MyLotters! Sometimes I Can *Like* But Not *Comment*. Does This Happen To You, Too?

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@MALUSE (69413)
Germany
December 13, 2019 3:54pm CST
What I usually do after reading a post is this: - If I like a post and feel like adding my mustard (a German saying meaning ‘make it more spicy‘), I *Like* it and *Comment* on it. - If I think a post is ok but not of interest to me and I can’t think of a relevant response, I only *Like* it. - If the topic is of no interest to me at all or an inane one-liner or if the post is badly written (by someone whose native language is English), I slink away without leaving a trace. ----- Recently I’ve noticed something odd: It happens occasionally that I can *Like* posts but not *Comment* on them. What does that mean? If a member has blocked me, I shouldn’t be able to do anything at all. Has the member in question half-blocked me so that I can *Like* but not *Comment*? How would that be possible? I’ve decided not to *Like* posts anymore in future if I notice that it’s not possible to leave a *Comment* as well. If someone doesn’t want to see what I have to say, I don’t want to fill their coffers, not even with half cents.
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21 responses
@GoAskAlice (5807)
13 Dec 19
It means that that person has blocked you. That is the way that blocking works here - you can see their posts and 'like' them but you can't respond to or comment on them. They can see your posts as well and can respond to and comment on them but you can't see their responses or comments. I know it's a little screwy but that's the way it was made. If that block was unintentional, then a 'like' might just serve to make them curious as to why you didn't respond or comment, inspire them to look at your profile and unblock you. On the other hand, of course, the block might have been intentional. You might want to search your soul to find out why and a 'like' might be a small token of humble apology. Whatever ... it's up to you what you do, of course.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
17 Dec 19
@GoAskAlice I can understand not being able to comment on the post if we have been blocked but I don’t think it is right at all that they can comment on our posts and we just won’t see it. That seems to me it could encourage bullying.
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13 Dec 19
@MALUSE That, of course, is their prerogative.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
13 Dec 19
Thank you for the elaborate comment. I don't have to do any soul searching, though, and there is no need for humble apologies. I have been blocked by members I've never had any contact with!
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@LadyDuck (458494)
• Switzerland
14 Dec 19
I thought that if we are blocked we can do nothing, I never noticed that we can like. Of course I would never like a post of someone who blocked me.
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@LadyDuck (458494)
• Switzerland
14 Dec 19
@MALUSE I see no reason why I should show "appreciation" to someone who thought I deserved to be blocked.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Dec 19
@LadyDuck You've hit the nail on the head!
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Dec 19
I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one who thinks in this way. This must be reasonable European thinking! :-)
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
15 Dec 19
It hasn't happened to me so far.
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@ricotivi (375)
• Philippines
11 Jan 20
Yeah, why disable the comment capability, I don't mind good or bad comments on my posts, both are considered experience, and all experiences are good for learning, if people doesn't want critics maybe he doesn't want to listen, then why bother let him live alone on an island, just saying
@DianneN (247080)
• United States
14 Dec 19
I’m pretty sure it means you’ve been blocked. I do the same as you regarding posts, especially those inane one-liner ones.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Dec 19
Yes, it does. I've understood this now. Admin has explained it in a comment. There must be a glitch somewhere, though, or some members are plain stupid. I have been blocked by members I've never had any contact with.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Dec 19
@DianneN I don't worry about them. Not everybody has to like me. I don't like everybody, either.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
14 Dec 19
@MALUSE Ah.....people. I wouldn’t worry one bit about them.
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@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
14 Dec 19
Is it possible to half block a person here?
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Dec 19
No. This was meant as a joke.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Dec 19
@renicemae Never mind! Things like that happen if one sees something only in writing and doesn't hear the spoken words and the tone in which they are spoken.
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@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
14 Dec 19
@MALUSE Oh. Sorry so stupid of me.
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
14 Dec 19
I could be wrong, but I believe if you cannot comment you have been blocked. I can like but not comment on a post from someone who has blocked me. I am pretty sure this is what is happening.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Dec 19
You're right. Other members and admin have explained it to me. You can read through admin's comment. It is strange, though, that Liking is possible.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Dec 19
@porwest It's here in this comment thread. Just scroll down - about eight comments or so.
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
14 Dec 19
@MALUSE Did you post admin's comment or is it somewhere on the site?
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@Torunn (8609)
• Norway
15 Dec 19
I considered liking the post but not answering, but I suspect you're not prone to block people by accident ;-) Have you moved to Åland?
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@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
24 Dec 19
That's interesting. This morning, my first here for ages, I too have been able to like but not comment on several posts. However, I've moved away and managed to comment when I came back.
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@lovebuglena (43080)
• Staten Island, New York
14 Dec 19
What I found this week is that sometimes when I move my mouse over 'comment' next to a person I want to reply to in the comments section nothing happens. The text box does not open. I end up having to refresh the page and then it works fine. Wonder why that is happening.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Dec 19
You could ask admin if it has to do with myLot or with your computer.
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@NJChicaa (116036)
• United States
13 Dec 19
If you can like but not comment it means that the member has blocked you.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
13 Dec 19
I've always thought that blocking means that I can't Like the post, either. It wouldn't make sense, would it?
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@NJChicaa (116036)
• United States
13 Dec 19
@MALUSE I agree with you but that is the deal. If you can't comment then you've been blocked.
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@Ronrybs (17840)
• London, England
14 Dec 19
I hadn't come across this before, but from reading below I see it means you've been blocked. Fairly sure I have read that someone was blocked without the 'blocker' selecting it.
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@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
14 Dec 19
It has happened to me a few times lately but when I close the discussion and reopen it I am able to comment.
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@DocAndersen (54411)
• United States
15 Dec 19
i have noticed that a couple of times. I normally close the browser and try MyLot on a different one (like I am on Chrome now, i use FireFox instead) sometimes that works. Sometimes it doesn't!
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
15 Dec 19
That's a lot of hassle! It shouldn't be necessary.
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@DocAndersen (54411)
• United States
15 Dec 19
@MALUSE i agree! just that on occasion it has worked for me.
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@jprtist (656)
• Pueblo, Colorado
13 Dec 19
Often I like a comment, but don't comment/respond. Sometimes what I like is directed toward me, I feel I'd be intruding to comment. Other times, all the appropriate responses have been given, my response would be redundant.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
13 Dec 19
I know what you mean. When all is said, one would feel silly to leave a comment repeating an answer.
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@praykin (345)
• United States
13 Dec 19
It's been happening to me lately..sometimes I just don't have the right thing to say but I get the post.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
22 Dec 19
I don't know if this is relevant but I just had it happen to me. However I went out of the page and back into it and was able to post so I think it must have been some glitch which prevented me from posting.
@jstory07 (134431)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Dec 19
I see that your question was answered. I hope you have a good Christmas and a happy New Year.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
18 Dec 19
Thank you and same to you and a prosperous New myLot Year!
@Juliaacv (48424)
• Canada
13 Dec 19
Sometimes I like a post but have nothing worthwhile to add to it, so I just like it then.
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@LindaOHio (156488)
• United States
13 Dec 19
It looks like NJChicaa knows the answer.
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• United States
12 Jan 20
Yes, it is often that I like the discussion but I can't comment on it.