I have been accused of being English
By AmberLynn
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
United States
February 10, 2020 11:21am CST
I have been accused of being English, and I need to apologize for that.
I am honestly not sure why people in my past have thought that I was from another country. I've had people ask me if I was from England before, or Scotland.
Nope
Not too long ago there was a waitress who asked us where we were from. She didn't think we were from another country, but she wasn't convinced we were from this State.
Personally? I don't think I sound like I have an English accent. Maybe with some of the words I say, but if you were to talk to me you'd be convinced I was from the South of the US.
I thought of this discussion because just a few minutes ago I said "whatn't" in places of "wasn't", which is a normal thing for me to do.
Do people often ask you where you're from?
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@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
10 Feb 20
People normally assume (correctly) that I am English (Southern English, specifically, because of my accent, which is a fairly non-specific one). I do seem to pick up accents from the people I talk to, however, which is annoying because it can sound as though I am trying to mimic them or make fun of their way of talking.
I was once on holiday in Ireland and, towards the end of the holiday, I went into a small shop in a village somewhere. The lady clearly thought that my accent was odd (I wasn't consciously trying to sound Irish but I must have picked up a twang) and asked me where I was from. Again, whilst in France - my French is not good but I can make myself understood - I was told by a shop-keeper that she thought I must be Belgian. At the time, I took it as a compliment that she didn't write me off as English (the French find the way that the English speak French almost painful, I am told) but as Belgians are often the butt of unkind jokes, much as the Irish are in England, I wonder now whether it was so complimentary!
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@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
11 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum I wonder whether involuntary mimicking comes from a desire to make people 'feel at home' or is it more the "King Louie Syndrome" (as in The Jungle Book: )?
Now I'm the king of the swingers Oh, the jungle VIP I've reached the top and had to stop And that's what botherin' me I wanna be a man, mancub And stroll rig...
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
@owlwings Hmm. I am not sure. Maybe a mixture of both, or it depends on the situation as well.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
I have a problem with mimicking as well. I don't know why, but it comes so naturally that I don't realize I am doing it. Most people are charmed by it, or else don't get offended. However, I was working as a cashier once, and had a man from Belgium come in. I accidentally started mimicking his accent and he seemed very insulted. I wonder if perhaps he thought I was making fun of him?
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
10 Feb 20
Yes they do but it is because I have my Mother's brogue RIP and some traces of Oxford accent when I lived over there.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
10 Feb 20
You can lay more claim to the heritage then I can, then. I don't know why people think I do.
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@marguicha (230365)
• Chile
10 Feb 20
I had to learn to talk differently when I was a child. The children made fun of me because I pronounced too well. My parent´s home was blamed for it.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
10 Feb 20
Kids can be brutal. I went to speech therapy when I was younger, but so did my sister and brother.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
My best friend is someone I met 20 years ago when we were still in school. She used to like to tease me, probably because my accent is very southern. She was from the North, but since she's been here for 20-21 years, I've been teasing her when she uses a southernism. I tell her that she traded in her Yankee card a long time ago.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
@simone10 She takes it all in stride. I think she's happy to be down here in the south now.
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
11 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum
that's too funny! I guess after all this time, it was bound to happen.
that's too funny! I guess after all this time, it was bound to happen.
@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Feb 20
Yes, they want to know what planet I'm from:(
I'm considered an odd ball, which is O.K. My Aunt lived in Massachusetts most of her life. She had an accent, quatta for quarter, wadda for water, and other words I can't remember.
I'm considered an odd ball, which is O.K. My Aunt lived in Massachusetts most of her life. She had an accent, quatta for quarter, wadda for water, and other words I can't remember.1 person likes this
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
My mom's was "War-tur" or "Wind-ur" for Window.
I had to go to speech therapy when I was a little girl and the speech therapist brought out a card to my mom and said "Ma'am, what are these?" and my mama said "Britches".
He had never heard of the term apparently, so when he asked me what they were I said "britches" and since I was at speech therapy, I may have not pronounced the r very well.
As for being considered odd, I know that all too well.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
@kobesbuddy I've heard that "pregrant" before, but it's been awhile. I like how each region has their own different dialect, we speak so differently from each other. "Kah" for "car" in New England, for instance.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum My grandma said, 'pregrant' for pregnant, 'chimbley' for chimney, 'zink' for sink, 'warsh' for wash. Her parents spoke this way at home!
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@thislittlepennyearns (68246)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
10 Feb 20
The people that I grew up with always get a kick when they hear me talk now, because they swear that I have developed a southern accent in the almost eleven years that i have been in Florida. i dont notice it unless I am drinking, then there are some times ill slip up and ill get a super southern accent.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
10 Feb 20
My best friend is from Ohio but has lived here for about 20 or 21 years. She slips out with Southernism sometimes and I tease her about it.
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@thislittlepennyearns (68246)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
10 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum "Fixing to" is a huge thing here, and i never really said it until Chris and I started hanging out and his whole family says it.
side note this thing im doing on fiverr right now is going to drive me crazy.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
10 Feb 20
@thislittlepennyearns I saw that and messaged you back. My phone stays in my room unless I'm leaving the house, so I don't always have it with me.
"fixin' to" is said a lot here. I find that when I'm around the "hillbillies / rednecks" my accent and word choice changes. The last guy I was dating said reckon and I found I was saying it all the time. It's not a word I've used with any regularity since I was a little girl.
My ex husband's family said "I guess" in place of "I reckon", which I had never heard before until I met them.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
10 Feb 20
All the time. I was born and raised in California - I'd say I have no accent of any kind - but still people ask me where I am from - I am American, but I am of Asian descent (Japanese). They ask if I'm Korean, Chinese, Hawaiian (?), Filipina, but they mostly never guess Japanese
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
10 Feb 20
I feel like those of Asian descent probably get that a lot. I can only speak for caucasian's (which I am one) but I feel like we don't really know a lot about Asia at all, so we don't really know how to differentiate between the nationalities.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
10 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum I live in a very diverse area - there are all kinds of Asians - but somehow we are all lumped together. I know Hispanics feel the same way too. I don't mind that they can't guess "what I am", but they just assume I am "from" another country and not born here.
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@lovebuglena (52213)
• Staten Island, New York
11 Feb 20
I've never heard of "whatn't". Does it mean "what not?" I get asked where I am from. When I tell them I am from Belarus (that is where I was born) they ask me where that is.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
Nope, "whatn't means "wasn't it?"
I've heard of Belarus on the news, but if you were to ask me to find it on a map, I'd be at a loss without looking online.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
@lovebuglena I think people get the location of Germany and Russia mixed up. I know I used to.
@lovebuglena (52213)
• Staten Island, New York
11 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum I always just tell people it is near Russia. But even that leaves some confused.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
I will admit that it wasn't until I started mylotting (about a decade ago now) that I even heard of Filipino's. I do not think most people in America can tell the difference between Asian nationalities.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
@thelme55 I agree. We have so much yet to learn as well. I love it.
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@thelme55 (79352)
• Germany
11 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum I think we should be thankful that we met each other on Mylot. We have learned a lot from other countries, its citizens, culture and tradition.

