Did I just get someone fired?

@TheHorse (238356)
Walnut Creek, California
August 17, 2020 9:28pm CST
I went to my normal "discount" Mobil station this evening to get some gas and a green lighter (my favorite green lighter had died). It was a station I've visited for fifteen years. Everybody knows me there, and we always exchange pleasantries. But tonight the girl behind the counter was an obvious meth-head. She told me to get my mask on (which I did) but when I looked at her she told me that I was being aggressive, and that she was calling the cops. I bought my lighter, and finished filling my vehicle with gas. She followed me outside and continued to berate me, telling me that I had been aggressive toward her. I got my gas and got out of there and made a vow (not out loud) to call her manager (my friend) and let her her know that she had/has an aggressive meth-head on her books. Would you do the same?
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@BarBaraPrz (51838)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
18 Aug 20
Maybe you shouldn't have stuck your tongue out at her before putting on your mask...
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Aug 20
Maybe I SHOULD have stuck my tongue out at her instead of my butt cheeks. But her demeanor was unpleasant from the start.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
18 Aug 20
Of course. Especially if I knew the owner. We aren't required masks at gas stations. Just about anywhere else. We went into Dollar General yesterday and wore our masks because it said they were required on the door. Went in, and none of the employees had them on
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Aug 20
I wonder why the employees didn't have them on.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
@thislittlepennyearns Have confirmed cases in your area been pretty low?
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
19 Aug 20
@TheHorse It's not required here. There;s no county wide mandate for them. Each individual business etc has made decisions regarding if they want their employees or shoppers to wear them. The kids have to wear them on the bus, at school at certain times etc.
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@GardenGerty (169568)
• United States
19 Aug 20
Whatever her problem was, it is scary that she was so aggressive with you. It seems a man who enjoys playing with preschool children could not possibly be a problem.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
I am sure there are humans out there who have different personalities in different contexts. But in markets and such like, I'm the kind of person workers are "relieved" to see.
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@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
18 Aug 20
I would call the manager, an aggressive attitude can damage the store. I thought a mask was mandatory inside in your state.
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@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
19 Aug 20
@TheHorse I do the same because we must wear the mask as soon as we step inside a place.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
@LadyDuck That's rule here too. However, I don't wear one inside my house.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Aug 20
It is. I always wear mine around my neck and put it on as I enter a store.
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@JudyEv (382440)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Aug 20
I would have done the same. He'll be losing customers if he keeps her on. Doesn't worry me but there's a typo in your title - and the first line of your discussion.
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@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
18 Aug 20
Due to covid... Yes
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Aug 20
I will correct he typo. It was odd exerprece.
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@BarBaraPrz (51838)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
18 Aug 20
Oh know! The mispeling vyrus is ruining ramparts hear!
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• Agra, India
18 Aug 20
Definitely I would have same thing. Some people can't be allowed to get away easily.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
She could get herself hurt! I happen to be a professor, not a thug.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya Had I bopped her on the head, I'd be in jail now.
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• Agra, India
19 Aug 20
@TheHorse haha..so true. And I'm not a professor and then also don't leave anyone
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@Torunn (8606)
• Norway
18 Aug 20
Yes, better let him know, you might not be the only one she has a go at. Rather strange though, thinking that someone looking at her is aggressive. Do you have a very piercing glance?
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@Torunn (8606)
• Norway
19 Aug 20
@TheHorse I wore a mask for the first time when flying 2 weeks ago. I thought everyone in the plane looked rather threatening
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@Torunn (8606)
• Norway
20 Aug 20
@TheHorse No, they didn't serve anything because of corona so stealing would have meant more work than normal.
@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
Maybe with my mask on. But I don't think so.
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@tammys85 (31424)
• Baltimore, Maryland
19 Aug 20
At that point, yes. She did not need to be following you. All because you looked at her? How dare you make eye-contact while paying for something.
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@tammys85 (31424)
• Baltimore, Maryland
24 Aug 20
@TheHorse Oooh. Yeah, I mean, she followed you. That's a little crazy to me. Any update since this comment?
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Aug 20
@tammys85 I still haven't talked to the manager herself. I need some smokes. Maybe I'll stop by there today.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
The manager was not there today but I did tell the other employee (a pleasant dude I've known for years) about what happened. He said some customer had been hassling her, and maybe she took it out on me. But I don't know that I adequately described how "crazy" she went.
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@rebelann (117269)
• El Paso, Texas
18 Aug 20
Yes, I'd want to make sure no one else was treated like that.
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@rebelann (117269)
• El Paso, Texas
19 Aug 20
You did the right thing @TheHorse people with bad attitudes have no business in customer service
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
I like the people there and want that store (gas station) to do well.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 20
@rebelann Exactly. But I do hope she gets the help she needs.
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• Philippines
18 Aug 20
You should have video record this person, she's obviously went insane. She can't apply for a job acting that way.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
18 Aug 20
I wonder why that girl is antagonistic towards you. But if you are friends with the manager then it is only right to report her for she would be a liability of the business. This reminds me of my stint in Stop N' Go. I underwent a training of 1 week that was focused on customer relations.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Aug 20
@TheHorse aside from customer relations we were trained with the selling particularly the cashiering. There's also the stocking of goods, cleaning the surroundings.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
What kinds of things did they teach?
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 20
@Alexandoy Did they "force" you do do "up-selling," as in "Would you like a lighter with that?"?
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
18 Aug 20
Her boss needs to know.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Aug 20
She was a new face to me. I wouldn't be surprised if she's already gone.
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@LindaOHio (222726)
• United States
18 Aug 20
I would definitely report her. There's no excuse for her behavior. Have a great day.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Aug 20
I'll wait until I see the manager again. I go there often. I wonder if others have reported her.
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@LindaOHio (222726)
• United States
19 Aug 20
@TheHorse If others have reported her, there obviously hasn't been anything done about it. Have a wonderful Wednesday.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 20
@LindaOHio I mentioned it to another regular employee today. The manager want there.
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• India
18 Aug 20
That's too bad by that cashier girl
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
I hope she lands on her feet, but she shouldn't be working there.
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@popciclecold (40214)
• United States
19 Aug 20
I would do that too. She's lucky it was you and not someone else.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Aug 20
That's a good point. I hope she gets the help she needs.
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@allen0187 (59827)
• Philippines
18 Aug 20
I would have done the same. You are doing that Mobil station a favor.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
That is true.
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@wolfgirl569 (135966)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Aug 20
She needed reported. She is not a person I would want working for me.
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@wolfgirl569 (135966)
• Marion, Ohio
19 Aug 20
@TheHorse I would guess they have if she acts like that.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
I wonder if anyone else has reported her.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Aug 20
@wolfgirl569 I'll provide a report. I've never had anything like that happen before.
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@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
18 Aug 20
I would have done the same. Someone that aggressive could be a danger to others as well as herself.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Aug 20
That's a good point. That place has been robbed a time or two.
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@thelme55 (79323)
• Germany
18 Aug 20
I would have done the same thing. The owner of that gas station will lose clients if he keeps her working there.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Aug 20
Her manager is a nice lady and we always gab a bit when we're both there.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Aug 20
She should have been reported.
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@TheHorse (238356)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Aug 20
She will be reported.
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