What Kind Of Mother Am I??

By Jabo
@jaboUK (64361)
United Kingdom
March 24, 2021 10:06am CST
It was my daughter's 50th birthday yesterday so I wrote a poem for her and put it on Facebook, along with a photo of her as a baby. She wrote back "Have you got the wrong baby?" I said of course I hadn't and then my sister joined in and said that she thought the photo was that of my son, but that I must know best. Doubts started to creep in. I knew that I had a photo of my daughter at about 6 months old lying on her stomach smiling at the camera and I thought I'd found it. Unfortunately I'd forgotten that I had a photo of my son in the same pose and that was the one I used. What kind of mother am I not to know her own children?? In my defence I have to say that babies often bear little or no resemblance to the people they become. Anyway I rectified the mistake and we had a good laugh about it. The photo above is definitely of my daughter.
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@vandana7 (98778)
• India
24 Mar 21
You need to repair the harm done...your daughter's ego must hurt. Mothers are supposed to know...definitely..even if the kids are twins. Evil Grin.
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@vandana7 (98778)
• India
24 Mar 21
@jaboUK I was kidding. Thank god.. some kids would feel offended..
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
@vandana7 It's hard to tell if someone is serious or not when you can't hear tone of voice, can't see facial expressions
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
My daughter has a great sense of humour and she is fine with it. She even joshed me by putting the two photos up side by side and said 'spot the difference'. That made me laugh
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
24 Mar 21
lol Trust me I have to look really carefully at the pictures of my two sons when they were babies. My daughter had a wonderful head of hair, she is easy to identify lol
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
24 Mar 21
@jaboUK they certainly resemble each other!! This is me and baby Kasey
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
@BelleStarr That's a nice pic (even if I did have to turn my computer on its side
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Neither of mine had much hair for their first year so that was no help. This is the photo of my son which I mistakenly put up.
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
24 Mar 21
My mother could not mistake my photos with those of my brother, he was so blond that almost looked like an albino when he was very young, I was a bit darker and "a lot" smaller.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
I can see how easy that would be to tell apart lol.
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
24 Mar 21
@jaboUK If they are similar you are excused. The only thing we have in common with my brother is the color of the eyes, we both have green eyes as our father.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
My two were actually very similar babies despite being different genders, though my son has blue eyes (like me) and my daughter has brown (like her dad). It was actually that which convinced me as the one I've posted here obviously has dark eyes. And also she's in a dress
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@xFiacre (12589)
• Ireland
24 Mar 21
@jabouk I used to refuse to collect my first born from a nursery he went to once in a while as a baby in case I couldn’t pick out which baby was mine. We should really write the date and subject on the back of photos. And what a nice baby you produced!!
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
I have written on my photos before to keep track of the date and age,
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
25 Mar 21
@stephcjh That's the best thing to do, wish I'd done that.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
You made me laugh with that, and you're 50 years too late with your suggestion of writing on the back of photos. Thank you, my daughter was lovely as a baby (to be fair, so was my son).
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
24 Mar 21
Good that she is 50 and could find the funny sideHad it been a 5 year old, you would have faced a hell lot of tantrums and melodrama. She looks adorable there Wishing her loads of luck, health and happiness on her birthday.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
LOL. You are probably right about that lol.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Yes, it might have been different if she was 5 . Thank you for your good wishes, I will pass them on to her.
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
27 Mar 21
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 21
That is too funny. And what an adorable baby. Happy Birthday to your daughter.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
Yep. Sweet baby.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Thank you Carol - she was adorable then and she's adorable now.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 21
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@popciclecold (35078)
• United States
24 Mar 21
That is funny, but she is so precious.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Yes, we all saw the funny side of it, and my daughter is still precious
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• United States
24 Mar 21
@jaboUK That's so good.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
I agree. So very precious!!!
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
24 Mar 21
It can happen. Good thing your daughter is so understanding
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
I agree.
