She’ll Take Manhattan

@DianneN (246525)
United States
August 9, 2021 9:37am CST
Hubs, our older son, and I fell in love with the foundation of this house during a walk we took when visiting the family last May. Our son took a photo of what’s been completed so far. It overlooks a river in the backyard. We LOVE it! As a result, our son has been looking at new houses in his area of New Jersey and found a beauty. Unfortunately, the taxes are a whopping $50,000 a year. Nevermind! The Ice Princess prefers to live in Manhattan only because she can tell people she’s from there. What a little stinker! Meanwhile, next August they have to decide whether to continue to live in New Jersey or return to their co-op in Manhattan. Tough decisions.
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@NJChicaa (115958)
• United States
9 Aug 21
That house is absurdly large.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
So is the basement! I love the roof lines and wish I could look inside when it’s finished.
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@NJChicaa (115958)
• United States
9 Aug 21
@DianneN I would say that I wouldn't want to have to clean that place but I guess if you are rich enough to afford that then you can afford to have an army of housecleaners.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
@NJChicaa Exactly!
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@rebelann (111124)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Aug 21
Hey, with the money your kids make they can choose anywhere the want. They really are lucky.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
This house isn’t for sale, but another one is and way too expensive for him.
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@kanuck1 (4394)
9 Aug 21
Then she'll take Berlin! All the best with your decisions!
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@kanuck1 (4394)
9 Aug 21
@DianneN No doubt Berlin has its charm! Yes, not all choices are up to us.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
Heard Berlin was a pretty city. I have no say in where they choose to live, unfortunately.
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@FourWalls (62063)
• United States
9 Aug 21
I’m from Manhattan. According to the mileage calculator, I’m 750 miles from Manhattan! (I’m actually closer to Manhattan, Kansas!) $50K a year? Dang, what….oh, yeah, they have mobsters to pay. And people in the mafia, too, not just the politicians.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
In Jersey? Probably. Not much in the way of city services either.
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@GreatMartin (23677)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
9 Aug 21
One never knows what the 'market' will be like next year--now it seems like a sellers market but I don't think that will last. We used to have a 'summer home' in Lake Hiawatha, New Jersey--I don't know what my dad eventually sold it for but the Lake became a 'suburb' for Manhattan commuters and he made a good amount of money!
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@TheHorse (205554)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Aug 21
I shudder to think what the houses I lived in as a kid are worth now. One was in the Berkeley Hills, with a view of all of the Golden Gate bridge from the back porch.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
It’s a seller’s market now for sure. It fluctuates as you know. I know where Lake Hiawatha is. Morris County I believe and not far from Manhattan. Your father must have made a killing! My son is in Ridgewood in Bergen County. 26 minutes to Manhattan by car, yet far enough away.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
@TheHorse Sounds amazing!
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
9 Aug 21
Woww...this seems to be a huge mansion...so is your son planning to buy this?
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
It’s just something he admires. He couldn’t afford this house in a million years. lol
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
@S4mmyboy Yes, it’s in New Jersey, but only 26 minutes to Manhattan by car. Best of both worlds.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
9 Aug 21
@DianneN ohhh I see.....ohkk....is this in New Jersey?
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
9 Aug 21
The house looks so big like a mansion I hope they will decide on what is best for them
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• Germany
9 Aug 21
@DianneN Yes. It is gorgeous Oh yes. It will be very difficult
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
Isn’t it gorgeous? Thanks! It’s going to be a very difficult decision. The females want the city and the males love the country life.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
9 Aug 21
The house is looking beautiful.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
9 Aug 21
Then?
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
It’s not his house, but it’s going to be beautiful when completed.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
@sjvg1976 He May or may not buy a new house, but he shouldn’t. He’s leasing his co-op in Manhattan, but next August he won’t be able to. There’s a three year maximum lease clause in his building. So he would have to either sell it or move back to Manhattan. Huge decision. He loves New Jersey!
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
9 Aug 21
Looks like a beautiful and quite neighbourhood..
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
It is very close to where he lives now, but someone else is building it for themselves.
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@jstory07 (134388)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Aug 21
I am sure they will make a good decision.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
They have one year to decide either to stay in New York City or sell their co-op.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
9 Aug 21
Not easy decisions for sure!
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
Exactly!
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
9 Aug 21
One of our friends did not want to move from Monte Carlo just because the "girls" were impressed when he said "I am from Monte Carlo". This house is creepy.
