I used to look forward to the day when I might get twenty to forty responses...

@MarshaMusselman Most people drop the conversation almost immediately. I have some conversation going on from more than one year.

Some of us can make a conversation or thread last a long time while others nip it in the bud almost immediately. There are many ways to work it here.

@LadyDuck wow, that's a long time. I must not have run into that person yet.

@DaddyEvil I have noticed that too in the evenings. It is quite busy during the most days but not always for me.

@stephcjh How do you find discussions to talk on? I use the 'Follow' button. People I follow write discussions and I can find them there. Most of the time, I can find something in their discussion to talk about... sometimes, when I'm not interested in the discussion they write but I haven't seen/talked with them in a while I'll just talk about whatever I like. If they aren't interested, they ignore me. If they are interested in what I have to say, they'll respond. I know that's not how most people use myLot but I've never gotten in trouble for using it that way.

@sharon6345 Same here. It gets slow on my end too so I am trying to make discussions to get some activity going for myself and others.

@myklj999 Exactly why I prefer to talk on other people's discussions!

When I get close to 100 notifications I can get overwhelmed too because I'm not always here to be able to keep up. Lately I've been doing better and have even had time to visit new activity and others tabs. I think I thought that the more responses I had the faster I might make the money and while that is true to a very small degree I know that others of you do very well without barely writing anything new at all. It does help to know who will be replying sooner than later though especially during the last days of each month.

@myklj999 those are the funnest, my phone put dumbest but I don't want to say that. I then want to say ' nice response' but I don't want them to think that's okay. Sometimes I'll ask a question related to the discussion to hopefully get more than a generic comment.

Are you saying your rather have more responses than less?

@MarshaMusselman Yes, I would be happy to receive more. I respond much more than what I receive.

@yoalldudes yes and the quick posts two great benefits while the ones we work on longer don't.

My highest thus far has been 25 but it's very rare. 15-20 is more common more recently but I still get discussions that go splat.

@MarshaMusselman Ha ha so sad when I get 2 responses to something I thought was awesome. It will surprise you what catch the interest of people.

I like the interaction too.

That's what we're all looking for. There are many ways to obtain it though.

@MarshaMusselman yea

I've been almost missing some that visit the discussion a few days later especially when the system clumps several people together and the first is in the beginning but the rest could be found anywhere.

I agree.

There are times it's that way for many of us I think. There are ways too work it though so you have the interactions there when you return.

@MarshaMusselman Depends on the users. Some do not get back at all.

@allknowing that is true and after a bit I tend to not visit with them anymore.

It can be hard to keep up with them all especially when they arrive at different times.

Lol. You'll catch up I'm sure and I can't see that happening. I either respond now or forget. Sometimes you have to switch and go to the bottom to work on them before they fall off. But I'm sure you already know that.

@DianneN it's good you can breathe again. That martini must have been watered down that you could get them done so quickly.

@MarshaMusselman I told you to please not respond! Actually, I finally finished what was left. I feel good again!

When is not busy but we have time to be here I'll write one or two discussions and still go around visiting and by the next day usually someone or some several came by to visit.

@thelme55 You too, Thelma.

@MarshaMusselman I do the same. Enjoy your weekend.

The interacting is where it's at, definitely. And it can be found almost anywhere that we are willing to look.

@MarshaMusselman So true!

That would certainly be nice wouldn't it? I've begun doing that too looking at both ends but some can be anywhere in the middle making it harder still.

I'm hoping the cactus blooms more than it ever had before June I've finally learned how to water it during it's blooming cycle. I go with the flow with responses too but if and when I get a lot I can write a little less as far as discussions. Some do weeks without having a lot of disgusting I feel I do better when I write something new more often whilst going around and visiting with others here too.

Yeah that bugs me too.