Why Oh Why?

@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

Thanks, Angie. She does seem lonely. I will see how our walk goes later.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (502812)

• Italy

29 Feb 20

I remember you wrote about her, she is a pest, better to get rid of her.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (502812)

• Italy

29 Feb 20

@DianneN

Get rid of her, she is trying to impose herself too much.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

@LadyDuck I will try to get to know her better on our walk. If she leaves a bitter taste in my mouth, she’ll be history.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

Your memory is like mine. TWINS!

I just may get rid of her.

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besweet

@besweet (9831)

• Ireland

29 Feb 20

I always trust my first instincts about people. I understand that you want to give her a chance but something bothers you. I guess it is fine to go for a walk with her but don't invest a lot if your feel wrong about her.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

I trust my instincts, too, and from what I have already learned, I don’t feel comfortable with her. I’m meeting her for that walk soon, and will see if my instincts are right.

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besweet

@besweet (9831)

• Ireland

1 Mar 20

@DianneN How did the walk go?

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

@besweet Awful! I’m done with her! No wonder she has no friends.

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Judy Evans

@JudyEv (382542)

• Rockingham, Australia

29 Feb 20

You have never had a really positive vibe about this person.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

Thanks for remembering. No, I haven’t. After our walk, I will see if my intuition is right.

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NJ Chicaa

@NJChicaa (127180)

• United States

29 Feb 20

I would just conveniently be busy the next time she tries to make plans with you

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

She’s so irritating that I may just tell her I have the corona virus and can’t walk today!

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NJ Chicaa

@NJChicaa (127180)

• United States

29 Feb 20

@DianneN

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Thelma

@thelme55 (79352)

• Germany

1 Mar 20

@DianneN

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Thelma

@thelme55 (79352)

• Germany

29 Feb 20

Oh my! That is annoying. Better get away from here.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

After our walk yesterday, I discovered how greedy, shallow, and stupid she is. She is a people user, and I have no use for her in my life.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

2 Mar 20

@thelme55

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Thelma

@thelme55 (79352)

• Germany

1 Mar 20

@DianneN OMG! That's so bad.

Keep away from her. That is what I already thought when you first told us about this woman.

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joy

@MGjhaud (23228)

• Philippines

29 Feb 20

She’s still around?! You’re too nice.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

I am, but she’s going to be gone from now on.

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much2say

@much2say (57760)

• Los Angeles, California

1 Mar 20

Ohhhh - this is that same woman from your other post, right? Ugh - sounds like she's just making herself right at home

. Some people just don't realize how intrusive and clingy they are

. Maybe she annoys everyone and she just tries too hard to make close friendships. Maybe it's best to be "too busy" for her from now on

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much2say

@much2say (57760)

• Los Angeles, California

1 Mar 20

@DianneN Eek - well, now it seems she's gotten too comfortable that she feels free to spill out her true self. Run away, fast!!!!

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

You summed her up perfectly! After our walk yesterday, I discovered that she is a people user, a cheat, impatient, greedy, shallow, and not too bright.

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Tina Dalasinski

@Tina30219 (82978)

• Onaway, Michigan

29 Feb 20

Sorry to hear about this annoying person.

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Tina Dalasinski

@Tina30219 (82978)

• Onaway, Michigan

1 Mar 20

@DianneN Good you don’t need that

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

I’m done with her after this afternoon!

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rebelann1949

@rebelann (117272)

• El Paso, Texas

29 Feb 20

Ummm, what does your gut tell ya?

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rebelann1949

@rebelann (117272)

• El Paso, Texas

1 Mar 20

Yep, I kinda figured you'd come to a conclusion like that @DianneN she does sound like bad news.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

After spending all afternoon with her, my gut tells me to run and run far away.

