19
I so agree with you, great job on this post, you have hit the nail right on the head.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
Thank you. This has been on my mind for a few days and I finally got it written down.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
@cintol Thank you.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
1 Mar 19
@just4him You did an amazing job putting it in the perfect perspective
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
28 Feb 19
I agree mostly. I don't think it really matters though, as long as those saying what they are aren't bashing others.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
People don't need to bash anyone, which some of those labels tend to do.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
1 Mar 19
@just4him not the labels, but some of the people behind them.
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
28 Feb 19
you are right, why do we need so many days to celebrate labels? some are quite ridiculous. There is only one species, the human species.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
Exactly. We could name it Human or People Day and be done with it.
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
1 Mar 19
@just4him I agree
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@aureliah (24687)
• Kenya
27 Feb 19
I can say that with labels, there is a way other people see you
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 19
But is it the way you want to be seen?
@aureliah (24687)
• Kenya
28 Feb 19
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• Rupert, Idaho
28 Feb 19
I agree with this completely....nothing else to say besides that!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
Thank you. I'm glad you agree.
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• Rupert, Idaho
1 Mar 19
@just4him no problem, and me too!
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
27 Feb 19
I absolutely agree with you. I have no prejudice and I never judge others.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 19
Thank you. I try very hard not to judge anyone.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
28 Feb 19
@just4him Yes, but I would be glad to judge those who kill and rape.
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• Santiago, Chile
28 Feb 19
I am so agreeing with this. We are the same.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
Thank you for your support. Yes, we are all the same.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
• Santiago, Chile
1 Mar 19
@just4him It is my pleasure to be around and share my input Valerie, have a good night!
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@jstory07 (148701)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Feb 19
I have said that many times over the years I wonder why we do not look at another person for who they are and their personality. Why pull out the color card. I do not see this ever changing.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
I don't see it changing either, but it would be nice if it would.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Feb 19
We do seem to have a lot of labels floating around.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
Yes, we do, and when we think we've heard them all, more pop up.
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
28 Feb 19
Agreed. In fact we all come from the same blood line originally
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
Yes, we do.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
28 Feb 19
I agree, first for the political labels to be gone, just one person running against another.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
That would silence a lot of arguments.
28 Feb 19
I hope more people would think like you..
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Mar 19
Thank you.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Feb 19
I agree with you. Everybody should just try to get along with everybody else, instead of judging. Life is too short for the nonsense.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Feb 19
Yes, it is.
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