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
9 Aug 21
@DianneN Our friend was successful with girls, rich, very good looking, but the "Monte Carlo" in his opinion was the final touch.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
Sounds like the Ice Princess even though her skating rink is now only 15 minutes away instead of 45 not counting traffic. The house is unfinished and will definitely be gorgeous when completed.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
@LadyDuck Everyone has their thing
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@TheHorse (205554)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Aug 21
Those of us who are from Chicago are snobs about it. Many say they're from "Chicago" but are actually from Downer's Grove, Skokie, Evanston (where I was actually born), Aurora (famously, thanks to Wayne's World). (nose up in air emoji)
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@TheHorse (205554)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Aug 21
@DianneN Is that a distant suburb of Chicago? Heh. In Chicago, Bridgeport means where Mayor Daley grew up (I think). I find Connecticut (at least the parts I've visited) to be really pretty .
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
@TheHorse Connecticut is a very pretty and small state. And our governor is 100% better than Duh Santis in FL.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
I’m from Bridgeport, CT. Head is hanging down.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
9 Aug 21
That looks like it will be a beautiful home when it's all finished. Moving is a tough choice - I hope they find the best option
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
I would love to see the inside of that house when it’s completed, but oh, well. Thanks. They have one whole year to make a decision. He’s leasing his place to friends, but can only lease for a maximum of three years. So….decisions…..
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
9 Aug 21
@DianneN Oh yes, I wonder what they'll do with that bay window.... Well a year isn't a bad amount of time to make up a person's mind, but still it's a huge choice
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
10 Aug 21
wow, what a tax! and what a tough decision for them
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
10 Aug 21
@DianneN that is a hard decision to make
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@rakski It is. They have a year to decide what to do.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
10 Aug 21
That tax is awful, but deciding where to live is the real problem. Sell his place in NYC or live there.
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@just4him (305792)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Aug 21
That's a beauty! I love the architectural lines. I wouldn't want to pay those kinds of taxes either. The Ice Princess is a hoot! I wonder what they'll decide.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
Isn’t it gorgeous? I’d love to check out the inside when it’s completed. I’m sure the taxes on this house would be much more than the house my son was looking into. She’s a pip alright! lol Sigh…. We will know what happens by next August. Either sell their co-op or live in it. They can’t lease it for more than three years.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
@just4him His co-op has an HOA who made the decision. We can only lease or rent our FL condo for a certain amount of time. I’m not sure exactly, because I have no intention of ever letting strangers live in it.
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@just4him (305792)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Aug 21
@DianneN I didn't realize there was a timeline on leases. I like to visualize the insides of homes. That one is gorgeous inside, I'm sure. I'm sure you're right about the taxes.
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@Shiva49 (26196)
• Singapore
9 Aug 21
If this is just one house, then it is way too big for a small family. But then if your son has taken a liking to it and can afford it, why not?
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
This house is being built by its owners. Not for sale. My son has been looking at a different house, but that is a stretch for him. He has a nice large house right now which he should stay in until he decides whether or not he wants to move back to Manhattan next year or sell his co-op and live in New Jersey. It’s a huge decision for his wife and him. Time will tell.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@Shiva49 No problem. I’m sure you are very happy and proud of your son, as you should be. It’s key to have a place close to the tube, or in my son’s case, the subway. Very costly, too.
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@Shiva49 (26196)
• Singapore
10 Aug 21
@DianneN Thanks I think I misunderstood it, sorry. As is said, whatever floats our boats. My son has brought a centrally located apartment in London just opposite a tube station. We are happy for him. I recall thirty years ago buying an apartment to call it my own.
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@kobesbuddy (74484)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Aug 21
I'd be proud as could be, to say that I live in New Jersey! It's a lovely state:)
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
9 Aug 21
All states have something going for them!
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@kobesbuddy Well…..
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@kobesbuddy (74484)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Aug 21
@DianneN Even Michigan?????
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
10 Aug 21
So glad to hear the happy timber in your voice!!!!!!! that does sound like an interesting decision. Kids are funny when asked. Ours, (all born in Ohio) hated leaving Ohio but wanted to leave Indiana the minute we moved there!
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
10 Aug 21
Thanks! Kids! The main problem is that my son can’t lease his NY co-op for more than 3 years, so he either has to sell it or move back in. Huge decision.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@DocAndersen Very tough.
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@DianneN that is a tough decision...
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
10 Aug 21
it's a villa kind of house..must be beautiful from inside too
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
10 Aug 21
I agree. I’d love to see it when it’s finished and fully decorated.
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@DianneN (246525)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@ThatDisha I will if my son take a photo.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
10 Aug 21
@DianneN do share here also
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