@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
11 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum
Yes, I have gotten people ask me where I am from here. People here in Israel are from all over.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
Is there a large group of one nationality represented there, or are there so many nationalities that there's no majority?
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
11 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum
The majority here are Jews. Jerusalem is the capital and this is the only Jewish Homeland we have. People come from all over. We have others that live here too, but, we are the majority.
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@Spontaneo (14699)
• United States
10 Feb 20
People never pronounce my name the right way, making me want to pull my hair out!
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
10 Feb 20
My last name is Irish (my maiden one) and it's always been butchered. Same with my first name, it gets butchered.
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 20
I'm rarely asked where I'm from but I have had some people think I'm from somewhere I'm not. You shouldn't apologise for people thinking you're English - you should take it as a compliment 
There have been times when people recognised my accent because they were from the same place. Others have thought I was from a city that's over 20 miles away because they couldn't tell the difference between the variations of accents. I remember once being asked if I was from Australia - I have no idea why anyone would think that. I mean, a city that's 20 miles away is one thing but a country the other side of the world...??!!
On the other hand, I've been told I am 'well spoken' and this, apparently, makes it difficult for some people to place my accent. There are certain things in our local accent and dialect that I don't do so that probably explains that one.


@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum 37 seems quite a low estimate but I suppose it depends how a variation is defined. There are some areas where the accents differ from street to street while others are a little more gradual.
I was at school at the time but I think that person was from the UK, if I recall.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
@pumpkinjam Ah, maybe they had not been to many areas of the UK then? One of the first people to think I was English was a schoolmate. We were in English class and she asked me where I was from because she thought I had come from the UK. I think that was probably the time that I started hating my accent and began speaking differently.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
A few years ago I came across a video that explained the regional variations of the English accent. Before that I thought there were maybe one or two variations, and not about 37.
The person who asked if you were from Australia, were they a UK native, or were they recently migrated / a tourist?
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
@LadyDuck Do you speak with an Italian accent, or has it adapted and changed as you've settled in Switzerland?
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
@kepweng There are so many different regional variations, some of the UK accents are harder to understand than others.

@JESSY3236 (22287)
• United States
11 Feb 20
I told my great-aunt a few days ago that I was British not American because the past few weeks I have been watching the PBS show Victoria which is about Queen Victoria. I even had the theme song stuck in my head that last few weeks. But Seriously no, no one has never asked me where I'm from. I do have a southern accent.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
I find that after I've watched a lot of British programming, I start pronouncing things in similar ways to the actors.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
11 Feb 20
Yes. Here people judge you from your name and surname. Many assume that I am a Bengali from my name, a Sikh Punjabi from my surname etc. But I am none of these.
I can't hear your accent here and so can't judge
I can't hear your accent here and so can't judge
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
When I get nervous or excited my accent really comes out, and so there's no mistaking I am from the southern part of the US then. I've heard others with my accent speak and sometimes even I can't understand them, so I can only imagine what others might think.
Do you have Bengali ancestors? Is that the reason why your surname sounds Bengali to others?
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
14 Feb 20
@arunima25 Oh okay, i see. Yes, it happens to me that my accent will get thicker. Especially if I am angry.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
14 Feb 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum I don't have any Bengali ancestors. When we are excited or scared, our mother tongue or natural accent comes out.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
Did anyone ever guess correctly?
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
11 Feb 20
I have never heard any of the dialects from the Philippines.






