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@ShyBear88 (59342)

• Sterling, Virginia

29 Feb 20

Yep that is why I don’t give my infor out till I know someone’s then I can just leave if I need to. Can’t be rude if you made plans but the next time he or she asks just say your busy

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@ShyBear88 (59342)

• Sterling, Virginia

29 Feb 20

@DianneN I wouldn’t have give someone my passwords I would have snatched it back and would have mom’ed here on you don’t touch stuff that isn’t yours and no you can’t have my numbers.

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@ShyBear88 (59342)

• Sterling, Virginia

29 Feb 20

@DianneN some people are just rude or crazy or even both

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

Would you believe she grabbed my phone off the table and asked what my password was, so she could enter her phone number? I’m going to have to dump her after today it seems.

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LindaOH

@LindaOHio (222806)

• United States

29 Feb 20

You are in a touchy situation. You'd like to be rid of her; but you don't want to be rude. Good luck.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

@LindaOHio It will be done somehow.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

After our walk yesterday, I definitely know I do not want to be friends with her. Now to break it off without hurting her feelings.

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LindaOH

@LindaOHio (222806)

• United States

1 Mar 20

@DianneN That's going to be a touchy one...

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Faye

@FayeHazel (40230)

• United States

29 Feb 20

I was going to say just what Angie said , only Angie said it better. I would follow it up with - while it is a compliment that she enjoys your company... you don't have to befriend her just because she's lonely and admires you, esp. if it isn't fun for you.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

Thanks! After our walk yesterday, I discovered that she is a user, greedy, shallow, and rather stupid. I have no room in my life for her. Time to get rid of her without hurting her feelings too much.

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Faye

@FayeHazel (40230)

• United States

1 Mar 20

@DianneN Wow, good thing you found out early. That's why she's lonely.

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CarolDM

@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

29 Feb 20

I remember this person from your previous post. I have been in this situation before and ignored tests, calls and knock on the door. Good luck.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

Thanks for remembering. After our walk yesterday, I decided I cannot be friends with her at all. She is shallow, greedy, a user, selfish, and not too bright.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

@CarolDM I’m walking.......

CarolDM

@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

1 Mar 20

@DianneN Sometimes we have to walk away.

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rappeter13

@rappeter13 (8608)

• Romania

2 Mar 20

Is she too clingy?

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rappeter13

@rappeter13 (8608)

• Romania

2 Mar 20

@DianneN When somebody irritates me, I will let them know, even with harsh words. That way I am sure they are out of my life.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

2 Mar 20

Worse! She’s a people user, selfish, greedy, shallow, and not too bright. I’m backing away from her now.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

2 Mar 20

@rappeter13 Ooooo, I can’t do that. I don’t want to hurt her.

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Belle Starr (Iz)

@BelleStarr (61463)

• United States

29 Feb 20

That is rather odd in my opinion but hopefully, she will just not show and you can be done with her.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

I’m hoping she cancels once again, but it’s not too likely. She has 30 minutes to show or not show.

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Four Walls

@FourWalls (86875)

• United States

29 Feb 20

Time to bring out the fly swatter.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

After this afternoon, I will!

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Marie

@Tampa_girl7 (54736)

• United States

29 Feb 20

It’s a bad situation. I hope you come up with a solution.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

29 Feb 20

Thanks, Marie. I will see how she is on our walk while I try to get to know her better.

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Jellybelly

@CookieMonster46 (13453)

• United States

1 Mar 20

I would say if you are not comfortable, let her go. This seems a bit odd , she attaches herself.

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Jellybelly

@CookieMonster46 (13453)

• United States

1 Mar 20

@DianneN I hope you can cut her lose.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

@CookieMonster46 Thanks! I hope I can without too much backlash.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

1 Mar 20

Yes, she’s very odd. I found that out on our walk.

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Loretta

@noni1959 (13061)

• United States

1 Mar 20

Sounds like time to gently tell her you two are very different and wish her well finding some new friends. It's always hard to do this but she will cause more issues down the road.

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Loretta

@noni1959 (13061)

• United States

4 Mar 20

@DianneN I hope she leaves you alone. yikes.

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