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• Germany
24 Mar 21
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Yes, no harm done
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Mar 21
and beautiful baby I must say. I have a photo of what I think is me at same pose in fact but my aunt once said it is my mom. When I got it though it had my name on the back So who knows now? Babies all look so much alike in families whos to say?
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
Yep. Some people's babies all look alike as babies.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
25 Mar 21
@jaboUK do you except new friends on FB ? I would like seeing both photos
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
I would have thought that photo was you if it had your name on it.
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• Pamplona, Spain
24 Mar 21
Whatever the mix up its a lovely photo Jan. Wishing her a Happy Birthday of yesterday.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
Sure is. Sweet baby photo to cherish forever.
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• Pamplona, Spain
24 Mar 21
@jaboUK That would be great.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Thank you, I appreciate that and so will she. I'll send her the link to this post.
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@RebeccasFarm (86731)
• United States
24 Mar 21
Oh well most babies have a pic like that..not your fault. Happy Birthday to your lovely daughter
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
Yep. LOL.
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• United States
24 Mar 21
@jaboUK Welcome Jabo
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Thank you, it's nice of you to say that.
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@Juliaacv (48369)
• Canada
24 Mar 21
Well in your defense, at least you remembered her birthday to begin with.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
That is very true lol.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Oh I'd have been in trouble if I'd forgotten, especially this milestone birthday
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@just4him (305792)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Mar 21
I'm glad you had a good laugh over the mistake. Very nice picture of your daughter.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
Me too. It is kinda funny lol.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Thanks Valerie - all the family were amused at my mistake.
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@just4him (305792)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Mar 21
@jaboUK You're welcome.
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@rhuenz (10646)
24 Mar 21
So lovely picture of her, It's good to see that you have kept those old photo of them.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
Yep. they don't stay babies long.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
Yes, I've a lot of old photos - I take a photo of the photos so that I can put them on the computer.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
24 Mar 21
An honest mistake can be a source of good humor. Laugh about it all the more. Doesn't make you less of a good mother that you are. My sister claims she is the baby in a picture I captioned 'my baby pic.' I thought my mother told me it was me.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
I agree. Honest mistake and loving mother.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
24 Mar 21
@jaboUK That is true. And no matter my sister claims she is the baby in the picture, the photo remains in my album.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
It can be hard to tell one baby from another as both you and I have found out..
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@rebelann (111124)
• El Paso, Texas
25 Mar 21
She was adorable and so photogenic. I've noticed that often siblings tend to resemble each other when babies so don't beat yourself up. At least you did find the real article.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
True also
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
@jaboUK lol.. I bet so... in a hurry too lol.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
25 Mar 21
As soon as my daughter cast doubts in my mind I hunted out the proper photo
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@jstory07 (134388)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Mar 21
That is a cute picture of your daughter.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 21
I think so too, thank you Judy.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
I think so too.
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• Midland, Michigan
24 Mar 21
That's pretty funny that they would recognize the difference and not you. I knew you had a son and daughter but didn't know you had two girls.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
I think our minds lose clear memories as we age for sure.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
25 Mar 21
No I don't have two girls, just one of each. i see why you got confused but I was referring to MY sister, not my daughter's I was looking for the pose so didn't look to closely at the face - silly me.
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• Midland, Michigan
25 Mar 21
@jaboUK ok I remember that was what I read now. That would be a good reason to pose our children differently so when we're older we know which one it is
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
25 Mar 21
Oops! Having two boys, I sometimes get confused looking at their baby photos. That’s a beautiful baby!
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
I can see how that could happen.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
25 Mar 21
Thanks Dianne. Even though mine are different genders I still managed to mix them up
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
25 Mar 21
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• Philippines
25 Mar 21
That's an adorable photo of your daughter. Belated Happy Birthday to her!
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
I think so too.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Mar 21
@jaboUK That is a good idea. I was wondering if you might do that. That should make her feel good to see all of our comments.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
25 Mar 21
Thank you, I've sent her the link so she will see this
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