Everyone Yelled at Me!
By DianneN
@DianneN (247191)
United States
March 9, 2020 2:35pm CST
Thanks to the blurry photo my brother took, there’s the proof.
Saturday night 4 couples decided to go to the only somewhat decent pizza restaurant in all of South Florida, called Nick’s New Haven Style Pizza
It’s a very casual place, and we all dressed casually including me.
Yet, all the women yelled at me for dressing up just because of the silvery top I wore with black pants.
I’d wear that top to the grocery store and don’t think it’s too dressy.
What’s your take?
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51 responses
@snowy22315 (170353)
• United States
9 Mar 20
I plead the 5th! 
Maybe if it was with jeans, I could let it slide!
Maybe if it was with jeans, I could let it slide!5 people like this
@FourWalls (62391)
• United States
10 Mar 20
I’m wearing jeans, my “there’s a bathroom on the right misheard lyrics” t-shirt, and a lightweight hoodie. What do I know about “dressing up”?
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@FourWalls (62391)
• United States
10 Mar 20
@DianneN — please walk into the shower. You don’t want to fall and hurt yourself while hopping. 
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@Marilynda1225 (79936)
• United States
9 Mar 20
You look a bit fancy to me but I wouldn't expect anything less than fashionable from you. Let them be jealous!!
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Mar 20
I am blinded by the shiny! You look fine. Not dressed for opening night at Carnegie Hall.
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@Aquitaine24 (11653)
• San Jose, California
10 Mar 20
That would be a good idea for the next outfit there.
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@sweetashoney (3594)
• United States
9 Mar 20
Well, looking at the picture, it does look kind of dressy to me. Plus, I would think the pair of black pants were dress pants to. This also depends on what type of shoes you were wearing to. Were your shoes dress shoes? So in that case it would look like you were dressed up.
Now if you would have just thrown on an old pair of jeans with that, it would have looked a whole lot different. It would have looked like you were just wearing a silvery top with your jeans.
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@sweetashoney (3594)
• United States
9 Mar 20
@DianneN I see where your coming from now then, if that's what you were wearing with it. That would be almost dressy but still be casual to.
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
9 Mar 20
My pants were baggy crinkly ones, and I wore black sandals.
I don’t wear jeans in Florida, because it is too hot for me.
Besides, I would never wear jeans out to a restaurant. That’s just me.
It must be my age, but thanks for the helpful hints.
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
9 Mar 20
@sweetashoney Thanks!
I do enjoy dressing up a bit when we go out.
Thank goodness I didn’t wear a dress!
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@Aquitaine24 (11653)
• San Jose, California
10 Mar 20
If it's with Jean's it's casual.
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@wolfgirl569 (95596)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Mar 20
To me it is dressy. But what did it matter?
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@wolfgirl569 (95596)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Mar 20
@DianneN It is just the way you dress. I would have been in jeans and a t-shirt for pizza.
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
9 Mar 20
@wolfgirl569 I was going to order a dinner, but everyone wanted pizza.
Thanks!
I only wear t-shirts around the house or out walking, and I never wore jeans to a restaurant.
That’s just me.
Thanks!
I only wear t-shirts around the house or out walking, and I never wore jeans to a restaurant.
That’s just me.1 person likes this
@moffittjc (118539)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Mar 20
They were just jealous that you "outshined" all of them!
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@moffittjc (118539)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Mar 20
@DianneN Yes, I'm back home. Got home at 5am this morning. Slept most of the day.
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@DeborahDiane (40062)
• Laguna Woods, California
10 Mar 20
@DianneN - Since you were wearing the top with slacks, I would have thought of it as casual. Of course, Orange County is known for women wearing a little more glitz and glam than they do in other places. I think it depends on what people are used to and the part of the country they come from! I think it is cute!
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@Aquitaine24 (11653)
• San Jose, California
10 Mar 20
Then she is representing Orange County better than everyone else there.
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
10 Mar 20
Thank you!
Perhaps I should move to Orange County.
I have a best friend who gets dolled up like I do.
We don’t care how others Jew us, but I was shocked at how these friends reacted.
To me, I was wearing a casual shirt that happened to be silver.
Thanks for understanding.
I have a best friend who gets dolled up like I do.
We don’t care how others Jew us, but I was shocked at how these friends reacted.
To me, I was wearing a casual shirt that happened to be silver.
Thanks for understanding.1 person likes this
@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
11 Mar 20
Perhaps I'd say it would come off being dressy- a little bling always does--lol!
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
12 Mar 20
@DianneN Anyway too bad for them- they probably felt uncomfortable because they didn't have a nice top like that----haha!
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@kobesbuddy (74713)
• East Tawas, Michigan
10 Mar 20
You wore a silvery top with black pants, for you this was considered a casual outfit! If someone else came dressed another way, you wouldn't say a word They were making a big deal, out of absolutely nothing!
They were making a big deal, out of absolutely nothing!1 person likes this
@kobesbuddy (74713)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Mar 20
@DianneN The next time, I'd show up in a flowing wedding gown, just to see their mouths fly open! Tell them it's simply a 'pizza gown'
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@LindaOHio (157012)
• United States
9 Mar 20
I think it's dressy; but obviously you don't....so, it's just a matter of preference and opinion. :-) Also, you wouldn't like me because I'm a jeans person!
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
9 Mar 20
It just happened to be a shiny casually cut top.
I haven’t worn jeans to a restaurant since I was in.......never. Especially not on a Saturday night.
Besides, they are a bit too hot to wear in Florida. Remember that little fact when you go to the Keys!
I still like you, no matter how you prefer to dress.
I’m just me, and dress to impress.
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@LindaOHio (157012)
• United States
9 Mar 20
@DianneN I wouldn't expect anything less from you. You are a classy lady!!
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@arunima25 (85498)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar 20
It looks good. I don't find anything wrong with that. Seems good for a casual place too
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@arunima25 (85498)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar 20
@DianneN You are fashionable and they have to get used to it. I think they felt jealous
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