Someone’s Secret Family Recipe

@DianneN (254926)
United States
August 10, 2021 12:51pm CST
A friend came over for an impromptu dinner at our house about 12 years ago and brought a salad and hot fudge sauce for dessert. We had the ice cream. Her hot fudge sauce was out of this world, so I asked her for the recipe. She refused to give it to me! Said it was a family recipe. Said she may use it in a cookbook. Said it’s her thing to bring to someone’s house. Oh, well. Turns out after 12 long years of asking, she finally gave me the recipe. It came with stipulations. No giving the recipe out to anyone ever including my own kids, calling it her recipe, and never bringing it to other homes that I visit. Well, I made it right in front of my kids. We all had the best hot fudge sundaes in the world with sprinkles, whipped cream, and a cherry on top. It’s now called Dianne’s Hot Fudge Sauce.
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@sallypup (69220)
• Centralia, Washington
10 Aug 21
You're a saucy burgler!
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@sallypup (69220)
• Centralia, Washington
10 Aug 21
@DianneN Even the pups want to know why I am laughing like a loony: "she coughed it up." Ow.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@sallypup . Glad you “got” it.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
Lol! She finally coughed it up.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Aug 21
I respect others not giving out certain recipes. Glad you have your own now. Enjoy!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
I don’t see what the big deal is. I’ve always shared recipes when asked for others to enjoy.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@CarolDM I understand slightly.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Aug 21
@DianneN Some are family recipes that want to be kept in the family. I have shared many on here as well. But not all.
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
10 Aug 21
Beat her to the patent
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
My kids joked a lot about that! We laughed our heads off.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
10 Aug 21
@DianneN I wonder if she raise her own cow, milked it and then made some 'secret butter!'
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
10 Aug 21
It had to have been homemade fudge4 with a secret ingredient.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
I have looked at so many recipes online and found nothing close. I think the secret ingredient is a pinch of salt. lol
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
16 Aug 21
@DianneN You never know.
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@NJChicaa (127172)
• United States
10 Aug 21
I HATE when people won't share their recipes
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
I agree! What’s the big deal? Sheesh!
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
10 Aug 21
It's so petty and stupid.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@kobesbuddy You know there are all kinds of oddballs in this world - even some friends.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
10 Aug 21
So before christening it to Dianne’s Hot Fudge Sauce, did you altered/ bring in any change in the recipe she shared with you? Gosh it took her 12 long years to share you the recipe.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
Lol! I followed it completely. Perfect!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@S4mmyboy No, sorry. It’s from Pixabay. Mine had mounds of whipped cream.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
10 Aug 21
@DianneN so the pic is yours?
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@snowy22315 (209132)
• United States
11 Aug 21
Shhh, don't tell her, or you will be her ex friend!
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@snowy22315 (209132)
• United States
11 Aug 21
@DianneN I would care, you can never have enough friends..especially those who have yummy recipes.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
@snowy22315 The rest of her cooking sucks.. Actually, we’ve been great friends for years and years. Unfortunately, she told me that she won’t go out with me and another couple anymore, because she doesn’t travel in our “social” circles. We think she’s losing her mind.
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
Ask me if I care at this point.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
11 Aug 21
Since is "Dianne's Hot Fudge Sauce" you can easily share the recipe guiltless
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
11 Aug 21
@DianneN Yes. It is Dianne's family secret
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
I sure can, but it’s a family secret.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
@allknowing Now it is
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@kaylachan (84867)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Aug 21
Sounds good.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
I’ll make it for you when we come to Florida!
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@LadyDuck (502738)
• Italy
11 Aug 21
I had a friend who refused to share a "secret recipe" for a very long time. I finally thought that the reason was because she bought "ready made" and had not a clue how it was made. After the Internet arrived in all homes, she shared... fishy!
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@LadyDuck (502738)
• Italy
11 Aug 21
@DianneN It was an Indian recipe not easy to find on books that we could buy in France or Monte Carlo, but not difficult to find in English on the Internet. I had the doubt when I ordered the same dish in an Indian Restaurant in Monaco and it tasted exactly the same.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
That’s hilarious! So was it a common recipe easily found online?
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
10 Aug 21
Those secret family recipes, what ta heck is that secretive? I'm glad you made the recipe, right in front of your kids! If people can't share a recipe,, what good is it anyway?
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
My feelings exactly. I’m ready to make flyers and hang them up all around town.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
11 Aug 21
@DianneN The picture looks very yummy. I bet she knew you would reveal the secret recipe in front of your kids so it is not a secret anymore. So will you take the recipe to other homes or just keep it at your home for whoever comes over and wants a hot fudge sundae?
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
11 Aug 21
@DianneN ok. I had no idea if she was joking or not when she told you not to tell anyone.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
12 Aug 21
@LindaOHio (222726)
• United States
11 Aug 21
Yum. I haven't had a hot fudge sundae in decades.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
I can make some for you with my secret recipe.
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@LindaOHio (222726)
• United States
11 Aug 21
@DianneN Thanks! We're on our way! :-)
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
10 Aug 21
people here sometimes do something similar to not giving the recipe - they give you the recipe BUT they don't mention certain ingredients so you can never make it taste as good as their "thing"
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
@aureategloom You’re right, but this was my first try at it. It called for a pinch of salt, so perhaps I gave it a larger pinch. I’m with your mom on that. I never understood why people are so stingy with their recipes.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
10 Aug 21
That’s worse than not giving you the recipe at all.
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
10 Aug 21
@DianneN i agree, but still - it gives you space to try and add some ingredients you think that might be good for the recipe, so you can make your own in the end my mom asked my cousin for cake recipe and she reminded her that she won't list everything, my mom was like: then don't write it at all
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Aug 21
Just add another secret ingredient - and the sauce is yours . So was there some super big secret behind your friend's hot fudge sauce?
@divalounger (6182)
• United States
11 Aug 21
really good hot fudge! Oh yum! How lucky you are!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
Finally lucky! It took a good long 12 years!
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
10 Aug 21
Yum that looks good.
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@wolfgirl569 (135966)
• Marion, Ohio
11 Aug 21
Glad she gave you the recipe
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
Me, too
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• United States
11 Aug 21
Well you didn't actually give the recipe to your kids, they just watched you make it It must really be good (the picture looks scrumptious) . I do love a good hot fudge sundae
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
11 Aug 21
True, but it’s there if they want it. I give freely.
@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
10 Aug 21
Now you claim it and name it after you. Good job.
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