Are you a people pleaser?? I was but I am not anymore!!!

@Rashnag (30598)
Surat, India
June 8, 2021 12:40am CST
Hi guys, Hope all of you are doing good. I am doing good too. I have struggled this thing most of my life and have finally understood that I can't please everyone in life. When I was in my MBA college, I tried hard that people are pleased by me as in liking me but it's not that easy. Sometimes people don't like you for no reason at all. I have stopped pleasing people from then onwards. Share your thoughts about it. Have a good day. Take care!!
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• India
8 Jun 21
same same same ... now i am tired of being good ...
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Jun 21
Ok dear. Seeing you after long time. Have a good day
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Jun 21
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• India
9 Jun 21
@Rashnag you too ... have a great day ahead ... yes back after long
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• India
8 Jun 21
Well, it's a little bit complicated. for some type of people, I still am, For some type, not.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
8 Jun 21
Ok dear. Thanks for sharing
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• India
8 Jun 21
@Rashnag you're welcome.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
8 Jun 21
Never have been, never will be.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Jun 21
Ok good to know. Thanks for sharing
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
9 Jun 21
May be but I never bend backwards
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Jun 21
Ok dear
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@RebeccasFarm (86754)
• United States
8 Jun 21
I am glad ot hear that about you..me niether not anymore
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Jun 21
Ok dear
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@maheep97 (39)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 21
Yea I m also that kind of person who like to please everyone if its not hurt me back. If someone gets happiness in their life because of me and my actions then it's a good thing. May be your opinions are different about this.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Jun 21
No dear. I meant to please everybody we push our limits, and do what we aren't willing to do, that's wrong.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Jun 21
It depends whom you want to please. If it is your boss, you would like to please him rather offend him. . It is not easy to please everyone, people have huge expectations, therefore, we should behave the way we are.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
8 Jun 21
Rightly said. Thanks for sharing
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• United States
8 Jun 21
I've learned through the years that it's impossible to please everyone. I guess I still am a bit of a people pleaser but only to those who are important to me.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Jun 21
Good to know. Thanks for sharing. Have a good day
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@franxav (13603)
• India
8 Jun 21
I don't go out to please people. Actually, I have a dislike for the arrogant
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
8 Jun 21
Ok dear
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@innertalks (21026)
• Australia
9 Jun 21
I actually like to try to please some people, especially those that I love. It makes me feel good when what I have done for them obviously pleases them. I used to be the same with my dog. I liked to see it happy, and I liked to please it by giving it a treat to eat, and then watch it being extra happy eating it.
@innertalks (21026)
• Australia
9 Jun 21
@Rashnag Yes, I was just pointing out that we can be a people pleaser at times, and it is ok, for us to do that, but you are right, we should not try to please everybody, by being someone who we are not, in the doing of that too.
@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Jun 21
@innertalks ok dear
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Jun 21
Good to know. That everyone does to make our loved ones happy. I was talking about everybody. Anyways, have a good day
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
8 Jun 21
I am not. I do what I want, when I want, and how I want, and if people don't like that, to hell with them.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
8 Jun 21
Oh ok dear
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@Loti24 (152)
8 Jun 21
Like you - no more! I try to be open, fair, and respectful, but that's it.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
8 Jun 21
Good to know. Thanks for sharing
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@iamrama (62)
• Vishakhapatnam, India
8 Jun 21
I really appreciate your decision. You said it right. And we shouldn't please someone who don't deserve us.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
8 Jun 21
True indeed
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• Bangalore, India
10 Jun 21
Yes its true, we will get lot of people who don't like us. But we don't need to convince them and can't help it. We are WHO WE ARE. So chill life is beautiful......
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
10 Jun 21
True indeed. Thanks for sharing. Have a good day