My younger daughter has a big problem.
By marguicha
@marguicha (230334)
Chile
January 16, 2020 6:31pm CST
Claudia did not go to Valdivia only to see her aunt and uncle. She is escaping from a decision she will have to take soon: whether to stay with her couple or to part with him.
She has had many troubles with him in the past and now she will go to a therapist before taking her final decision.
She talks to me when she is alone (she went with the kids because she does not like to leave them with him).
I think that when that happens (although it is only psychological abuse) the only possible word is goodbye.
She is economically independent and the house is hers. I´d say bye bye. A long time ago.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
It is not that easy as they have a child together.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
18 Jan 20
@DianneN They have been together for 13 years. And this same daughter lost a child to cancer many years ago and her husband could not bear and left her and his children. She DESERVES to have lots of good luck
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
18 Jan 20
@marguicha Didn't know that. Yep, not easy at all.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
17 Jan 20
Psychological abuses are way worse and more tough to stand with. Hope she comes to a right decision after all thoughts.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
@arunima25 They aren´t. Things are never black and white.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
17 Jan 20
@marguicha Sending prayers and thoughts. Such decisions are not easy to make.
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
17 Jan 20
Heck yeah good bye to him she don’t deserve this.
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
17 Jan 20
@marguicha I hope she does it soon
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
I agree. But I don´t know what she will do.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
@LadyDuck My role now has been being there to listen to her and to hug. She wanted to consult a psychologist and I told her to do it. I have told her to do what she thought best not only for her but for the kids. I can say no more.
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@LadyDuck (502208)
• Italy
17 Jan 20
@marguicha It is hard to give an advice in this kind of situations.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
I agree. They were both on therapy some years ago, but people don´t really change.
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@rakski (156260)
• Philippines
17 Jan 20
@marguicha I believe you ave mentioned it before that they are having problems. I hope Claudia act on it now
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
My youngest granddaughter is his daughter. But he managed to make her last Christmas miserable.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
@JudyEv He is the victim type who does not talk and makes everyone feel guilty.
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@GardenGerty (169447)
• United States
17 Jan 20
It is very obvious to those outside of a relationship when it is time to say goodbye.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
He has been her partner for 13 years. They have a child together.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
He won´t. Besides, Claudia will not keep him from seeing Sofía, her only child with him.
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@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
17 Jan 20
If she is economically independent that is a big plus for her to say goodbye.
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@RasmaSandra (97957)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Jan 20
SHe should think out everything carefully and most important make it as easy as possible on the kids but definitely if there is no love lost between them she should make the split.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
17 Jan 20
Vicente is from her first husband and he has a wonderful relation with him. And Claudia Told me that Sofía had not asked for her father even once during the vacation.
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
17 Jan 20
Sorry to know that but if if it is necessary then she has move on
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@Butterfingers (66603)
• India
17 Jan 20
I think you should invite your daughter and tell her about your decision
